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[-] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

My partner and I were away from each other for three years in different countries and continents because of Covid… then we got married :)

Eight years. Moved away to another continent, they didn’t visit me and I was busy exploring my new life. See them once a year these days.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

Going on two years.

[-] DarkCloud@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

What loved ones? I don't love anyone.

[-] STUNT_GRANNY@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Eight months.

The day after my 21st birthday, late September, I'd left home to go to trucking school. Went through a trucking company's in-house "apprenticeship" program, which was somewhat predatory in hindsight.

Anyway, I went through this program, managed to get my CDL, which took several months by itself (through no fault of my own - the program was designed to take that long), and when I finally got a truck to myself, it only took me about five weeks to grow tired of the sudden isolation. I was finally allowed to go home around Easter.

After my three allocated days of hometime, I decided to quit that company, and I found a better job closer to home.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

That's really good to hear, and that the isolation gave you the perspective

COVID I think it was about a year and a few months, we live in a far away city and no one felt safe flying to see each other

[-] 1ns1p1d@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Three-ish years. We live in different countries, and covid happened.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 days ago

Did the relationship survive

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

Three months. New job, and I moved in advance so I could find a place for myself, GF and kids while they stayed at family.

Other than that, 5-6 weeks routinely (5 weeks in, 5 weeks off), as I used to work offshore. I still work in the same industry, but I'm on-shore support now, so the travels are rarely more than a week at a time, and not as often either.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 days ago

How did you/your partner cope?

[-] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Both of us coped just fine. I worked away before we first met, and one gets used to it pretty easily. Past a couple of weeks, the duration doesn't matter that much either.

[-] Ludrol@szmer.info 2 points 2 days ago

All my life or All my life minus two years depending if self love is a valid answer for a loved one.

[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 days ago
[-] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah last time was on a school trip for me, that was two weeks.

I don't go on vacations at all so...

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 0 points 2 days ago

Oct 2019 till Jan 2021.

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