Shame, I do so love disappointing people's parents by being weird and turning their "son" into my girlfriend
this meme lied to me. i had dinner on christmas with my gf's family and it ruled
Me reading the title: is this chaser shit on hexbear?
Me reading the meme: oh lol
Finding another communist to date is essentially impossible. I have never dated a communist.
Just go to DSA meetings and be weird to all the women ๐คก
sigh
Date a sympathetic lib, make them a communist
That's basically what I did. My partner was generally lib/apolitical, then I have gradually radicalized her. I did get super lucky that she understands and had/has very strong opinions about climate and environmentalism (part of how we bonded in the first place), so that was an easy vector -> explaining why I believed that solving those problems was impossible without communism. Now we'll be watching some slop tv show and she'll start to do unpromted material analysis and it gets me all hot and bothered
Same, I love to watch them go on rants
Except I started as a lib too lol
Oh me too, of course! I was just further along in my radicalization than her when we met - and generally more interested in politics/ideology
My bf used to be really into radlib streamers like funny clown man, and radicalizing him was a long hard process, but very rewarding. He already had basically the right principles, just needed a bit of deprogramming.
i did this tho, i quizzed everyone that messaged me on marx on dating apps and it worked. now have best bf
thats incredible, what questions did you ask?
basic stuff in the communist manifesto and terms like dialectical materialism. i was even anarchist inclusive, bf was anarchy adjacent before covid, became a hardline commie after, so we talked about kropotkin and stuff
i had a bad time where a guy acted like he was a socialist but wasnt in an attempt to have sex with me and i got very thorough (he went to some maga thing on an account he didnt tell me about)
oh and if you date another trans person, odds are theyre a socialist of some kind and you can convince them to be commies by explaining the thought process behind it. i dated a couple of other trans women before meeting my bf, we liked each other a lot but it just didnt work out for a variety of reasons. still big friends and theyre all hardliners now
Try putting "i'm a communist" on your dating profiles, it's worked for me
simply hang out with someone who seems cool, realize they're a communist, then fall in love
Ignorant CIS OOTL guy here: does this mean that trans women don't get along with their parents? If so, I'm mad sorry :(
It means that there are a lot of trans people who get disowned by unsupportive parents
OK sorry
Or who have to go no contact because keeping up with the verbal abuse is too draining. Like, that's an actual term in US queer communities, to go no contact. When you stop answering calls and coming over for the holidays because you just can't take that shit anymore. I feel it's a lot more widespread among Amerikan queer people (not just trans and nonbinary folks, also gay cis people) than among Europeans. Like, i'm in community with some people who have really awful, transphobic parents who constantly deadname and misgender them and just act like complete douches at every opportunity, and i know stories of queer people who've been homeless for a while because their parents immediately kicked them out of the house when they came out, this happens here as well, but the open hostility and especially the homelesness thing seems more common in the US.
In my polycule consisting of 3 trans girls, you can meet exactly zero of our collective parents.
that awkward moment when you're a well-bearded they and still realizing you have damn near this entire fit sitting in pieces in your closet
Uhhh ohhh
but also if she does openly introduce you to her parents, they're probably gonna be pretty cool parents
fr itd be great to have a commie mom
I will hug you all to pieces and make your favorite dinner
you don't even have to date my kid, just lmk if you're passing through Ohio, I've got a bed and a plate for each of you โค๏ธ
I need this girls fit
Edit: real gender envy moments
Ngl I basically already wear exactly this every day lmao. Not the exact style, but the beret + bow + autumn jacket fit is very comfy, although I also add a scarf. If you need suggestions on pieces to replicate something similar I can tell you where I got a couple of mine. I'd recommend thrifting if you can though, you can often find very cute clothes cheaper that way.
I would greatly like some suggestions on recreating this fit, because when it comes to fashion Iโm a big dum dum. I wish I had the courage to shop for clothes irl ๐๐๐
Posting here because I too would like to dress like the cool anime girl.
I want to be the cool anime girl (still cis).
Batman voice: My parents are DEAD
Hope every transphobe parent of yours see the light of islam and and realise how wrong they are to not love you and read you das capital before bed
I did show this meme to my boyfriend once, he agreed. Then months later he met my parents. We played him for an absolute foul haha
completed it mate
sounds good
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