Didn't have a chance to write up a detailed post, either on a fruit or the topic I was originally thinking about. I think they're neat and they taste good.
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Estrogen has destroyed my ability to just mindlessly crank one out based on pure friction. Generally, this feels great. But I feel so disconnected from myself sexually. How can I speed up the process of learning myself again?spoiler
Jerking off has gotten so mid, the orgasm is very underwhelming and it doesnβt feel like I really cum anymore (is it possible for your body to stop producing semen?)jorkin and sex
I don't think you stop producing it but the volume goes way down with very low testosterone. I think my orgasms have never been better on E. They're way more intense and a whole body experience now. They do take a lot more work, though, but it's totally worth it. I'm also getting very close to my first prostate orgasm! Last time me and my partner wore ourselves out before I finished but I was soooo close.spoiler
It could be going to the bladder, if google is to be believed, which I guess tracks cuz I usually have to pee afterβ¦but I also usually did before.spoiler
It's probably gonna involve a lot more build up. Also you'll have an easier time if you think of yourself as sexy. Plus you have some other zones that'll probably be more pleasurable than just the one. You got your perianal zone (gooch/the spot between your butt and the other bit), try rub that. Also, prostate play. You'll have to try touching yourself in some new ways.Also for whatever reason, for me personally, I got WAY more into biting and I gotta bite stuff now. It's not even conscious lol.
Over the years of HRT, it's less one big intense explosive moment and then a gross come down and it's more like a big wave and a lil crash and a big wave and a lil crash and builds up and up. And it's a lot more full body!
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almost a year HRT and i still never got around to learning how to do an E orgasm so I keep doing the same masturbation routine i used to have but way less enjoyable now. i feel like i could do it if i learned to but i just never did::: spoiler orgasm discussion
Tbh for me the big orgasm on E is about taking a long time with tons of foreplay. And then grabbing a wand for literally 2 hours. Theres lots of little orgasms in between, and the big one is just like the biggest wave of a set.
EO? OS?
E O is the big orgasm that can come with E. saying the letter o to represent orgasm but then you pluralize it is where 'os' comes from. Sorry ill edit to be more clear
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I imagine myself wearing different sexy outfits and tbh that helps a lot. I also find that pressure works better than friction now (both together is good)2 years into HRT and I enjoy masturbation and sex WAY more than before. It's not one and done anymore, I can go for hours it's amazing.
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this seems to be something that differs wildly from person to person as it's down to a lot more factors than just hormone regimen. personally getting on prog did wonders for my ability to please myself.