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some scrapes and sore as fuck, but no broken bones and no broken noggin

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[–] Fmstrat@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Why oh why is this not in a cycling community? Those poor neglected community souls!

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Absolutely. Cars and most country's nearly ubiquitous car-centric infrastructure transforms the otherwise harmless bicycle ride into a fraught and sometimes downright dangerous experience. Unless you have the luxury of living somewhere that has gone through the concerted political process of rejecting motornormativity and transforming your infrastructure to one that accommodates human-scale transportation (We're all looking enviously at you, Netherlands), helmets are just one of many externalities that we must shoulder as cyclists to accommodate our ultimately ruinous and unsustaimable driving-as-default policies.

[–] Avicenna@programming.dev 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

no imagine this but on your skull and you are forty so this will take five years to heal ~~completely~~ %95

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] glibg10b@lemmy.zip 25 points 20 hours ago

The curvature of spacetime caused the ground to accelerate towards OP

[–] malle_yeno@pawb.social 42 points 1 day ago (3 children)

And this is why my opinion of someone drops by ten points whenever I hear them make fun of someone for wearing safety gear

Remember: it's very hot to care about your own life and wellbeing~

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 21 hours ago

PPE is drip and you can't change my mind!

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 2 points 20 hours ago

How do you keep track of all the different levels of respect and disdain needed to support this rating system? /s

[–] jumjummy@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There’s a saying with motorcycle riders called “dress for the slide, not the ride”

[–] isVeryLoud@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago

Also ATGATT (all the gear, all the time)

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

And of course, get a new one and destroy that thing so no one else wears it thinking they're safe. In a perfect world you wouldn't have to say it but this is far from a perfect world.

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yeah, this is one thing that troubles me about biking. Even if the helmet never gets damaged, they are still effectively disposable and have something of a shelf life. Over time the little bubbles in the styrofoam pop, and the structural integrity degrades. So it's a good idea to get a new one at least every few years.

[–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

Came here specifically to make sure this comment was made

[–] Leviathan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

True! Mine's probably getting to the point where replacement should be considered.

oh for sure, the first thing i did was go to the shop and get a new one

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 67 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I flipped my bike in 2016 and my helmet saved me twice, once when it hit the asphalt, once when my bike came over and smashed into the top.

Split it almost comically in half.

I kept it on my desk when I worked on bikes. Every single person who bought a bike got interrogated about whether they have a helmet. Every single person got the lecture on helmet safety. If they seemed iffy or unconvinced, I'll ask them if they want this to be their skull instead. That convinced them every time.

Some people don't think you need a helmet until you fucking need a hekmet. But then it's too late.

Congrats o surviving the crash, make sure to replace ASAP! (though I doubt you need a reminder lol)

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I watched a guy fumble with his pedals at 0 mph, fall down and hit his head on concrete. Major Neuro trauma.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I'm gonna be the really unpopular guy and ask for some kind of evidence of this. I don't want to imply insincerity but every helmet thread on the internet has some one-liner about massive stationary trauma like this one, and as a clumsy cyclist myself it doesn't pass my gut check (Even when I remind myself that skull-cracking cement curbs are car infrastructure). I know lots of cyclists in person and none of them have an example of such a particular and severe injury. If you don't have a link to news story or social post, if someone else here does? I either want to prove my gut wrong and be put in my place, or stand up on a soapbox over this one. Sorry, I don't want to be adversarial, but I do want facts in my helmet threads.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (4 children)

It was always wild to me that people just didn't want to wear them. Like. I like having a brain that functions. I do not give a shit about this idea of it not being fashionable. My brain is more important than fashion!

[–] Seleni@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

The excuse I hear the most often (aside from the whole ‘it doesn’t look cool’ thing) is that why should they wear a helmet; they’re safe, skilled cyclists; obviously they’ll only get injured if someone hits them, and that won’t happen because people are supposed to drive carefully.

I have to admit I never got this one either. My aunt got her bike tire caught in railroad ties and flipped. I skidded on some gravel and couldn’t recover in time. Even if you’re the safest, most careful, most skilled cyclist in the world, accidents can still happen.

Not to mention some drivers don’t drive safe! And even the ones that do might not see a cyclist, since cyclists are small and fast.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I'm a safe and skilled cyclist. But my society makes me bike at speed alongside cars, on infrastructure meant for cars. That's why I wear one. Cars will get you eventually, either the cagers themselves or some jacked up infrastructure they destroyed that never even had you in mind.

