I don't exactly understand the question.
If I found someone who hates me as much as I hate myself, then we would have something deep and intimate to bond over.
I kinda had this once. Well, we weren't partners but bonded over how much we hated ourselves and everyone else. It uhh, wasn't healthy.
You say that but even hearing that I still feel like I want something like that. You're probably right though.
I thought you were extinct ;)
Nah we were just chilling at the bottom of the ocean the whole time. We like to pop up occasionally to confound scientists and fishermen.
Do you know someone that is not an "outlier" in some way?
I would say I've found pleasure doesn't have a look/shape. I've slept with women that wouldn't be my conventional choice for based on looks, style, occupation, or something but they have wound up introducing me to awesome new parts of sex or have just executed in a way I never saw coming. I think having a checklist or a pre conceived notion about who you're going to have sex with is very limiting.
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