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[-] Meltrax@lemmy.world 39 points 1 week ago

I have learned the difference between "your" and "you're".

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[-] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 35 points 1 week ago

You start correcting people when they say "your" instead of "you're" :-)

[-] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 week ago

Quite the opposite.

The older you get the less clever it feels to point out the common mistakes of others

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

It's replaced with a desire to help people be better.

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[-] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 31 points 1 week ago

I don't heal as fast anymore. Cuts and scrapes turn into scars easier.

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[-] klemptor@startrek.website 25 points 1 week ago

Vision. It gets hard to read in low light, driving at night is tough, you can't quite figure out how close or far to hold a book or phone.

Alcohol. You just don't shake it off like you did when you were younger. Now you really think about whether that next drink will be worth the shitty sleep.

Money. You talk about property taxes and 401k contributions more often than you ever thought you would.

Patience. You're more patient with kids and your parents, and way less patient with everything else.

[-] thegreatgarbo@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Memory and visual attention when you get closer to 60. You can't remember all 10 digits of a new phone number with an unfamiliar area code; often one of the 4 last numbers will end up transposed with a neighbor. Visual attention: looking on your garage shelves or cupboards for an item and not seeing it even though it's in plain sight.

[-] prex@aussie.zone 8 points 1 week ago

0118 999 881 999 119 725 3
and my own phone number, nothing else.

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[-] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 24 points 1 week ago

definately physical pain on stuff you used to do on the regular. Had a job were I would get impatient waiting for a delivery and would jump off the dock to go check if I could see the truck. A little after I got into my thirties I jumped off one day and just stopped and stood still in a crouched position for a bit. I never "felt" the landing like I did that day before. It was the sart of what would be a long line of things I would cease to do.

[-] KingGordon@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago

When you fall down nobody laughs. Only concern.

[-] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago

Next up: you don't fall down, you "have a fall".

[-] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 20 points 1 week ago

You mix up your and you're.

[-] Ixoid@lemm.ee 11 points 1 week ago

My tolerance for incorrect use of your / you're gets lower.

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[-] Lennnny@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago
[-] PopcornPrincess@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

TURN UP YOUR HEARING AIDS OLD TIMER

[-] Strawberry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago

Your getting older. They are asking the abstract noun representing your aging what some signs are. I don't think your getting older is going to be able to answer, though, and I doubt it has much knowledge of signs.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

I find it takes much, much longer to heal from injury. That's the main downside I've experienced. When I say longer - when about 8 yo I broke my arm, it took 5-6 weeks to heal, maybe 10 to really heal, stop swelling ever and feel exactly like the other. When about 45 I broke my finger and it took 2 years to fully heal and feel like the rest of them.

But it also takes longer to get mad, I'm less irritable, more perspective I guess. Easier to feel happy/satisfied, too, it's closer to the surface now.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 16 points 1 week ago

You can't stand grindy videogames. You see young adults as children, and their behavior becomes irritating.

[-] wesker 15 points 1 week ago

Balls hang a little lower.

[-] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 13 points 1 week ago

The music I grew up with is “classic” and the “hits of yesterday” that I don’t recognise on the radio is “young people’s music”.

[-] Jerb322@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

All pro athletes are younger than me. Except maybe a hockey player or two.

[-] pdxfed@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Completely walking away from sports you followed with passion your whole life because you just aren't interested in learning the next crop of pros. Also, you know the way money and politics and other things force things in sport and it takes the fun out of it...same can be said for music.

[-] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Finding grey hair in your beard. The first time I started to feel older was once I found a couple grey hair in my beard. None in my hair, just beard

[-] AlphaOmega@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

Nah you're not really old until you find grey hair in your pubes

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[-] randomcruft 9 points 1 week ago

Asking what the signs of getting older are?? 🙂

[-] pol5xc@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago
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[-] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Pain. Just pain and exhaustion doing everyday things. Recovery time from the same pain taking longer and longer as time goes on.

I'm not even 30 yet, and it really puts a damper on things.

[-] SupraMario@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

You might want to get that checked out. You shouldn't be feeling pain to that level in your 20s. I'm 40+ and do not have pain and exhaustion from everyday things. I work outside daily on my farm as well. So you really shouldn't be feeling this at 20.

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[-] BearOfaTime@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago

Letting autoincorrect slip in homonyms

[-] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 7 points 1 week ago

The year changes

[-] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 week ago

Less birthday parties for you, more for younger folks.

[-] andallthat@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

For me it clicked when pretty girls started tallking and being nice to me

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[-] mukt@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

That you are alive is the surest sign.

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[-] Kiwi_fella@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Worrying that every unexpected pain in your body will be cancer.

[-] klisurovi4@midwest.social 5 points 1 week ago

I've been like that since 15, that's just being a hypochondriac.

[-] MrAlternateTape@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

My knees. I am past 30, and my knees somehow don't want to bend anymore.

On the other hand the older I get, the smarter I get about life. Do some physical activity on a regular basis, keep some long term goals in mind, don't let your emotional state depend on external factors.

Find balance in your life and know your limits and you will be all right.

[-] MoonMelon@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago

School dreams are very rare now, and when I have them the "cast" is all people from various adult jobs. I never knew my actual school mates as adults, so I guess my brain just can't fill it in. If I was actually transported back to high school and saw them again it would probably feel like being surrounded by babies, so makes sense that "central casting" sends in adult stand-ins.

I'm always an adult too. What's weird is I remember being a child. I remember my body being clumsy and awkward, I remember being confused by adult concepts, I remember being small. It never comes out in childhood dreams, I'm always my present age.

[-] Skanky@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Your perception and outlook on time changes a lot.

Everything seems to go by faster. Waiting for something doesn't seem that bad when it's in terms of days instead of hours, weeks instead of days, months instead of weeks, years instead of months.

When making long term plans, "how long you think you'll live" becomes more and more of a factor.

[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago
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[-] Mangoholic@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

You get free dlc every year, that you can't uninstall, for example: Cannot move neck after sleeping in a slightly wrong position. Random foot pain. Extra hangover. Blurry vision in the distance.

[-] Jourei@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

When it gets "weird" wanting to do the young people stuff.

[-] BCsven@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

People at a store ask if I want the senior discount...hurumph rude! LOL

Doing an oil change, rotor and brake pad change in same day, means my back and legs are sore for a few days after

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[-] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

When I get up after sitting on the ground for a while my knees are stiff.

Get off my lawn.

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