[–] Seleni@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

The excuse I hear the most often (aside from the whole ‘it doesn’t look cool’ thing) is that why should they wear a helmet; they’re safe, skilled cyclists; obviously they’ll only get injured if someone hits them, and that won’t happen because people are supposed to drive carefully.

I have to admit I never got this one either. My aunt got her bike tire caught in railroad ties and flipped. I skidded on some gravel and couldn’t recover in time. Even if you’re the safest, most careful, most skilled cyclist in the world, accidents can still happen.

Not to mention some drivers don’t drive safe! And even the ones that do might not see a cyclist, since cyclists are small and fast.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

They also shield from sunlight while allowing air flow.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

I'd much rather have the wind in my hair, but I'd even moreso rather have my brains intact after I get nailed by an F350.

I've hosted some biking events with friends/youth groups/family and one thing I make clear is show up with a helmet or don't show up at all. With the caveat that if you don't have one, I have extras and will provide one if you need one, and I have bought helmets for people before because they couldn't afford one.

I don't care how you feel on your own rides, just wear a proper helmet. Or you don't ride with me.

As for fashion, my partner and I have matching helmets that match our usual riding gear, and i made them a 3d printed unicorn horn to stick on their helmet that immediately got stuck on and now I have to promise to make a new one for every new helmet they get. Personalize your helmet and who cares if it's fashionable.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] teolan@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When someone asks why I always cycle with a helmet I always show them this video 😆

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 17 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Cycling without a helmet is truly one of those things that have literally no point. Like legit why would anyone do that. Its a 2 kilo thing you strap to your head that just instantly reduces the chance for you to die(i dont know the statistics for this but its like actually a huge reduction)

[–] cr1cket@sopuli.xyz 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Two kilos? That's heavier than a motorbike helmet.

A cheap default bike helmet has maybe 250g. That's a 40 euro helmet.

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 hours ago

Maybe, i was really just guessing. My sense for wheight is really bad.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

As a member of Gen X, we didn't wear helmets as kids (because the helmet usually cost more than the bike) and the habit stuck for a lot of people.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

For me it's a habit, 80s kid, I just don't even think about it. I don't ride very often either, only a couple times a year and usually on paths. But that doesn't excuse it :(

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 1 points 16 hours ago

I can honestly say I've owned plenty of bicycles, but zero bicycle helmets.

Motorcycles are a different story though; I always wear a full-face helmet.

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[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I just wish I could find more stylish ones. Or more biodegradable ones. Or both.

Yeah yeah, I'll keep wearing them of course.

The thing that drives me crazy, and something I see way more often, is people riding at night with no lights. Terrible idea. Surround your shit with lights. Be a wheeling christmas tree if you have to, or it is only a matter of time before you will be hit.

Also rear-view mirrors are underrated, though I wish companies would manufacture ones that are more sturdy, less floppy.

[–] Beehaw_Girl@beehaw.org 9 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Biodegradable bicycle helmet:

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 2 points 17 hours ago

Alright, heading to the grocery store then...

[–] sukhmel@programming.dev 2 points 20 hours ago

And more stylish

[–] uniquethrowagay@feddit.org 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I won't go back to riding without a mirror, not in the city at least.

[–] saigot@lemmy.ca 1 points 13 hours ago

How do you have them positioned? I have mirrors on my bike but they kinda useless, the slight movements I make on the handlebars+bumps in the road make them too hard to see. If I put them more at the center of my handlebars so they move less then I can't see anything but my own bike.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 1 points 17 hours ago

Ugh...Ive seen cyclist ram into the back of cars looking too long in their mirrors.

[–] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

Same. They should be on bikes by default.

[–] brachypelmide@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 day ago

helmets FTW.

i still remember when i was walking around my countryside in november on some very slippery ice. expectedly, i slipped and fell straight on my head. the only thing that saved me was that i was still in my airsoft uniform from a match earlier that day, and the helmet absorbed the impact.

Nothing like seeing a windscreen wiper shaped indentation in your helmet to reaffirm that wearing one was the right choice.

[–] cristian64@reddthat.com 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Out of curiosity, how fast were you and was it a casual ride?

At my average (or even maximum speed), it's hard to imagine that I would get to that level or damage on a helmet unless I'm run over by car.

[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 day ago

I broke my wrist and fractured 2 ribs doing 15kph. Also wore a helmet, can't remember how bad it looked, but had to be replaced.

It doesn't need much to be unlucky.

[–] Grass@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

I just rode 40 min not realizing my helmet wasn't buckled because I had a respirator for allergies and road particulate which has it's own chin strap

HELL YEAH safety

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 11 points 1 day ago

That was almost your calculator!

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