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[–] UncleArthur@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Breakfast

Elevenses

Brunch

Lunch

Afternoon tea

Dinner

Supper

Midnight feast

[–] Tippon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 days ago

Alright, calm down Frodo

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 7 points 2 days ago

But what about second breakfast?

[–] fartsparkles@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Elevenses is GOAT.

[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 21 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I guess highlanders just starve?

[–] SavinDWhales@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Who wants to live forever?

[–] Klear@quokk.au 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There can be only one, and he doesn't call it anything.

[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 7 points 2 days ago

It's a kind of magic

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

They asked multiple people but couldn't understand a word they were saying

[–] Zombie@feddit.uk 1 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Fuck this shite xenophobic bigoted patter

[–] Small_Quasar@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Ironically at least some of the Highland accents are often cited as the clearest English and the easiest to understand for non-native speakers.

I went to Madagascar 20 years ago. I turned on the radio in my cabin and it was tuned to BBC World Service. It was a bit of a trip hearing another tuechter's voice in the south Malagasy desert.

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[–] Skua@kbin.earth 2 points 2 days ago

No wonder Orkney and Shetland have left altogether. Maybe they moved back in with Norway

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[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 8 points 2 days ago

I'm from the North but I tend to use dinner for the evening meal, rather than tea. Dinner in my mind is the "big" meal of the day.

[–] waz@feddit.uk 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What meal is this? The middle of the day? Or the one after work/school? Because I feel it’s incorrect for the east/west split in the south.

  • Lunch in the middle of the day
  • Tea after school - when you’re a kid
  • Dinner after work - as a grownup
  • Supper is optional and before bed. (Bad for you)

Location: new forest/hants.

[–] rjek@feddit.uk 6 points 2 days ago

I'm in Manchester and your interpretation is 100% correct. Although... I did grow up in Hythe.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

In Northern Scotland, they just don't eat.

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I'm so far north i'm not even on the map. We mostly eat fish and wind for our 'tea'.

[–] Small_Quasar@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

We just can't afford the added transport costs they plop on everything. Everyone knows 300 miles is such a ridiculously long and insurmountable distance.

[–] HermitBee@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not sure about that. I know a couple of Scottish guys who walked 1000 miles. Alright, it took them 2 stints but if they did that, then 300 shouldn't be impossible at all, particularly not with a car.

[–] mech@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago

So they walked 500 miles and then they walked 500 more?
Were they the ones who fell down at your door?

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 days ago

Yes. These all have different meanings to me.

Supper is a meal typically served in the evening, it’s the last meal of the day, but it’s informal.

Dinner is more formal, an afternoon meal with social elements and/or formality. It can be the last meal but doesn’t have to be.

Tea is an afternoon snack, typically served with tea, hence the name. Tea might be skipped if you have an early dinner.

[–] GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

I was so confused when I first heard someone ask "what's for tea?". Uhm, tea I guess, maybe a biscuit??

[–] DakRalter@thelemmy.club 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In primary school in the 90s, we'd call lunch dinner (dinner time, dinner money, school dinners) but if you brought your own food it was packed lunch. But at home, we'd say dinner for the evening meal.

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago

They still do that at my kid's school, so he gets two dinners a day. Chaos reigns.

[–] fozid@feddit.uk 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Tea is a delicious hot drink, I have a little milk in mine. Breakfast is the first meal of the day after getting up. Lunch is a midday meal. Afternoon tea is a posh cup of tea, with a pot, and some snacks like scones, cakes and finger sandwiches. Dinner is an evening main meal Supper is a late evening snack.

I'm from the north west.

[–] Guilvareux@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago

I’m from the middle of the midlands. This is absolutely correct.

[–] Gentryfried@feddit.uk 4 points 2 days ago

"Dinner," tea is daft, twee and confusing. I'm from + Live in Tea heartlands though

[–] thehatfox@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Tea. Dinner only used for Sundays or Christmas.

[–] Psaldorn@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I've lived in all these regions, I just say food now. Safer that way

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 5 points 2 days ago

Followed by "psspsspsspss" to anyone within earshot

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dinner is the main meal. Lunch/tea is a smaller meal.

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago

Lunch is the main meal. Breakfast is a rushed coffee at best. Dinner is an unenthusiastic munch that takes place anytime between 4-11pm

[–] MurrayL@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

IIRC this is a class divide indicator. The fact that class maps well onto geography is just correlation.

Middle class has breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

Working class has breakfast, dinner, and tea.

Supper is an outlier and definitely more unusual. In my experience it usually indicates a smaller evening meal.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 1 points 2 days ago

southern parents who lived for some time in the north, evening meal was still dinner but came with the offer of 'sauce or owt?' pronounced something like saucer aaht

[–] tetris11@feddit.uk 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

https://www.etymonline.com/word/supper

Formerly, the last of the three meals of the day (breakfast, dinner, and supper); now applied to the last substantial meal of the day when dinner is taken in the middle of the day, or to a late meal following an early evening dinner. Supper is usually a less formal meal than late dinner.

My guess would be food after a late work shift, so probably working class

[–] kip@piefed.zip 3 points 2 days ago

if you call dinner the main meal of the day, the earlier you start work, the earlier you'll have it

[–] fox2263@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Annoyingly, lunch is dinner (dinner ladies at school) but also the evening meal is dinner if I haven’t had dinner (lunch) 😂 then it’s tea time.

[–] sh3llcmdr@feddit.uk 4 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Breakfast Dinner Tea Supper (optional)

My test is what you called the school staff who served your midday meal. Was it a "dinner lady" or "lunch lady"?!

[–] thehatfox@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The school thing is a good point. We called hot meals at school dinners, that were served by dinner ladies.

But we also had packed lunches that we ate out of lunchboxes.

[–] sh3llcmdr@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago

Damn you and your logic!!

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[–] GandalftheBlack@feddit.org 3 points 2 days ago

Having moved from a tea-saying region of England to Northern Ireland, I haven't heard anyone say "tea" around here for an evening meal

[–] urno@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dinner = posh Tea = pov Supper = aristocracy

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[–] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago

I grew up saying 'Tea' for the evening meal but changed to 'Dinner' at university - just to fit in.

When talking with my parents though, I still say Tea.

It very much does come down I think to what was historically the main meal of the day - which makes this both a regional divide, and a class divide.

[–] thlibos@thelemmy.club 2 points 2 days ago

Dinner is around 2pm and the biggest meal of the day. Supper is around 7 pm.

[–] smeg@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dinner if it's hot, lunch/tea if it's cold, supper if you're in an Enid Blyton story.

This country is obviously in decline, cold tea

[–] Lembot_0006@programming.dev 2 points 2 days ago

They tried to teach me English in school ~30 years ago. At that moment it was "dinner" for the meal near the midday and "supper" for the evening meal. Breakfast for morning.

Sounded quite logical and convenient.

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