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Hi everybody!

I'd originally planned on having a big effort post, but I've had some Bad Brain^TM^ the last couple weeks so that'll just have to wait until next time.

In the meantime, it's my 2 year HRT Anniversary! These past couple years have also been the first time I've really been in community with other trans folx; I've had so many breakthroughs and discoveries of myself that I don't think would have been possible without that and I can't be thankful enough.

I hope everybody has a lovely week!


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As a reminder, please do not discuss current struggle sessions in the mega. We want this to be a little oasis for all of us and the best way to do that is not to feed into existing conflict on the site.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

meler* (3/23 - 3/29)
Shaleesh* (3/30 - 4/5)
Carcharodonna* (4/6 - 4/12)
GayTuckerCarlson* (4/13 - 4/19)
Busgirl (4/20 - 4/26)
SwitchyandWitchy* (4/27 - 5/3)
Disaster_of_Passion* (5/4 - 5/10)
sodium_nitride* (5-11 - 5/17)
peanutbuttercupola* (5/18 - 5/24)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Trying to not forget my new mega posts while I wait

[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

You should do a megathread sometime

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Thank you! I did a mega a while ago (link), I signed up for another but have felt so bad I never got it written out :/ still want to do another one but I want to write it before signing up so I don't miss it again.

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

maybe I should get into pokemon tcg...

[–] Ceres@hexbear.net 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

its pretty great, ive bounced off of other TCGs but have been hooked on it. I can recommend TCGlive too for learning and testing stuff.

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I kinda just want to buy/build a couple cheap simple decks to take to places and find people to play with. I got a hoopa starter deck from idk, 2016? I think I paid like 20$ on it, and I want to have at least one more to maybe get some other people into it.

[–] Ceres@hexbear.net 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Theres a Mega Lucario starter deck releasing soon I think that is really solid, and just has lots of good tools in general, if that also sounds cool.

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I'm gonna check it out, but stuff here takes a while more to release. I know there's a localized version printed domestically, so maybe I'll check their website.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 5 days ago

Installing Viva New Vegas manually. Proud of myself I'm doing it little chunks at a time (I know there's wabbajack but I want original experience but fixed)

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Stop! This is a happiness checkpoint!

You may now continue

[–] Busgirl@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago

Thank you, counting my blessings rn!

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)
[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 10 points 6 days ago

horny-ishE horny is sooooooooo different. I actually want to kiss now. I really didn't like it, I just did it for the other person mostly. But now I really want to do it. I want to kiss a girl so good and make her beg for more, but I got no one to do anything with

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Me talking about my favorite gaming console: more like the gaycube amirite?

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Me talking about my second favorite gaming console: the gay station 2

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

uhhh sexbox

nintendo switch

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago

real gamers don't have sex edgeworth-smug

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago

I like the 3dsm

[–] Busgirl@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Why do the comments go weird when the mega is about done like you have to hit a button to see more comments

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

never looked at the site source code but i would guess it's intentionally limited to reduce the amount of traffic (and maybe also keep the UI cleaner) by making the replies to top level replies "optional"

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It's because there's a lot of comments, other megas hit that limit too and sometimes struggle seshes do as well

[–] woozy@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

i was very high energy all this past week but now i think i'm crashing, just so tired today catgirl-flop

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

vicious cycle :(

Get stressed about academics ->

Stress eat ->

"Fuck I'm wasting money on eating" ->

Get stressed about finances ->

Distract self with dopamine ->

Fall further behind in academics and return to step 1 ->

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

a hold over from my single life I still get vids on how to find a relationship advice and all that in my feed, gotta let the algorithm know somehow I got an amazing partner thinking-about-it

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

dw i'll send a strongly worded email to the manager of Algorithms

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

get they asses an-eco-heart

[–] Florn@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

Thought I fumbled a match because I asked her out immediately, but no it just took her three days to respond

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

listing things I hate (dysphoria and transphobia ofc) (non exhaustive)

