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It seems like having a website open and available on the internet is getting practically impossible to manage, with bots accounting for more and more traffic. AI has gotten to a point where it can circumvent just about any form of captcha, sooooo, what? Does "the internet just get abandoned in favor of some other, better technology that we hope crops up? Does it fade away? Do the real nerds start their own separate internet, and not let companies in? I donno, food for thought I guess.

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[–] MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

"Does the internet just get abandoned...?"

Nope. It just continues to suck. Soon you'll need to verify your identity to be online. That's life.

Orwell warned about Big Brother watching. Here we are.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 113 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Do the real nerds start their own separate internet, and not let companies in?

We're already doing it.

[–] Zos_Kia@jlai.lu 10 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

In Snowcrash, the internet has been so abused that it is basically unusable and terribly unsafe, what with feral botnets and AI running wild.

So it's just kind of abandoned by people in favor of the Metaverse. Funny idea, and if you look at the current state of Usenet you can see how credible it is.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 8 points 14 hours ago

I like how it's described in Anathem, where it takes a specialized skill set and tools to extract signal from noise on the Reticulum.

[–] Plum@lemmy.world 54 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There are dozens of us. And I love it here.

[–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

Oh yeah, easily a handful, maybe more.

[–] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Everyone start using project gemini (obviously Google named it's AI that because we were getting too popular. The slow and small Internet is what we want. Be the change. Write weird blog posts pseudonymously

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[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 56 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

where does it go from here?

Places like this. There is no real alternative, this is the best we currently have. Unless you want to overthrow the capitalist world order which I am admittedly in favor of.

[–] MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I don't think overthrowing capitalism will solve the problem of botnets and AI enshitification. There are other reasons besides money to manipulate content on the internet - namely, power.

In fact, I might even suggest that one way to overthrow the "capitalist world order" would be to lean into the enshitification.

Imagine life in twenty or thirty years. Today's children are now all grown up. They are mostly moronic, AI-dependent automatons. Because not many people want to have kids, the U.S. has an increasing aged population. Due to corruption, there's been no meaningful investment in infrastructure. No manufacturing, no exports, nothing to offer the world.

The snake eats its own tail.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 34 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Certainly, but we don't have anything else except interacting irl

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

we don’t have anything else except interacting irl

And we are not desperate enough to resort to that!

[–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 6 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Oh dear no. Talking to someone face to face like some primitive caveman? Dear lord, I'd rather be a hermit.

* goes back to painting his cavern wall *

[–] Zos_Kia@jlai.lu 2 points 19 hours ago

Lol imagine interacting in meatspace lmao couldn't be me

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[–] Libb@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (4 children)

It seems like having a website open and available on the internet is getting practically impossible to manage,

What are the issues you’re facing?

with bots accounting for more and more traffic.

Can’t you just ignore them?

AI has gotten to a point where it can circumvent just about any form of captcha, sooooo, what?

Not sure I understand that.

Does “the internet just get abandoned in favor of some other, better technology that we hope crops up? Does it fade away? Do the real nerds start their own separate internet, and not let companies in? I donno, food for thought I guess.

Technology will not be the solution to what is partly at least already a technological issue. Or more precisely, no tech can solve the way we poorly handle tech. That needs to change first.

The living Web you mention was a curated Web. Human curation, that is.

People used to share information and to promote sites and content from other sites to their own readers because they considered it worthwhile of their time and attention. That’s good curation. 'Read this, guys, I think it’s worth it'.

And at times, that was truly amazing. As far as I'm concerned, that was the peak ‘Web’, the one I was the most happy with and the most proud to be part of.

Then, blogging started to become trendy. Blogging was an impressive technological breakthrough, making it instantly simpler for anyone without any expertise to

  1. Publish content without any need to master complex tools (I created my first website learning to write HTML and then CSS, there was no PHP or javascript back then)
  2. Share content from elsewhere. It was dead simple to share a link, to ping other websites.
  3. And, obviously, to post comments everywhere too.

