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[-] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 138 points 10 months ago

I thought it was gonna be 3-4 times a day, but in a week? Those are rookie numbers

[-] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 10 months ago

their problem is that they're a god damn prude, only 4 times per week? call the pope we have a new patron saint

[-] Neato@kbin.social 111 points 10 months ago

Well, femboys are men who dress feminine. Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men? Because you can certainly be attracted to women with penises (trans women) and be straight and be attracted to feminine-presenting men and be gay.

Personally I think you should just embrace whatever you find attractive and not worry about the sexuality labels. But I know not every society allows just permissive views.

[-] azertyfun@sh.itjust.works 15 points 10 months ago

Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men?

yes

More seriously, in my experience androgynous/GNC features are widely considered attractive in bisexual circles because they combine attractive features of multiple genders, which is at least twice as many attractive things.

However someone discovering themselves as "not straight" might not have enough understanding of the relationship between gender and attraction to answer your question.
In my case as I hit puberty I realized I was attracted to girls, so I thought "ok I'm straight". Years and many ignored signs later I realized I found feminine men hot, so I thought "I'm straight so it's because they're feminine". Then like a year or two later I caught myself thinking a definitely-not-effeminate actor was hot (not for the first time) and the other shoe dropped. Yeah, I'm a dumbass, but point is that it's much easier to put a label on oneself and go from there, than to deconstruct something as complex as gender and attraction.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[-] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

This has been the most informative ted talk I've seen in years.

[-] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 7 points 10 months ago

Thanks for clarifying that you were talking about trans women.

[-] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 74 points 10 months ago

Can't blame them though, femboys are hot

[-] Coasting0942@reddthat.com 76 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

OP is straight.

Femboys make him hard.

Ergo, femboys are women.

Source: Johnny Bravo

Edit: So begins OPs first step into internet research to disprove me….

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@sh.itjust.works 31 points 10 months ago

typing to the goggle Johnny...bravo....femboys...hard...

[-] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 10 months ago

True and real

[-] CyanFen@lemmy.one 67 points 10 months ago

Am I the only one who feels like exclusively jerking to their SO is weird as fuck?

[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

It sounds like a thing they teach you at sunday school

[-] cobra89@beehaw.org 6 points 10 months ago

Unless your SO is Scarlett Johansson, but I'm pretty sure even Colin Jost jerks it to someone else now and then.

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[-] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

It’s insane and disappointing how many people think like that today. People who can’t seperate fantasy and reality and are so insecure about other people’s thought that they want to dictate them.

[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 47 points 10 months ago

3-4 times this week

Pffffft

[-] So_zetta_slowpoke@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago

Those are rookie numbers.

[-] Toneswirly@lemmy.world 44 points 10 months ago

Geez, it's almost like rigid guidelines on sexuality are a farse.

[-] ichmagrum@feddit.de 6 points 10 months ago
[-] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 10 months ago

ONLY 4 times a week?

Those are rookie numbers, git gud noob.

[-] Mandarbmax@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago

4 times a week while in a serious relationship though is a lot more than 4 times a week while single.

[-] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 10 months ago

skill issue

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 7 points 10 months ago

Anyone who doesn't nut once a day counts as asexual imo

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[-] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 41 points 10 months ago

Maybe not as straight as he wants to think he is

[-] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 40 points 10 months ago

Save your shame for when you're nutting 15 times a day to furry scat porn and guys inserting maggots into their pee hole.

[-] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 28 points 10 months ago

You didn't have to type that out

[-] Jimmyeatsausage@lemmy.world 21 points 10 months ago
[-] Krauerking@lemy.lol 6 points 10 months ago

ಠ⁠︵⁠ಠ

[-] Getallen@feddit.nl 11 points 10 months ago

You were browsing e621 with the blacklist disabled didnt you?

[-] qyron@sopuli.xyz 10 points 10 months ago
[-] Colour_me_triggered@lemm.ee 14 points 10 months ago

All the imagined horrors of fiction cannot compare to the darkness that dwells within the hearts of men. Go take a look at motherless dot com if you don't believe me (I'm not linking that shit here you'll have to do some typing).

[-] qyron@sopuli.xyz 7 points 10 months ago

All the imagined horrors of fiction cannot compare to the darkness that dwells within the hearts of men.

You had me with this part.

Go take a look at motherless dot com if you don't believe me (I'm not linking that shit here you'll have to do some typing).

How low does that score in the internet?

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[-] Mrderisant@lemm.ee 4 points 10 months ago

I'm really scared of that. Can I get a sentence of clarity on it?

[-] Krauerking@lemy.lol 5 points 10 months ago

Oh... Motherless... Yeah I went to that site as a kid....

Don't. Just don't think about it ever again. Like trust me. Don't.

[-] jbk@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 10 months ago
[-] Krauerking@lemy.lol 6 points 10 months ago

No, seriously though you don't want to know. I know it's hard to say that without it sounding more appealing but like.... I can tell you exactly the day, the chair I sat in and the images that are burned into my brain from the afternoon I decided to look up that site.

It's ok to stay oblivious. This one is better not even given thought towards.

If you must know something, It's a social media site, it allows image and video and text sharing. It's all.... Truly awful.

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[-] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

Bro please don’t ever cause me to associate femboys and maggots please

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[-] FQQD@feddit.de 35 points 10 months ago

I mean, who doesn't

[-] kingcarlosxiii@lemmy.ca 33 points 10 months ago

Wait…ya’ll thinking of your Spouses/Significant Others? Honest question. The only time I ever thought about my spouse while masturbating was before they were my spouse.

[-] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Jesus gives you a pass if it's your property.

Edit: OH now the Christians are mad for suggesting woman are less than human?!

[-] SternburgExport@feddit.de 32 points 10 months ago
[-] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 10 months ago

Damn. Outrageous! What is society doing to our men? Making them horny over feminine looking men? 🤔 what will the l2sgbtqia do to us next? Make me feminine?/ 🥺 please

[-] programmer_belch@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 10 months ago
[-] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 16 points 10 months ago

I have masturbated to worse things...

[-] sunnie@sopuli.xyz 11 points 10 months ago
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[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 14 points 10 months ago

We're missing that /u/femboyaddict was taken.

[-] ichmagrum@feddit.de 6 points 10 months ago

That's a damn weird concept of relationship loyalty.

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