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Limestone is a common type of sedimentary rock which I find uncommonly interesting! It's mostly calcium carbonate, which is also what eggshells πŸ₯š, seashells 🐚, and pearls πŸ¦ͺ are made out of.

In places where it rains a lot, limestone erodes easily, which results in simply gorgeous landscapes such as:

HαΊ‘ Long Bay in Vietnam

Tsingy de Bemaraha National Park in Madagascar

The Li River in China

Additionally, the world's longest (Mammoth) and deepest (~~Veryovkina~~ Krubera is once again the world's deepest cave, thank you to SockOlm for pointing that out) cave systems are both found in limestone formations

Mammoth Cave in the United States

Veryovkina Cave in Georgia/Abkhazia/Russia (disputed territory)

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Li River https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Li-Flussfahrt-160-Huegel-2012-gje.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Mammoth Cave https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Mammoth_Cave_Rotunda_(USGS_Lwt02830).jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Veryovkina Cave https://commons.m.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Veryovkina_cave._Babatunda_pit.jpg#mw-jump-to-license


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[–] Des@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

apologies to all the gay and bi guys i accidentally led on back in my EDM club days

i know things got crosswired because i was high and in femmebrain mode and twunky and probably seemed flirty and basically wasted your entire night

except for that CATO libertarian guy. i'm glad i wasted your night

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[–] ozmathewitch@hexbear.net 16 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

this is my second week taking injections instead of drops. much preferable. never going back.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

spoilers for a 40 year old game or whateverI remember a theory once I heard growing up that zelda transforming into shiek meant a magical sex change and I thought that was waow-based don't know what the original intent in the n64 days was they most likely walked it back but when it comes to stuff like this I'd love to know what they were cooking

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[–] Azarova@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

theres like a 5 minute window where the tea is not too hot and not too cold, and i always miss it sadness

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

current events and venting, dysphoriaI'm not from the UK so I'm trying to not be too ridiculous over this. But it sounds really bad and I worry. I'm scared and I hate this. The US is following the UK's lead as far as I can tell too. And a lot of what people say on the topic strikes me as cope. Can't blame them but it doesn't help me.

So unfair. All I want now a days is to be (seen as/feel like) a woman and I don't know when I will feel like that will happen. And for some people in my life they probably never will. Like I get that you're so fucking bothered I have a dick and went through male puberty DO YOU THINK I FUCKING LIKE IT EITHER?? WHO DO YOU THINK IS MORE EFFECTED BY THIS?

spoiler si

life is hard/unfair

Yea and it sucks and I hate it and it makes me want to kms. Has for a while.

other people have it worse then you

Yea and that sucks for them, and I hate it, and it makes me want to die. I've felt fucking horrible about it forever but its not like I have any real power.

Why do people continue this circle of suffering. I do not understand. I would kill myself if I forced a child to suffer like this. Maybe other people are less bothered by suffering? :::

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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That’s a weird looking fruit. blocky-wat

Maybe it's a stonefruit. vivian-shrug

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I need more gender cri I need to feel affirmed and safe and feminine...

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Shaved and moisturised my legs after like a month of not doing it meow-melt

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Update on coming out to my friend. I haven't seen much of her in a few years but still counts. She's proud of me, glad I told her, and I got to tell someone else my name. (which she loves for me and I am riding that wave, holy hell I forgot how much I like having my name complimented). She's actually got a trans member of her extended family, which I didn't know about. So yea, very nice to get to talk with her about it a bit.

I still (kind of, complicated obviously) come out to my main irl friend. Don't know when that will happen though.

ping@0x2640@hexbear.net I know you were worried, everything is good :cat-trans:

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Proud of and happy for you kris-love

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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

This seems to have flown under the radar

One of two FTL co-creators, Jay Ma, came out as trans somewhat recently

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I like being the cold girlfriend

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 4 weeks ago

I both need a little pause from everything but am also hopelessly behind (no prizes for guessing why)

[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Imagine the fucking brainworms you have to be suffering from to be a trans monarchist from Russia who posts pro-fascist and pro-White Army propaganda. what-the-hell

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[–] MyKingdomForAnEssay@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (8 children)

doubt/doompostingkeep trying to subtly hint that I might be trans to my trans friend but she won't violate the prime directive (or more likely, my "hints" are way too subtle). god I'm such a coward. I'm so deep in the closet I'm not even out to myself. and now with everything going to hell in a handbasket I don't know if I'll ever be out, not if I'm still living here anyway. even writing this I feel like I'm committing fraud by posting in this thread madeline-sadeline

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

spoilercat-trans I'm terrified of coming out. So far I've come out to two people, both of whom I am able to cut out of my life instantly and without effecting anyone else in my life (no mutuals etc). That's obviously a lot of control to be able to have over the situation. I'm terrified of more. Anyway I guess I'm just saying I understand. This is probably the scariest thing I have ever felt. Anything from- I guess private life making it into the public, especially things people might judge you for is really hard.

I think you should though cat-trans having people know is really nice when they're supportive and I'm sure your friend would be.

