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[–] Digit@lemmy.wtf 26 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I'm glad I wasn't Disney'd in childhood. Better to know reality, than be deluded, made fragile and crippled by reality. Face the horror. Stop lying to children. Children become adults.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 28 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Grow up on a farm and you really have no delusions about how the world works. Although I did think teachers lived at the school so I was unclear with how Mrs Thatcher got pregnant.

[–] Digit@lemmy.wtf 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

how Mrs Thatcher got pregnant

Presumably, alcohol involved.

Although, that too likely still naive.

... The perversions in the crooked cabal... they're into a lot of really really vile stuff.

[Edit: Oh... or are you talking about a different Mrs Thatcher than Thatcher pulling the strings... or grabbing buns or babies or something.  Scary ugly lady, with scary gesticulation.?]

[–] FelixCress@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Presumably, alcohol involved.

Oh we love you Mrs Thatcher, like your old man likes a brew;

such a lad your husband Denis when he's had a drink or two.

Sure he'll take a pint of Murphy's and a glass of Irish Mist

and because he sleeps with you each night, no wonder he's always pissed.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah it was a different Mrs Thatcher, and to be clear that might not have been her actual name, I'm just coming up with something that sounds appropriately similar. I've subsequently seen pictures of her in the class yearbook. She was really really hot, when she was my teacher she was younger than I am now so I absolutely did not appreciate her attractiveness.

[–] Digit@lemmy.wtf 2 points 2 months ago

She was really really hot,

Yeah. Very certainly a different Mrs Thatcher than the UK's Prime Minister through the 1980s.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

There were a lot of teachers that were married, and that in itself didn't make sense to me. Not because I thought they lived at school, but because they had such awful attitudes that I couldn't imagine somebody agreeing to spend their entire lives with them.

Then I grew up and realized that their husbands were probably awful, too. Either that, or the teachers took all their frustrations out on their students and had happier home lives. Either way, I still find it pretty sad. I know patience is a virtue, but you should know what you're getting into when you choose to become a teacher. Shitty teachers create traumatized students. If you don't think you can hack it, please, for the sake of all that is good, consider a different career.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Oh no she was wonderful, we got to hear all the hot gossip from her. None of the teachers liked Mrs Hall, she was the antichrist apparently. Even as a kid I could tell she hated children. God knows why she became a teacher.

Meanwhile Mrs Thatcher had a rabbit, a classroom pet. Oh it was wonderful, I'm not sure I necessarily learnt all that much from her, but I really liked her.

[–] cheers_queers@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

i dont think you know what teachers go through. elementary teachers get physically assaulted by their students and then get blamed by admin AND parents. teachers dont have shitty attitudes from their home life, they have it because they are exploited yet held to impossible standards.

one teacher i know, quit her job after some fifth grade students showed her a print of her house on google maps, said they know where she lives and were gonna go there and rape and kill her daughter. she ended up in inpatient psychiatric care from this job. the kids in question were not expelled and nothing was done.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Things have definitely escalated today. We didn't have Google maps and other instant-stalking technology when I went to elementary school. Columbine and school shootings hadn't been a thing yet either (though they would be, later on in my school years.) A lot of modern teacher stresses aren't applicable to a critique of the elementary school teachers that I had.

Also, I teach kids, specifically special needs students. Violent outbursts aren't uncommon, we even have blocking pads for those situations. One of my coworkers got a concussion this summer in spite of it. I know it isn't easy, but I also knew what I was getting into.

It's one thing to do the best with the situation you're dealt, but it's something else to lose your cool and take it out on your students. If I were ever to feel my spark for teaching start to fade, or a resentment of children set in, I'd move onto a different job. That wouldn't be easy either, but it'd be a hell of a lot more ethical.

[–] licheas@sh.itjust.works -1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There’s a time and a place and a manner for that, and I rather suspect you think perpetuating trauma makes you cool.

It doesn’t. It makes you an asshole.

Also Disney was the one tossing lemmings off a cliff for a documentary. so… not the best way to express that thought.

[–] Digit@lemmy.wtf 2 points 2 months ago

I rather suspect you think perpetuating trauma makes you cool.

o_O ... Where did you pick up that suspicion from???

Strikingly the wrong end of the stick grabbed there. Or, even, a completely other stick.

Also Disney was the one tossing lemmings off a cliff for a documentary. so… not the best way to express that thought.

Completely still corroborates what I was saying. It seems you did not get what I was saying, at all.