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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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Anarchy is very cool, until someone has the wrong opinion.

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[–] BonkTheAnnoyed@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

Okay, I'll bite. I need to add to my block list anyway.

Y'all have heard of the Nazi Bar problem, right? Paradox of intolerance? Which turns out not to be a paradox after all? You should def look that one up rather than waiting for me to type it all out.

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (2 children)

People like to refer to the paradox of tolerance but always skip out on the inconvenient bit:

""Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them.

— In this formulation, I do not imply, for instance, that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies; as long as we can counter them by rational argument and keep them in check by public opinion, suppression would certainly be most unwise. But we should claim the right to suppress them if necessary even by force; for it may easily turn out that they are not prepared to meet us on the level of rational argument, but begin by denouncing all argument; they may forbid their followers to listen to rational argument, because it is deceptive, and teach them to answer arguments by the use of their fists or pistols.

We should therefore claim, in the name of tolerance, the right not to tolerate the intolerant.""

If you are not able to rationally argue why we shouldn't be bigoted, I don't know what to tell you.

[–] Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net 2 points 33 minutes ago* (last edited 33 minutes ago)

i think people not knowing how to actually win an argument against a bigot is exactly the reason there are so many these days

shit's easy. not that they'll admit defeat but getting them babbling irrational nonsense takes very little debating skills. and when they inevitably start throwing ad hominems, then the mods have legitimate grounds to kick them out.

[–] cypherpunks@lemmy.ml 1 points 18 minutes ago* (last edited 17 minutes ago)

If you are not able to rationally argue why we shouldn’t be bigoted, I don’t know what to tell you.

it's not that people can't, but spaces which have unlimited tolerance for sealions suggesting that it's necessary to argue that are likely to have less interesting discussions than spaces which do not 🙄

Lemmy is a Tankie Bar.

[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

So how is that different when it’s online vs offline?

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 3 hours ago

I don't love moderating my communities at all. I barely even read the reports. 🤷‍♂️

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 7 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

right-wingers aren't allowed on leftist spaces. nothing positive comes from that.

[–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 16 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

You know that anarchism doesn't mean no rules right? It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works on Lemmy or any social media of this type for that matter.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

It just means no rulers, but that's not how it works

...anywhere in reality.

[–] SalamenceFury@piefed.social 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Humans spent thousands of years without rulers. Also, look at all the grassroots organizations trying to stop fascism in America right now.

Leaders are dispensable AND disposable. We do not need them.

[–] NaibofTabr@infosec.pub 1 points 47 minutes ago

Humans spent thousands of years without rulers.

orly? which thousands?

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 hours ago

Toddler thoughts

[–] definitely_AI@feddit.online 40 points 9 hours ago (7 children)

Looking at you, leftymemes

ugh

groupthink central, do NOT divert an inch from the state sanctioned opinions, OR ELSE

[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 25 points 7 hours ago

It's all fun and games until you say that China is wearing socialism as a cloak the same way America wears Christianity or Israel wears anti-semitism.

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[–] troed@fedia.io 31 points 10 hours ago

This is very true - I usually refer to it as "BOFH behavior". I think it stems from many people who end up hosting or moderating feeling that they themselves have been marginalised before so "now they're going to show them!".

A great example is a Mastodon instance where if you don't agree with the site's admin they'll block you at the server level instead of from their personal account. The belief is that if they have an opinion that opinion must then be enforced for everyone else under their control too.

[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Just tell them that moral absolutism benefits the status-quo.

Because it's true. It does. I think it's actually a psyop by the capitalists to prevent socialism ever taking a foothold or affecting their money. Capitalists are afraid of positive incremental change, so they tricked leftists into being afraid of it too.

the spiciest take

nobody wants to change the game, they're just mad that they're not winning it

[–] TwodogsFighting@lemdro.id 12 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Some of those who moderate postses!

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[–] cypherpunks@lemmy.ml 18 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (12 children)

unmoderated internet spaces are quickly overrun with bigotry, csam, and spam.

if, in the name of "free speech", you only moderate the csam and spam, the space will be primarily occupied by people looking for a forum that welcomes bigotry.

respect to @db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com for rm'ing bigotry and not letting childish anarchist free speech ideals cause lemmy.dbzer0.com to be a nazi bar 🥂

see also:

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 10 hours ago (13 children)

It's a misunderstanding of anarchy to equate it with either total chaos or total control. True anarchism is about opposing coercive authority, not creating a new, rigid authority that dictates what discourse is acceptable.

You can absolutely oppose bigotry and harm (which are coercive actions) without resorting to silencing anyone who doesn't conform to a specific ideological viewpoint. Genuine community defense is about voluntary association and preventing harassment, not about restricting the exchange of ideas.

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[–] yucandu@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago

Yeah the problem is that these people are deciding that "I am a nazi and I think white people are the supreme race and I want to install a fascist state" and "I don't think China is actually socialist" are both nazi, fascist, bigoted speech, and then people like you are saying "no that doesn't happen they only go after the bad stuff every single time and never get anything wrong".

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