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It's just a day in the grand scope of things, but here I am.

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[–] Elaine@lemmy.world 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Happy birthday, Bones! I hope you have a great day of it!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

Thanks Elaine!

[–] FrostyTrichs@walledgarden.xyz 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Well you aren't dead which seems to be the preferred outcome for a 50th birthday. Congrats!

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[–] disguy_ovahea@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Haha I love that song! Thank you.

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[–] Thassodar@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Although enjoyable, that wasn't easy to remember at all!

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Congrats! Oh, to be that young again!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Thank you! I honestly like 99% feel the same as I ever did. My knees ache somewhat, and I will admit I'd like some Botox, but I honestly am having an absolute breeze of menopause and my health, knock on wood, is as fine as ever. I'm pretty lucky.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

welcome to the club fellow but slightly younger Xer. hows your health and retirement savings.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Health actually quite good. Um, the other is not. I'll never retire. I'll die at my desk with my BPD patient screaming in my ear like she does each week that she needs to come off her medication because it's giving her a rash, the medication she's been on for like eight years, lol.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Did you grow up thinking the work hours would go down as we got older and the retirement age would go down as we made our way to star trek utopia. I did and I hate this cyberpunk future we live in.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Yes I did and it sucks.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It was at 50 that I started to realize that I was on the downhill slope of my life. I had more days behind me than I have in front.

That is not a bad thing. Every day becomes more precious. It focuses you on things that are truly important and what legacy you may leave.

Happy birthday! I hope it and all the future ones are brilliant.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
[–] oce@jlai.lu 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Noice. What are your birthday plans?

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Doing some cross border Black Friday clothes shopping! While it's still safe to go to the US and the economy isn't fucked all to hell by the orange rapist. As they say on Letterkenny, if the Yanks have one thing sorted it's their shopping.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Sounds like a good day then, and since you're in the same "overall" geography as me, a beautiful day for it, to boot. Have fun!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I will! I love love love clothes shopping for great bargains.

[–] cabron_offsets@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

I'm an old lady!

[–] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] Lazycog@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Happy Birthday Bones! Hope you have an awesome day

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

It's like a fabulous age to be. Thank you!

[–] ceiphas@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

You share it with my son, Happy Birthday

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[–] iii@mander.xyz 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's 62 in base 8. Or 32 in base 16.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's absolutely true. Whatever that is haha.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Nerdy way of expressing "age is just a number" :)

[–] Plasma@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Happy birthday! Are you gonna do anything fun today?

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Cross border clothes shopping on Black Friday!

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[–] Peter1986C@lemmings.world 5 points 2 years ago

As we tend to say in the Netherlands, you have seen Abraham (or Sarah).

[–] Attack0fthenerd@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] dingus@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
[–] horse_tranquilizers@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

It really makes your life and the life of others better if you are friendly, welcoming, helpful, and polite. Especially when things are hard for them. You can't fix everything but you can be a light in the darkness for someone simply by making the effort to go a little bit further.

Also life is way too precious to stay in relationships with toxic narcissistic borderline family members.

[–] BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Happy birthday bones, hope you have a great day!

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[–] RecursiveParadox@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'd upvote you, but you're at 69, and it's your birthday, so ...good luck!

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[–] Today@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Happy birthday! Every decade i think, "this is the best!" Embrace being young enough to still do most of the things you enjoy and being old enough to (sometimes) know which ones to skip. https://youtu.be/NJf5DMVa5kQ?feature=shared

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[–] ChaoticCookie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Happy birthday! Here’s to many more!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago
[–] robocall@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
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[–] kindenough@kbin.earth 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Welcome to the club, Abraham. All the best.

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[–] EllaSpiggins@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Welcome to the downslope of your first century.

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