Trendy bloggers started monetizing the hell out of every single bit of content they published, and the crowd of bloggers followed suit. Through ads and partnerships content publication and curation itself, that used to be about caring about our readers, became a bankable practice. That means there quickly was a demand for even more tech to make it even simpler/cheaper to publish (and also to show ads). Next to that there was also SEO growing in importance: more content and more demand required ways to optimize placement in search results so we could sell more ads, right? More tech needed.

And then social networks started appearing.

They were even simpler than blogging. Incredibly much simpler. Quickly, thx to social media, sharing content went ballistic. And then that was all that mattered: poop out as much content as possible. Even more tech was required (tech to automate it, to cross post it, to re-post, to share and to reply, and so on). Even commenting became too much work, that need to be reduced in order to be worth it, it was too slow, we started using a new tech: ‘Likes’. Almost instant. No need to write stupid words anymore, just press a button. Like or Dislike, that was all that was needed, even more so that there was so much endless content that was pushed down reader’s throat they would not possibly have any time left to, you know, write anything.

Gone were the desire to share useful or interesting content with readers, and for readers to contribute back some content through comments. Here comes the time to milk that reader, and their attention.

A reader that had suddenly morphed into a ‘follower’, the 21st century cattle (like with cattle, all that matter on social media is the number of heads/followers one owns and can monetize). The time to abuse the curation mechanism by promoting whatever shit was susceptible to generate revenues. hence the explosion of low quality posts. Quick, let’s make a 15 second video about the war somewhere, or that fact that I hate a tuna sandwich for lunch.

Soon there will not even be that left as everything, every once of content, may well be AI-made without any human involved. Content that will be perfectly and algorithmically tailored to suit every single reader/follower (happy cattle, with it s own unique tag different from all the other cows that are being being milked at the same time they are).

But the ‘living’ Web, that human-curated source of content is still available on the WWW. It survives next to those huge factories constantly pooping content that most people seem so hungry to consume from. It may vanish, rendered illegal by those poop-content factories that don’t want no interferences with their businesses, but it is still a thing today.

I doubt creating a new Internet will change that.

What need to change is… I don’t know... the way they are being educated and encouraged in being lazy as fuck? The way we consider and we use technology as a magical wand to solve all our needs and fears? Something like that.

And sorry for the long rant.

Edit: (too many) typos

[–] Tuuktuuk@nord.pub 10 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

with bots accounting for more and more traffic.

Can’t you just ignore them?

You have to pay for the traffic and the bot traffic can easily comprise 99 % of your site's traffic. It is a huge increase in costs you need to bear. Even if you build a site for 50 people, you may end up paying the costs of a site for 10 000 users.

There are ways to mitigate this – otherwise hosting an instance of PieFed of Lemmy would be simply impossible, but it does take extra skills, and it's very bad if you don't know about this problem beforehand!

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Is this even for static sites? Geeze, that sounds awful. I've been getting really excited about starting up an "indie web" site and enjoying that HTML/CSS digital gardening I was way too ADHD to get in on in the early 00's...

[–] Tuuktuuk@nord.pub 2 points 13 hours ago

Probably less relevant for completely static sites. But for example, a PieFed instance can easily get tens of thousands of request from the same bot in one day, requesting different variations of the same thing practically without an end.

If you've got a form that can include text, it will basically try every combination of letters possible for that form. I've read enough times about how admins of Fediverse instances are trying to battle those AI scraper bots and what kind of trouble they cause, but I do not personally know enough about the subject to give any advice more useful than what I've said. At this point I think you already know about as much about it as I do :D

But, a completely static page should be safe, I assume?

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[–] BoosBeau@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I too hate a tuna sandwich for lunch...