Look, you're definitely trans enough to post in the megathead. meow-hug Also trans people tend to be pretty understanding of this kind of thing - maybe you should be more direct with your friend.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

gayI think I forgot how much I like butch women, how could I forget such a thing?

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[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

woke Frostpunk be like: "we've got to build the Genderator"

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Went out today wearing a sports bra. I am 90% sure that everyone could see a conspicuous roundness in my chest area, but nobody commented.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (5 children)

At least you’re smart enough to wear one. Earlier in my transition, when I was still somewhat masc presenting, I once had the glorious idea of going on a hike without one, because it was really hot outside.

The top of the mountain was quite crowded and while I was enjoying the view, I started to notice that the people there were looking at me in a funny way, especially the children. At the time I thought it was because I was wearing a headband to keep my hair at bay, which made me look very feminine for a "man". Until I saw the photos afterwards...

You could see EVERYTHING! distress 2 little boobs poking out of my shirt in all their feminine glory.

I never realized until then how visible they were, because of them growing so slowly. But after giving those people a little genderfuckery show, I started taking my mom’s advice of wearing bras more seriously.

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago
[–] PaX@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

too tired im only can be floppa and puppy today

Ah, well, nonetheless, the horrors demand humanness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

My sad ass really wishes I had a partner to cuddle with rn

catgirl-flop

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[–] gwysibo@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

don't see anything about it here or in the news mega but just wanted to share that there was an enormous protest in parliament square (and up and down the UK) yesterday against the supreme court ruling on wednesday. all of parliament square was filled and people were spilling out onto the roads.

[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

dysphoria posting, state of the world postingi dont have a lot of days anymore where i cant look at myself in the mirror, even, or where i feel totally disgusting. i've been transitioned a long time, i dont get misgendered like anywhere, but...

today is one of those days. i think something about the way the world is attacking us is really getting to my sense of self and making me feel like all of the bad things the shitheads call us, and also in therapy yesterday i kind of opened a pandora's box of a lot of the trauma i went through as a child that i usually cover up with jokes and generally repress, even without realizing it. my therapist seems to think i have some kind of ptsd, surprisingly. i was just forced to do some surgeries against my consent, its nbd, really, at least i can walk now

anyway w/e today is clearly a write-off, maybe tomorrow will be better

[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

posting thur it all to keep sane

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

dracula-flow Zaza got me looking at underwear online then feeling bad about my self image

catgirl-flop

[–] FumpyAer@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

So I met somebody in a public space and we hit it off and they were boy coded in presentation, but she felt comfortable enough to disclose that she's a trans woman over texting! Hopefully that means I'm doing a good job :')

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

wednesdays are for the boy(moder)s

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (7 children)

caught in a weird spot right now

i'm going to have been on HRT for a year now in about 3 weeks

I always told myself "don't sweat looking into any of the big surgeries yet. you're still pretty new on HRT and won't have to worry about this for a while. this is a problem for future you"

but now i am future me. i have about reached the time to where i can do the fun t girl surgeries now. it probably is about time to start looking into getting my surgeries. that wait list isn't going to be getting any shorter

fuck i'm gonna have to start making calls now, aren't i?

fuck, now's the time...

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago

it's 4/20 in moscow stalin-smokin

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I might have internalized volcel-vanguard too much had a lucid dream that I was gonna take this girl I knew to my room to "smash" but kept trying to figure out who'd she choose in melee to counter her blob-help I flew too close to the sun with this bit and don't know how to recover 😭 serious

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[–] CrookedSerpent@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

Just noticed halfway through the workday that I definitely forgot to shave this morning πŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒπŸ™ƒ Ah well, guess it's trans day of visibility 2.... being stealth was lame anyways πŸ™‚

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

sex stuffPremature ejaculation is low key kinda hot though, just a lil touch and they cum from that??? Although, I do like the embarrassment and teasing side of it - which if it was just accepted, then it wouldn't be as hot because then you can't tease and shame em for it as effectively

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (7 children)

Well, I am out at work now. Had a meeting with the director and HR, who were both supportive. Dressed full femme (with a padded bra) as well as a trans pride flag pin and pronoun pins. Didn't get any questions at the weekly coffee break thing, but everyone should be in the know.

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[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She Loves to Cook, and She Loves to Eat except it's just me, I'm alone and I'm both of them.

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[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

cissy here, went to a protest against the recent UK ruling, very good turnout for the size of my city :)

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (9 children)

Chat there's a cute boymoder at work

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[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago

God I love drugs. Thanks for helping me love myself again Ketamine πŸ’•

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago

I hate hormones so much... It was so much easier when I was on DIY... But i have to deal with crypto... I just want some magical girl to come and smack me in the face with the estrogen wand (or just give me E vials yk that works too).

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 13 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I got banned from grindr 2 days after installing it and idk why. Pics weren't spicy. I talked with 2 people, like pg conversations. What gives? App is kinda awful anyway, like just the way it works is worse than all the other apps even.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 15 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

transphobiaMass reported probably. A lot of cis gay men REALLY don’t like us.

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