Her name was DANA, you fucking nincompoop!!!
i choose to ignore that 11 years shit as a bullshit lie for my own sanity, tyvm
I...met someone who is ten years out on hrt and her wife and kids don't know, or rather are in denial
...
there are just...no words
Same honestly
That plus her like, insanely powerful dysphoria about an aspect of her breasts made it a very difficult discussion
I kinda feel bad for her wife cuz she's like
Helping her buy bras and stuff but idk
Like if she'll do that it might be the case that she already knows
i choose to believe it because it brings me joy
Dana is a gender-neutral name, that’s not an obvious giveaway
Some cis people really think transition works like the one episode of Family Guy where Quagmire’s dad walks into the doctor’s office as a full man and walks out fully healed with breasts, hips, and long hair in a matter of hours.
I want to go into a cocoon, melt into goop, and emerge 100% transitioned
You have to turn into Gender Fluid to metamorphise
The doctors performing breast augmentation, hair transplant, vocal surgery, SRS, electrolysis, bone shortening surgery, etc etc simultaneously at lightning speed like the surgical equivalent to a Formula 1 pit crew
Healing from all that at once sounds awful
There are two possible solutions:
Medically induced coma
Nanomachines a la Senator Armstrong
it would be crazy wild to wake up from a coma like a year later and just be completely healed up and looking at how things have changed, though
I think that's how it works in The Culture
Transwidow 🥱
now normally i would discount anything someone claiming to be a transwidow says as a blatant lie
however this is funny enough that i want to believe
Look, the tiny tits could be explained by gyno
But how do you explain your husbands dick smelling and tasting like vagina all the time?
Wait does that fr happen?
[as a cis] it's at least the case that it wouldn't get hard and the ejaculate would be noticeably different from, uh, the standard variety. It think it's clear-ish and also tastes/smells different.
Oh? I didn't realize hrt affected erections but I suppose that makes sense. Never really thought about it
you can still get erections and produce semen while taking estrogen, intense regeimes of testosterone blockers can inhibit these things though.
I also dont really buy into the 'it'll smell like a vaginia' thing, in my experience my body odre didn't change at all
I've been taking estrogen for five years, I dont fuck with blockers, my e levels are low admittedly but i'm happy with them.
I also don't pass, as a women, basically ever, it hurts but my partners make me feel valid I try not to care how people perceive me outside of the home.
we don't want these losers either
Seeing a lot of he's and hims
The comments on Hexbear can fix that :)
Weirdly enough I know a nonbinary transfemme who is completely closeted to her wife, and has been on hormones for a few years.
Some cis people ARE wildly clueless.
dang, that's clueless
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