[–] Libb@piefed.social 3 points 19 hours ago

But how many views and Likes did you get? Matters a lot more than how much you enjoyed your meal (mine was great)

[–] voodooattack@lemmy.world 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Well put. That was leagues better than what I did the other day by trying to be a smartass and saying it through puns to get around AI-based and algorithmic content filtering.

Everybody thought I was being a schizo. Fair though. Although I got Ask Grok locked down for non-premium users so that was something I guess?

I think the deeper problem being implied by your analysis is what’s currently happening. The herds (or artificial social cliques) you just defined are literally being aligned. Something like what they do to AI (Reinforcement Learning Through Human Feedback), but it’s “Advertiser Feedback”.

Non-zero-sum-James has a beautiful ongoing series on the subject if you’re interested: https://nonzerosum.games/alignment1.html

(That’s one of the still living parts of the internet you mentioned, and I’d recommend a visit if you’re still looking)

[–] Libb@piefed.social 3 points 19 hours ago

Well put.

Thx. It’s always challenging to try to think out loud in English (hence why I try to do it, and why I also try to post on my blog in English too)

Everybody thought I was being a schizo. Fair though.

I did not. I hesitated between two options concerning those posts of yours :

  • Either you were making it uselessly difficult for people to understand you because you were losing control over your ‘weapon’ and even maybe even your projected smart tactic. Which is OK, the only persons that never fail are the not that never do anything.
  • Or you were just... too serious about it. Against that, there is not much one can do.

But I certainly did not mind your project of creating some... disruption.

Maybe you can see I'm not much of fan of shocking readers. I consider a gift that anyone is kind enough to spend their time reading what I write.

Following that logic, I will much rather invite them, if I manage to, to get a taste of a sometimes different point of view than (try) to slap them in the face, or kick them in the ass. I don't think violence is a very efficient tool, in most situations.

It's a bit like a few people silently downvoting my post. I mean, I see them as people trying to say they don’t agree with me (which is OK) but that are also so shy they can’t say in what manner they don’t agree. Which makes them disagreeing rather useless as

  1. I really don’t mind people disagreeing with me. It’s even a good sign, at least if we want to live in a free society, to be aware we’re not all sharing the same views and values and we can all express our opinions.
  2. If anyone wants help me understand why their think I’m mistaken, or why I need to change my mind on something I said I need to hear actual arguments. I need facts to consider and to discuss. Not applause or booing (is that a word?). I’m not a performer doing his show, I share my ideas and opinions no matter how clumsy or stupid they are, or are not.

The herds (or artificial social cliques) you just defined are literally being aligned.

I will first need to check how it’s defined in the context of the site you linked to. But how I would understand it (as them being instrumentalized and polarized) I think the question we need to ask is two folds: by whom and, much harder to answer, for what purpose?

I would also be tempted to say the only way to try to find an answer to those questions is by comparing with other similar situations. How crowds (notice how they’re almost always angry) are regularly used to silent difficult opponents. How they are used to create distraction from what is really at stake. But like I said, I will need to read your link first.

That’s one of the still living parts of the internet you mentioned, and I’d recommend a visit if you’re still looking

I am, today more than ever.

Thx for sharing the link. I'll read it.

[–] classic@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

not a long rant. an appropriately old school engaged response

[–] Libb@piefed.social 3 points 23 hours ago

Thx, just edited out a few of way too many typos. Sorry for that too.

[–] rimu@piefed.social 33 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Captchas are getting really tough. Took me 3 tries to get one right the other day.

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 34 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] jtzl@lemmy.zip 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think about this a lot. Well, on a few different levels: to a significant degree, it is already happening. The www of now doesn't really resemble the www of like 2006.

I have recently been working on a WP plugin that's a labyrinth for bots, because the www is being significantly and actively enshittified.

And like, this is what happens when opportunists seek to own public goods. AI has made it worse (also it's way more A than I), but this has been happening since there has been such a thing as a "web browser."

To paraphrase some movie...Clerks, maybe? Why do we have to leave? They're the ones who suck.

