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[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 41 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Rhetorichal questions are annoying.

Having to listen to me answering it seriously is fitting punishment.

[–] FarraigePlaisteach@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 14 points 5 days ago
[–] atopi@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

isnt the comment you replied to complaining about ~~esoteric~~ rhetorical questions?

edit: for some reason i forgot to write the rh, accidentally added so after the e, mistook e for o and missed the al

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 27 points 5 days ago

5 years later:

Ohhh.... that was rhetorical.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 15 points 5 days ago

Just because a question was posed rhetorically doesn't mean the answer is as forgone as the asker assumed.

[–] greygore@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

I mask by answering them in my head and not out loud.

[–] howrar@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 days ago

Rhetorical questions are implicitly statements. If those implied statements are wrong, then you correct them by answering the rhetorical question as if it were a real question.

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Bro I once answered a rhetorical question when I was watching a play in a theatre. Not making that mistake again

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

That is an autistic trait?

[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Severe ADHD here and, uh, if it's autism, it's also ADHD. heh

edit: Hi. I have severe ADHD and I do the thing in the image. So if the thing in the image is an autism thing, it is also an ADHD thing, because I do the thing in the picture. <3

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 3 points 5 days ago

I don't think I have autism, probably ADHD though.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Are you implying that all autistic people have ADHD?

[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

No.

I said I have severe ADHD and was saying that if this issue is an autism thing, it's also an ADHD thing, because I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

[–] liebach@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 4 days ago

I don't know how not to.

Also: Any sort of verbal interaction started with a rhetorical question is bound to suck extremely. Very likely to send me into a negative spiral TBH.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

It needs to be stated clearly!

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Wow, I am not alone!

[–] bss03@infosec.pub 1 points 5 days ago

I think this is one reason I'm frequently labeled a reply-guy.

[–] hazelthefluffyfox@pawb.social 1 points 5 days ago

yeeeeeep this is me