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[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 43 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The best my depression has ever got is just when I just accepted the rest of my life was going to be like this

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 58 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Don't talk like that.

Things are going to get much worse.

[–] DrDickHandler@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

This is the sad reality.

[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 30 points 1 month ago

My life is worse in a lot of ways but I got stronger and soberer and am fighting back more now, so it's actually better. 2017-2021 I just sort of rolled over and let life pound away at me.

[–] don@lemm.ee 21 points 1 month ago

Big fucking oof right there

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The world was much better circa 2018, but my life was dog shit back then.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, going from £8k to £25k makes things a lot easier. I can just go out and buy something stupid like a new bike or a kayak and don't really need to check my bank account first.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Living on £25k in modern Britain? And you can buy a kayak or bike?

Pray tell how? I'm on £46k and can just about afford food 😭

[–] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Out of the city, no kids, family home, lower standards, minimalist lifestyle. Pick one, or two, or all. The more of these you pick, the less you need.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I am in a city but not London or any of the big ones. Rent in the suburbs doesn't seem much more or less expensive, especially because smaller units just don't exist in the countryside, similar to how there's not actually much rent difference between comparable places in Croydon and Westminster.

I Def don't have kids or a family, I wouldn't say I live minimalist, but Def not to a very high standard.

I'd say the number 1 thing is the fact you have housing covered from what I understand. Considering a fairly small 1-bed flat for rent at around £1100pcm, that's £13200 per year.

A salary of £46,500 is about £37k take home, minus the £13k for rent you end up with only £23,800, so it's no wonder you feel comfortable on £26k, that's decently more than what I get at close to double the actual salary, especially if you also don't pay bills.

[–] Nalivai@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I bet it's south vs north thing

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

I live on the south coast. There is more to the south than London.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 month ago

What were people sad about

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 1 month ago

Well I don't see how

[–] fuzzyspudkiss@midwest.social 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I could fuck with this shit

[–] niktemadur@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

At least non-voters in the United States can bask in the essence of their our purity, intoxicated by the aroma of their own flatulences, just as long as they can avert their gaze from their own blood-stained hands. Mentally mediocre creatures that they are.

[–] DirkMcCallahan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

my personal life actually got better, just everything else not