[–] DABDA@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

To paraphrase some movie…Clerks, maybe? Why do we have to leave? They’re the ones who suck.

It was Michael Bolton in the movie Office Space (1999)

[–] jtzl@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 day ago

100% -- I celebrate his entire catalog.

[–] dangling_cat@piefed.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There is a concept called community computing. Tech savvy people host their own VPN with big tech replacement services and share it with their communities.

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm so into this as an idea. The saddest part being I seem to be one of the few people I know willing to to the hardware/hosting/setup and I get this sinking feeling

"Nobody cares. They just want convenience." :(

I've thought a lot about trying to set up a VPN'd social media alternative before, where it's literally just friends and family sharing what matters to us without ads and stuff.

But with storage prices lately? That'll definitely have to wait. 😅

[–] dangling_cat@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 13 hours ago

Here are a couple of difficulties:

  • hardware limitations: with hardware shortages, the available computing is going to be limited. But luckily, since you are only serving to a couple dozen people tops, your current hardware should be able to handle it as is.
  • technical support: as this concept becomes more popular, there will be more open-source projects and templates to help with people’s setup. There will be at least one IT person in every friend circle who wants to set it up and potentially federate with each other.
  • adaptation: people will use nazi social for various reasons. That’s why VPN is such a genius idea. If they want to use legacy internet, they can turn it off temporarily. If they want to cut off big tech, they can turn it back on. Any second people are off big tech is a second you saved.

If you want to talk more, my dm is open :3

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I could see, eventually, a public key reputation system where content is signed and you can filter what’s coming at you to just keys you trust, keys your friends trust, however many Kevin Bacon’s of separation you want, or just the entire firehose.

Society will have to get better at managing their private keys first. And then publishing tools will need to bake in signing features.

[–] aeiou@piefed.social 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Do the real nerds start their own separate internet

What, like tor/i2p?

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I want that nice middle ground 90's-2000's 'net:

There was a lot of weird stuff, there was scary places, but general browsing and surfing wouldn't USUALLY suddenly hit you with some NSFL / CSAM stuff that made you wish your brain had a "bleach port."

Stuff like TOR is really cool in theory, and absolutely necessary, but it still has that back-alley "Don't stray from the street lamps and guide posts and trust no one." vibe. Definitely not a place one can (easily) go around making friends.

That's why I just enjoyed watching Mutahar surf it, since he knows what he's doing lol.

I'm curious if people tend to use i2p as much.

And then there's that pesky network effect, of course: Secretive places on the web might finally break free of the corporate net, but the non-criminals inhabiting it will likely be those already deep into sweaty nerdery and a definite non-zero chance of untreated schizophrenia.

But, yeah, make something too accessible and it gets Eternal September'd into yet another extension of corporate / state hegemony...

I'm deeply invested in where we go from here, and how to make that future brighter as opposed to following the downward trend...

[–] Zoop@beehaw.org 2 points 21 hours ago

That's what I thought of. That and Gemini, Gopher, etc.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Reject Internet

Return to Ham Radio

(Meshtastic-Net? 👀

I have no clue how to do soldering stuff... where do you get a pre-built btw?)

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You don't need to solder anything. There's a bunch of devices ready to go. For instance, the Liligo T-Echo.

But also don't expect it to be a replacement for the Internet. Right now it's just a local chat app, more or less.

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[–] SanctimoniousApe@lemmings.world 10 points 1 day ago (7 children)

There will be two internets: the first will require proof of identity and everything you do will be tied to that identity - forget anonymity forever. The second will be an "underground" one that is significantly more difficult for the average idiot to get onto. It'll use wherever replaces TOR since TOR is known to be vulnerable to tracking as well. There will be complete anarchy, and it'll be a real PITA to do anything. Nobody & no site will be trustworthy, and you'll have to exchange encryption keys & whatnot offline IRL with anyone you want to communicate with in a vaguely trustworthy fashion.

You read about Digg, didn't you?

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