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[–] JordanZ@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Both of these types existed in both time periods. This is an example of cherry picking. Had a guy in my high school class that looked 35 but was 16. Had a beard most men at any age would be envious of.

[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 9 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Dude is rocking that stache like a boss tho.

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

There's another one of these with Sean Connery and Brodie Sangster both (according to the post) 34 when the pictures were taken:

Sean Connery vs. Brodie Sangster both at 34

I'm sure that there were young-looking 34 year-olds in the 1960s, and there are old-looking 34 year old actors today. But, it's also a sign of changes. People started drinking younger, men didn't have skincare routines, the world was more heavily polluted, Hollywood selected for old-looking actors vs. more pretty actors today, etc.

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

People not smoking have turned bears into twinks

And it is beautiful

[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Working less manual work as well. In some sense, this made younger generations of men (and women) less fit. After all, the US military declared that most fighting age Americans are unfit for military service. But on the one hand, at least we won't complain of bad back caused by old injuries from manual labour, but we'll be fat and diabetic.

[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

at least we won’t complain of bad back caused by old injuries from manual labour,

nah, we'll just complain of a bad back caused by sitting down 14 hours a day and working a desk job with shitty posture

source : my backiatomy

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 4 points 23 hours ago

I don't think they're supposed to just cut it, that's probably your problem

[–] Ratio_Tile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was dead certain for several minutes that the guy on the left was Freddy Mercury

[–] musubibreakfast@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It is, Freddy wrote most of his songs while fighting in the UFC. These are some notable songs Freddy wrote about his many experiences in the ring: I Want To Break Free is about when Freddy fought Royce Gracie, Another One Bites The Dust was released shortly after he defeated Mark Kerr and Bicycle Race is about Freddy's stint in Japanese pro wrestling.

[–] snowboardbumvt@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

I choose to believe this is historical fact.

[–] UnspecificGravity@piefed.social 106 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Don Fry is 31 in that picture, and this is what he looked like thirty years later.

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[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 52 points 1 day ago

Don Fry is 31 in that picture

Shit, and I believed the image saying he's 25. What a noob mistake, believing something you see on the internet 🤦

still handsome as fuck

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 85 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is gayer than being actually gay.

[–] WhyIHateTheInternet@lemmy.world 52 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Being gay is actually manly as fuck because if you are all man what business do you have messing around with Lady parts?

[–] zaphod@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 day ago

Imagine being into feminine stuff, how unmanly.

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What the media thinks gay dudes want: Cute and "feminine" things.

What gay dudes really want: Stallone's sweaty pecs bouncing as he fires his machine gun.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)


this comic, but stallone and schwarz in their prime, with the bullets deflecting offa stallone's pecs.

wait no hold on henry cavill in wonder woman's spot, and adam driver in superman's spot and hold on we need to storyboard this (henry cavill and lucy lawless are my real superman and wonder woman casting tho)

A cock is a manly, hetero instrument. More cocks = more manly, hetero fun. Therefore vaginas are actually gay because they represent things that aren't manly.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[–] homoludens@feddit.org 6 points 1 day ago

This was unironically the position of German neonazi leader Michael Kühnen.

[–] SapphironZA@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 day ago (2 children)

To be fair, not everyone can be such a hunk of manliness as Don Fry. That shit only cones along a few times a generation.

A lot also comes down to the body type the weight class favours. Not many twinks under the current heavyweights.

[–] Sasquatch@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Why does only the one guy get legs

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

that's fighting. you fight for the legs

my question is why does the top ten have eleven

[–] TheKingBee@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

it's the current champion, he won the legs. The others are the top ten fighting for who gets to wear them next.

[–] BanMe@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

One is a carrying case, he can fit the other 10 inside him

[–] CheesyFox 2 points 1 day ago

Just like that old Hot Wheels big rig. Neat!

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago

Look at the champion belt he's carrying, he has legs privileges

[–] TractorDuffy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

why do they all look like tina bathhouse bottoms

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 43 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Without sunscreen and genetics for more hair follicles VS. With sunscreen and genetics for less hair follicles. Or maybe he got it waxed, i unno

[–] Liz@midwest.social 2 points 1 day ago

It's not even less hair follicles, it's hair that's shorter, thinner, and now blonde. You have hair on your nose, you just don't notice it because of how short and thin the hairs are. So it goes with "hairless" chests.

[–] auraithx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 day ago

Lead vs microplastics

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 12 points 1 day ago

Hey if there's more of the type on the right out there these days that's fine by me because I'm a big hairy bear and that just means I have less competition for the like 3 women who are still into that.