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Don't plan for the apocalypse. Plan for everything to stay the same, but slightly worse, because that's historically what happens when everybody thinks the world is going to end.
Do the things you want to do now. It only gets harder as you get older, especially if you're interested in having kids someday.
Yep, do the fun shit now!! Invest a little but dont scrimp. Buy the fancy coffee sometimes. Go on a trip. You could get cancer next year.
Dont ever plan on there being a concrete future. Live in the now. Save a little bit of money for if you get fired etc.
You've heard of a "bucket list", but have you tried Apocalypse FOMO?
I've stockpiled alcohol.
In the end times I'll be the guy running the local pub.
I want enough alchohol and pills to not be doing stuff in the end times.
Sounds like a good excuse to bust out my homebrew equipment and get back into it!
Define fall of civilisation, because you make it sound like the end of times, while for me it could mean to go back to how my grandparents lived as kids.
Please tell me you predate the internet, I don't want to be THAT old
Yes, I'm just old enough to have seen people smoking in planes.
Now I don't feel as old lol, we were on dial up when I was a teen and finally got access to high speed when I hit college, then shortly after I got high speed for myself at my apt. Before that there was smoking in malls and restaurants.
Not the person you replied to but:
Technically I predate the internet
That doesn't exactly mean much tho...
I was born in 2002, y'all westerners got the internet very early, but internet didn't really exist in the part of China where I lived up till my family emigrated... many developing countries also didin't have internet...
Parents didn't really use the internet till like 2014/2015, and the first thing they did was make a WeChat account and now they just go on there all the time lmfao
Dance like there’s no tomorrow, because there isn’t
More raves.
I mean, I've been to many, and yet still feels like a better use of time than this career I'm building.
Open a Roth IRA today and put 5-10% of your income towards it. 23 is a great time to start dating. Download some apps, read a dating advice book. Join some social media dating groups.
Not that this isn't good advice, but in the context of the fall of civilization, I don't think that IRA is going to be helpful at all.
The thing is, he's asking for things he won't regret, so like, that's kind of a limiting factor here.
well one. go on a date. you have progressive ecological destruction going on so enjoy as much nature as possible. I would choose outdoor things over indoor if they are in an interesting area. So a concert in a field meh but like going to something at ravinia (its in chicagoland) and getting lawn seats then yeah. have you been to a ren faire? Better yet is there an sca group in your area? try and go to one of their things. Any non for profit cons like dragon con or gen con. Go to any state parks, national parks, zoos, museums, or whatnot you have not gotten to that you can get to. Do any activity you have preference for. For me that would be like martial art classes as I don't like sports and its kinda cool. travel by bike, walking, and public transit. Bike in particular. If you think civilization will fall then a good bike that you like and are familiar with in good repair and kept up on maintenance will be huge.
De-ideology oneself:
Ideologies/prejudices/assumption-rivers/"religions" REACT, & that's fatal, in The Apocalypse.
Vipassana meditation makes one less controlled by reacting & more FREE to CHOOSE one's course-of-action in situational-crunches.
ANY variant of letting-go-of-thoughts/cognitions/mechanism, simply BEing AWARENESS, whether Theravada Buddhist, or any other, whether tied-to-slow-steady-breathing, or to whole-skin-awareness, or whatever, will work, but combined-arms, removing all the mechanistic "doing" of mind, & becoming only BEing, would be right.
Circle-drumming & surfing both improve this mental-capability, btw..
Zag, when your-death wants you zigging, if you see what the principle means..
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Civilization is on the decline, well past its peak, and probably will be for another hundred years at least. At a personal level I'd advise you not to worry about it too much. The things you can do to make the world a better place are the same things they've always been.
Fight. You will regret not actually doing anything against this shit.
Posting on the Internet, calling your representative and buying badges is not doing anything, by the way.
Calling your reps is doing something. It’s the bare minimum, and by no means enough, but it’s the first step everyone should take when they feel strongly about something. Constituent Services offices (the staffers you’ll talk to) absolutely track every call and they make a specific note about what you called for. This is one of the few ways to put pressure on our elected officials without being a billionaire. Again, it’s the bare minimum amount of engagement and won’t solve anything on its own, but it’s one of the tools in our toolbox. Please don’t discourage folks from calling their reps.
I honestly have never called a rep, I have no idea what I'd say, except I hate them all and everything they're doing. Is that helpful? Not really
It’s super easy, you say whatever you want to say. For example: if there’s a bill you want your rep to vote no on, tell them that. If there’s a set of issues you want them to change their stance on, tell them that. These calls usually don’t last more than a minute, and it’s not really a conversation, it’s just you telling them what you want. I realize it can be a bit daunting, but it’s what they’re there for.
I'll have to look into it. I live in one of the reddest states so it's not like it'll help anything at all. But at least this year i'll vote in midterms too (I never have done that before, didn't really know what they were. It still won't make a difference in MAGA land though. we can try).
There was an AI datacenter trying to get in here, all the people voted no, the politician still got bought off and it's coming anyway. Literally no one here wants this shit. Politicians are garbage.
thank you. was like what with adding that to the others although I have no idea what buying badges means.
In what sense to fight? Go outside and fight with other people for the rest of the resources? Sorry, I didn't quite understand your question.
They mean sink low enough so you have nothing to lose xD
