There is so, so much to say here.
Why the hell are you gatekeeping the lamest thing ever?
How fragile is your masculinity that not only are you trying to complete yourself with a digital sex slave, but you've also deviced a set of rules for how it must operate so it's not undignified? What does it say about your view of women that the rule is that if you don't control every aspect of its being, it must be a prostitute?
Why do you want Joi from Bladerunner 2049? I mean, maybe they're using Joi as an example of what they don't want, but even if they are, can't they see that even a local model is still essentially the same thing?
This is utterly decroded. Men are so cooked. Dudes officially do not rock and I fear they may never rock again.