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Brutal 😭

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 36 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

clocked

What does "clocked" mean in this context?

[–] Keilik@lemmy.world 54 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Recognized, as in it was easy enough to tell she was autistic it was like looking at a clock to tell the time.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I always thought it came down from radar/sonar terminology, e.g. "I got a bogey at seven o'clock" where the radar dial is compared to an analog clock dial. So that "clock" became "notice, or see something, especially something hidden." And in my mental canon, trans and/or gay (See also: "gaydar") military personnel and veterans took it to the streets. Whereupon autistic people who were also passing embraced it. But that could all be in my head.

[–] Keilik@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That’s absolutely the original usage but that also died down as military vernacular (and analog clocks) became less and less prominent in the public.

These days I usually see the β€œnewer” usage, maybe because digital clocks are not only easier to read but also they are also far less useful as a navigation and positioning aid. Who knows?

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah I blame the digital clocks for a lot of things. Like, they pretend to be super accurate, but if they aren't talking to a satellite the numbers they're showing aren't any better than "around twenty past."

And if you're going to allow 45 minutes to do something, starting at 11:37, you have to do math or set a timer rather than glancing at the wall clock and eyeballing three quarters to see 12:22.

I'm not going to say we need to bring back measurements like the hogshead, but I do think it's sad that kids no longer read analog clocks enough that it becomes an instinctive and useful analogy, for their place in the day and the world.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm going to say we need to bring back measurements like the hogshead. Bring back the hogshead! I'd rather buy those than pony kegs.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The hogshead was apparently quite a bit larger

Random Thoughts on History: The Hogshead https://share.google/JKSB5Ew9xEQyoKOhH

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ummm.... MOAR BEER!!! ? But it's very heavy, bring friends to help.

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 9 points 2 weeks ago

like looking at a clock to tell the time

lol this etymology is way cooler than cop radar. It is now canonical to me.

[–] lyralycan@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Recognised as trans, usually femmes. Something 'transvestigators' try to do.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

"Clocked" can mean you noticed anything unseen by others, whether autism or transgender or a closeted gay person or an affair or a plainclothes detective or combat veteran or grifter. And it's often because you noticed similarities to yourself, whether you too are hiding that part of yourself or open about it. You're right that it's used by transphobic people as well, although I bet they get it wrong as often as right.

[–] lyralycan@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Ah, thank you; my definition was only how I first learned the term, the desire to find trans friends but not want to make them feel they weren't 'passing' ehe

It makes sense that it's also used in other contexts!

A good intention, you

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

first time I see it in a positive wholesome context

[–] lyralycan@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Same, the real-life struggle with this is real

[–] I_am_10_squirrels@beehaw.org 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Recognized for something you might be trying to hide or disguise. Like a drag queen who is so convincing as a female impersonator that no one can clock that that's a man.

https://www.reddit.com/r/rupaulsdragrace/comments/4k50u7/dummy_question_but_what_does_ru_mean_by_being/

Assumes that the drag queen in question is a cis male impersonating a female, not a trans person who does drag.

I think the implication would be that OP were not openly being a cat person, but the other person recognized them as a cat person from other tells

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 31 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If only she had done her best train horn impression.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Ok but what train horn specifically?

[–] alapakala@quokk.au 15 points 2 weeks ago

ζ–°εΉΉη·š!πŸš„

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Mac@mander.xyz 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 10 points 2 weeks ago

Obligatory "and then they kiss" :3