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I’ve treated Lemmy as a fun, silly blog since I made my account. I love how you can freely post anywhere and as much as you like, unlike on Reddit. I’m also a teen who grew up online with unrestricted internet access and does online school, so I’m a bit addicted to being online. I love how much more interactive the comments feel here, despite it being a smaller platform. I’ve had fun reading and interacting with people. But I think I might delete my account and everything, because people analyzing my behavior and accusing me of things has started to get to me. Most recently, someone accused me of trying to manipulate people because of my age and gender. All I wanted to do was make people feel some fun and giggles. I’m wondering if you’ve ever felt something similar.

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[–] violet08@lemmy.today 33 points 1 day ago (9 children)

True. Maybe I’m just softer than I thought. But having someone write a whole accusatory paragraph about me when I’ve never even stirred the pot feels pretty bad.

https://lemmy.world/comment/22429589

[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago

This can happen and it feels terrible. On the other hand, I find it quite nice that there were several people there ready to defend you and the hater got downvoted into oblivion. You're not alone and you're being loved.

[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Here’s a little something you can send to that person, and people like them:

Or if you prefer…

Carry on, shitpost soldier. 🫡

[–] M137@lemmy.world 0 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

They could preferably use images with the same/similar message that aren't cringe as fuck, like those are.

[–] Carrolade@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago

Don't feel bad about it. He's basically saying he thinks you're too cool to actually be real, so you must be fake. Seems like a compliment to me.

[–] mystrawberrymind@piefed.ca 16 points 1 day ago

I, a very normal lady -like I would not give out identifying info but you’d probably be surprised- reading this post like 👀. I am sure I’m not the only one lol. Some of us have strong ideals about healthier internet browsing and are giving the fediverse a try. We are out there!

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago

Congrats thats a heck of an achievement. Someone wrote a small paper on you. Thats pretty cool.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 day ago

I’m sorry, but I’d have to simultaneously laugh and admire the fact that someone took that much time out of their day to analyze what I said and produce a paragraph like that. You’re literally living rent free in their head. Take that as a win and keep on trucking forward. Fuck the haters.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

It's the internet and you're having fun. Everyone on here is a dog pretending to be a person, but sometimes you're gonna get random accusations of whatever. Hell sometimes they're gonna be right

It's genuinely a useful skill to learn to brush stuff like this off.

[–] exaybachae@startrek.website 2 points 1 day ago

Honestly, I'd just create a new account/alias and carry on as normal. Maybe bounce around between a couple accounts on different instances, retiring any and replacing it if it gets too much negative heat.

Could always keep your icon or part of an alias name if you want them to be recognizable, but I wouldn't bother personally.

Fresh starts are nice.