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In hundreds of messages reviewed by the Daily Mail, the 56-year-old is allegedly shown messaging sex workers who specialize in “bimbofication,” or a type of roleplay fetish that involves being turned into a stereotypical bimbo or Barbie dolls in some cases.

“Ms. Noem is devastated,” a spokesperson for Kristi Noem told The New York Post. “The family was blindsided by this, and they ask for privacy and prayers at the time.”

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[–] SoyViking@hexbear.net 64 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I am sure he is a vile and disgusting person for completely unrelated reasons but I hate how having a kink is made out to be some shameful and horrible defect that you can be "accused" of and have to keep secret.

[–] Dessa@hexbear.net 50 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Liberals love having permission to make fun of people for stuff like this that they normally can't get away with.

"Haha, he's a crossdresser! No of course I don't have a problem with crosdressers, but HE does, so Im just saying it to get under his skin! What? This contributes to violence against gender variant people? Stop being so sensitive! It's just a joke!"

[–] MaoTheLawn@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I don't know, I think a big part of the 'own' is the hypocrisy of it. Every accusation an admission.

I don't know if liberals really are secretly waiting to dogpile someone for crossdressing.

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Im mentally lumping it with the Putin/Trump kissing stuff because 'both Trump and Putin are homophobes' 'owns' that libs gleefully and uncritically trot out. If the own was that he's a hypocrite, they'd lead with that Person X accused of hypocrisy as photos of them doing Y emerge", not with the 'scandalous' kink

(Edit: others in this thread have also raised this point)

[–] SoyViking@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

I admit that I haven't followed the story that closely but what I have seen in mainstream reporting has been less "look at that hypocrite" and more "celebrity caught having yucky and ridiculous kink".

[–] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago

Look in any thread on one of the popular lemmy instances that concerns Trump women and you will see tons of libs unleashing their internalized misogyny and body shaming bullshit

If you call them out on it they get so offended too. Like “how dare you imply I disrespect women? Me, the person who literally just posted about how one of the Trump ladies was so pretty before her “mar a lago face” and then went on a paragraph rant about her current appearance with the rhetoric of a schoolyard bully”

I think you are correct though that they won’t dogpile on cross dressing but merely because they conflate it with LGBT identities which makes them terrified to comment and potentially appear homophobic (misogyny is fine though, didn’t you see that South Park episode)

See also: the rhetoric of dem posters on reddit whenever a minority group votes for the GOP.

[–] BanMeFromPosting@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

DAE notice that DRUMPF (silly foreign name) is FAT and GAY???

[–] BanMeFromPosting@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The original Drumpf dunk made sense because it was about Trump being mad a guy's granddad had changed his last name. But then libs ran with it

[–] moss_icon@hexbear.net 26 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sort of like how Trump apparently giving head to Bill Clinton became the main thing libs were latching onto for a while

[–] Mindfury@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago

would be the second ever cool thing he did if it happened, after the draft dodging

[–] JustSo@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago

He was just stuck in a life he didn't plan for.

Source: it was me I sissified him and i'll do it again

[–] dead@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Aside from the kink, Kristi Noem could be mad about the infidelity aspect. Messaging other women about sex could be a violation of a monogamous relationship. However, I would bet that Kristi Noem is more mad about the cross-dressing.

Infidelity can also cause someone to lose US Government security clearance. This is because people who are engaged with infidelity are vulnerable to being blackmailed.

The story was originally published by Daily Mail, which is typically very reactionary. I chose to link Them Magazine (LGBTQ magazine) to avoid problematic opinions in the article.

[–] Twongo@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 days ago (3 children)

i doubt she's mad at the infidelity part as she had a quite public affair as far as i remember

[–] Runcible@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago

yeah, hard to imagine her thinking that being treated the way she treats others is unacceptable

Trans Day of visibly being cuckolded by Corey Lewandowski

[–] dead@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago

Sure but her PR person who spoke with NYPost might be using the infidelity angle.

[–] DasRav@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago

It's because sex is shameful, religion said so. It's wild how deeply ingrained this bullshit is.