  1. my voice
  2. like 95% of people
  3. countries were we do not enjoy all the rights cis people do
  4. the UK
  5. republicans
  6. democrats
  7. nonsense beliefs
  8. dogs (too overstimulating)
  9. people who drive too slow
  10. people who drive too fast
  11. having to drive everywhere
  12. people who remind me of the things I hate about myself
  13. myself
  14. not being able to observe after I die (I just wanna know what happens)
  15. people with dogshit epistemology
  16. like 95% of people
  17. overly long lists
  18. being a negative person
  19. how shit we are treated by society
  20. feeling constant hate
  21. being sober all the time
  22. being depressed
  23. people with worse politics then me
  24. people with better politics then me (makes me feel bad)
  25. being single
  26. needing money to get healthcare
  27. needing to work so dang much
  28. struggling to read (see #22, also just super frustrating when I want to learn so much)
  29. how much fucking work every single thing is and how much of it I have to do. Its exhausting.
  30. life
[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

spoiler31. the complete lack of care and understanding 95% of people have about climate change
32. Facial hair/removal (fucking hate the shit, hoping laser can get me to a point I'm okay with..)
33. Needing srs
34. The social issues that come with autism
35. Needing to stim
36. How bad my hair looks, it's embarrassing

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago

Went out today. Had a little fun, but it was mostly just going to a family gathering and I never find those actually fun, I don't connect very well to them. I do better with friends, maybe that's some autistic trait, or maybe I do better with my friends because they're all neurodivergent in some way.

I am so tired. Had to walk a bit and did some light shopping too, so I'm mentally and physically exhausted, also from all the working I did this week. I'm completely fine, just really tired. I need rest.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago

Tap for spoiler

Already know I'm not going to succeed and will fail again like a miserable [removed]. I'm too fucking dysfunctional to live upto expectations. Trying to become more functional is an uphill battle when every medical appointment comes by so slowly.

I thought about trying to get some exemptions from my uni on a mental health basis. Idk why I don't want to. Idk what's wrong with me. I can get help but I don't trust that it will work.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

Yall have fallen for my trap catgirl-smug. Been upvoting my posts for a long time ...

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If youre using /tttt/ and youre dysphoric a lot you should stop using /tttt/

If it hurts to touch the hot stove, stop touching the hot stove.

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If youre using /tttt/ ~~and youre dysphoric a lot~~ you should stop using /tttt/

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

The mtf sub is such a shitshow fuck those mods

Been half wanting to make an effort post explaining the whole situation but just look at tw*tter if you want to see the latest shitshow from the clowns.

Tldr with no posted proof though: one of the mods is a convicted pedophile. Got exposed as such. Head, power mod told her to make a new account and he wanted her back to mod. Mod team is now deleting any posts about this and 10s of millions of people on twitter are reading this fucking story. Head mod is also lying about the situation (including wildly downplaying what she actually did/has been doing).

god I really should just make the effortpost but its a lot fuck me.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

Talking to an acquaintance in a social setting.

Them: do I detect you are a comrade?

(Me lowering filter)

Me: oh yeah I'm a communist...

Them: I'm more of a democratic socialist.

(Filter back up 50%)

Me: oh cool haha

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

When in doubt, blame the 5G towers! Mom is already 'skeptical' in regards to 5G towers. Who knows? It might work.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Damn I really want to get out and maybe hopefully get a partner. Hopefully this time next year.

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (3 children)

stress wtf is going on with DIY suppliers, many of the big ones seem to have gone down in the last few weeks. i hear chud news sources got the spotlight on them recently? i have enough to last maybe a couple more years but this is concerning

if it comes to having to buy from darkweb suppliers that only sell on TOR markets ig i know enough to navigate that, but what's happening rn is concerning

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[–] Muinteoir_Saoirse@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Some of my learners were complimenting my style, saying I always dress really well and fashionable. I told them:

"Every time I step outside, no matter what I wear, there are people who want to kill me for how I look. It might as well be a look to die for."

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[–] star_sparkling_soda@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

HAPPY 2 YEAR HRT ANNIVERSARY!!

I am going to complain here that, that, so much mental health related groups are so extremely and intensely liberal. I really love to talk with others who are also plurals who may or may not have DID/OSDD and such but gosh I really can’t deal with the awful politics anymore πŸ˜΅πŸ’” I need a communist plural server like YESTERDAY! UGH AAAAGHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Also just to complain I have been dissociating so much it is impacting my studies AGAIN <:(

but on a positive note i am learning and trying weh

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