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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 3 points 14 hours ago

They call it the "reverse praying mantis".

[–] terry_jerry@sh.itjust.works 54 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Good way to give a whole generation a choking kink

[–] hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 6 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

you're telling me i can watch the light drain from my lover's eyes and fuck the man at the same time?

[–] riquisimo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

This better not awaken anything in me. ...or un-awaken...? or something.

[–] oeuf@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 hours ago
[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 13 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

So is it actually illegal to do that or are they just teaching for… reasons?

[–] Ummdustry@sh.itjust.works 8 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I mean, unless you've got explicit consent it is assault, and if you go too far it's manslaughter. I don't think there's anything specifically on the books though

[–] MJKee9@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Where i live, even if you get consent, the choker could still be prosecuted if something goes wrong and/or the chokee changes their mind.

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 37 points 1 day ago (2 children)

90% of the kids in those classes would never have thought to try it otherwise, but now that it's mentioned in school, they'll be thinking about it...

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 12 hours ago

Maybe if internet porn didn't exist

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Isn't this the exact kind of reasoning anti-sex-ed fanatics use? "Well now that they know about sex they're going to be more likely to try it!"

Having more knowledge about this isn't a bad thing. It seems like they're teaching legal ramifications for non-consensual acts or for going too far, probably with a focus on personal ramifications as well.

[–] oeuf@slrpnk.net 1 points 4 hours ago

I agree. And I think people will be less likely to do it non-consensually if they they know that the other person knows it's illegal.

[–] Quokka@quokk.au 9 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

This feels pretty needlessly anti-kink?

[–] GiveOver@feddit.uk 5 points 12 hours ago

Makes it more fun. The lawmakers know what they're doing

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

So, it's okay to strangle or suffocate someone if they aren't having sex? Did they need a new law for this?

You just made this kink more taboo, you fucking idiots.

[–] voxthefox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago

This is going to backfire as gloriously as DARE did in the US for drugs

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ohhh, now I get it. They're saying students are being taught that strangling is illegal, not that it's illegal to teach them about strangling.

[–] bookmeat@fedinsfw.app 7 points 1 day ago

My first read on that was they were teaching them how to do the the kind of strangling that's illegal during sex.

[–] comrade_twisty@feddit.org 1 points 17 hours ago

No no, it's illegal to strangle them while teaching.

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 1 points 19 hours ago
[–] obvs@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I mean, unless they want you to and survive.