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I’ve posted quite a bit on here since I created my account, posts I consider non-controversial, since I’m not interested in arguing or getting into heated topics like politics. Even so, I still get the occasional snarky comment. Out of curiosity, I sometimes check the person’s post history when I see something like that, and without fail, their profile is full of snarky, negative, or hateful posts overall. It always makes me wonder: do people like this genuinely get enjoyment from surrounding themselves with negativity? What’s the thought process behind it?

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[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 65 points 1 week ago (3 children)

do people like this genuinely get enjoyment from surrounding themselves with negativity?

it's an emotional outlet. they can't regulate their emotions without lashing out. I just block people that don't know how to get along well with others.

[–] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 week ago

WHY WON'T YOU TALK TO ME?!! I NEED ATTENTION!!!!

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Or they’re regulating their emotions all the time and use a pseudonymous message board to vent.

[–] actionjbone@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's not regulation if they are hateful. It's abuse.

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 week ago

Fucking truth.

Dumping your emotional outbursts onto people over the internet is no better than doing so in person.

Yet I know for a fact that lot of people online, especially in games, just stop controlling themselves. Simply because they can't see the person whose day, week, or life they are ruining.

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

and use a pseudonymous message board to vent

You mean use strangers as verbal punching bags?

They're not screaming into a pillow.

They're sending their problems out into the world, where they may or may not harm or even kill others.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You guys, make sure to upvote Abbadon above, but don't respond to him. It will drive him absolutely CRAZY.