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I finally got around to seeing "I Saw The TV Glow", and it definitely lived up to the hype.


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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
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โ€‹ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 3 points 38 minutes ago (1 children)
[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 2 points 37 minutes ago

Wish I knew how to stop my brain from shutting down. I get so overwhelmed by envy and attraction and then I literally can't speak

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I actually did it. I actually completed my bachelor's degree today.

And I still feel like completed shit. And I have to stay here, alone, for 2 more weeks because of the NATO meeting (I shit you not, the Taiwanese office has to delay my visa processing because of it).

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 3 points 37 minutes ago
[โ€“] Arahnya@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Transmasc rite of passage: reusing an old glass pickle jar for a gigantic cup of drink.

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 3 points 37 minutes ago

Transfem rite of passage: eating all the pickles in the glass pickle jar

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I've always been a rice girl, but currently I'm in my pasta era

[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 2 points 33 minutes ago

My girlfriend has been slowly pasta pilling me. I'll never stop being a rice girl, but pasta is great. Do you have a favourite type?

[โ€“] axont@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

I Saw The TV Glow absolutely rules and it's been stuck in my head ever since I watched it on an airplane. I relate to it so much. The overbearing dad, being alone and unable to express or even describe your feelings about gender or identity. I really liked the moment where the main character looks back on his/her favorite childhood show only for it to seem goofy and cheesy, whereas before it seemed so raw and meaningful. Like we grow beyond stuff but it never truly leaves us, or maybe it's just leading us to deeper realizations about ourselves

Masterful film, 10/10, it fucking rips. More trans movies please.

[โ€“] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago
[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 9 hours ago

Fantastic. I managed to get 5 whole hours of sleep today instead of the usual 4.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

People say that this is nice weather. Uh, no it isn't!

My sunscreen is melting off my face! Walking round's got me sweating like I just did a workout!

One of the cool side effects of switching to E is I sweat a ton less than I used to. Used to be the sweatiest person in my friend group and now I think I'm the least. Still, summer weather is the worst (where I live at least).

[โ€“] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 10 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

does estrogen make beans tastier? kinda feels like it

[โ€“] awth13@hexbear.net 9 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Who is willing to sacrifice a vial by submerging a bean in it to test?

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 1 points 12 minutes ago* (last edited 12 minutes ago)

Why not simply inject the bean with E? bean-think

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 15 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

My therapist has been encouraging me to go to some kind of mtf support group. I've become progressively more agreeable to that idea, if only because I might get some honest opinions on if it's truly joever for me looks wise. In all the photos I've taken recently my face feels too broad. Maybe it's just the camera...

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I might get some honest opinions on if it's truly joever for me looks wise.

As if any transfemme is gonna tell you, "yeah, no, it's never gonna work for you" lol

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 1 points 4 hours ago

Yeah prob not. But I am in desperate need of near phrenological levels of cranial analysis to determine what to do with this face of mine

[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 18 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

gender cw : dysphoria, discussion of essentialism

spoilerI don't have a gender , I used to identify as transmasc but don't relate to masculinity so I think agender is right. Don't like being perceived as or being a woman but wouldn't like being a man either. I hate the 'born this way' narrative, we shouldn't have to justify why we're trans. I feel a lot of research about gender being "hardwired" just reinforces bio essentialism under the name of 'acceptance' , it's always agab language and treating sex as an absolute truth. i didn't fully realize everything until recently , like I said earlier trans people don't need justification for why they exist.

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerYeah, anytime people bring up the "actually, trans brainwaves are more in line with their preferred gender than their assigned one ๐Ÿค“"

I'm like... Stfu? Who fucking cares what my brainwaves look like? That data cannot be used for good.

[โ€“] awth13@hexbear.net 12 points 10 hours ago

spoilerI've been training my brainwaves so that, if they ever get scanned, this is what shows up.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 19 hours ago

I'm surprised I haven't seen any wild takes from conservatives or pro-Russia nazbols about Iran's (nuanced) trans rights, during this conflict. lathe-of-heaven

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Buy cute hat online, ships same day, arrives next, doesn't fit.

Order correct size. 1 week radio silence. Argh!

[โ€“] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

order several sizes and return the ones that dont fit

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 11 hours ago

Actually did that on the follow up

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