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Heya Everyone, new Mega time and for it, I'm gonna advertise a TTRPG system called Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

A sword duel can end in kissing, a witch can gain her power by helping others find love, and an entire campaign can be built around wandering matchmakers flying from system to system.

Thirsty Sword Lesbians is a roleplaying game for telling queer stories with friends. If you love angsty disaster lesbians with swords, you have come to the right place.

In this book, you’ll find:

Flirting, sword-fighting, and zingers in a system designed for both narrative drama and player safety.

An innovative take on the Powered by the Apocalypse family of games.

Nine character types, each focusing on a particular emotional conflict: Beast, Chosen, Devoted, Infamous, Nature Witch, Scoundrel, Seeker, Spooky Witch, and Trickster.

Guidance and support for running the game, including how to make appealing adversaries, set the tone, pace the game, and structure play.

Tools to create your own settings and stories, alongside a dozen pre-written options including the cyberpunk Neon City 2099, steamfunk poets battling oppression as Les Violettes Dangereuses, laser swords and intrigue in the Starcross Galaxy, and more.

World building worksheet for custom scenarios and starting scenario seeds to play with: Best Day of Their Lives, The Constellation Festival, Gal Paladins, and Sword Lesbians of the Three Houses Variant rules to highlight different identities, emotional connections, and setting elements.

Strategies to adapt any setting where swords cross and hearts race for Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

Here's a link to their website, I did copy everything over directly from it because I put off writing the Mega this week. I was drawing a blank on what I wanted to talk about. catgirl-huh

https://evilhat.com/product/thirsty-sword-lesbians/

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Was watching a tiktok where this one lady was explaining how bad hetro dating has been getting among the zoomers. Perverts/dehumanizing behavior etc I think it might have to do with all the sexism. Shit seems grim for straight women fr I do not envy them one bit

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

The bar is in hell the few times I've crushed on guys it was because they were kind and supportive crush the manoshpere/patriarchy has thoroughly fucked the dating scene it seems.

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 18 points 3 days ago (8 children)
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[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

opens up wallet to cobwebs

shocked-pikachu

if the tech industry is doing so well then where are all the fucking jobs.

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i just want to wear cute clothes, eat well, program, and purse my hobbies. what the fuck

every time i eke out another month without work by living off my savings i feel a part of my future fucking die to line some rich assholes pockets. scumsucking parasites earning unconscionable amounts of money that they will never be able to spend before they end up the same way we all do: wormfood.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

German man accurately analyzes society with this one WEIRD trick! idealists HATE him!

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Hey, just wanted to put this out there in case it comes up for anyone, but I'm sort of taking a break from most stuff on matrix, and probably greatly decreasing my activity here as well. I've kind of realizing I was letting it become a detriment to my mental health, which is not why I'm on here. The downsides of being overwhelmed in the environments started to outweigh the community for me, so I'm taking a break. I won't be gone forever, and you might see me lurking, or dropping the occasional comment from time to time, but I probably wouldn't expect further interaction from me for a bit. If you need or want to reach me, please feel free to DM me on matrix. It's much easier for me to manage one on one now, which is ironic because I used to be a completely other way, but here we are.

So yeah, that's all I've got to say. Again, I will be back! I just need a bit of a break from some social stuff for a bit. My matrix account is linked to my profile here as well, and I'm still in the rooms, so hopefully it shouldn't prove too much of an issue if you want/need to reach me. With that, I'll wish you all a wonderful day cat-trans

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I hope your mental health improves cat-trans

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Don't worry, I'm doing alright! Just noticing certain habits and thought patterns I want to try to stop having cat-trans

Ah I see, well I hope the break is good for you :)

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

cat-trans

Take care of yourself however you need, I'll be happy to see you back when you can be!

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

~~Political~~ girl power grows out of a barrel of a gun

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

I've grown out of being ashamed of being a freak/weirdo the joy I get out of my special interests no-copyright kiryu-dame-da-ne pika-cousin-suffering far out weigh my old inhibitions. I squealed a bit earlier when I saw a furry's paw mitts that shit is so dope niko-wonderous

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago

Bad brain is gone!!! elmofire

All hail normal level of anxiety brain! very-normal

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

catgirl-flop i don't know how much more energy i have any more. i am so tired and being an out and open trans woman who doesn't at all pass is so very hard

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

meow-hug

I am also v burned out lately

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

Waitress complimented my hair in a very sweet way and asked if it was my natural color doggirl-happy Very uplifting after the staring child incident

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

four

nothing wrong with me

Richard Cheese
Get up, come on get down with the cisness
Get up come on get down with the cisness
Open up your hate and let it flow into meeee

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

"Yeah, yeah, I know I'm hot, y'all don't have to stare so much." I think to myself as people keep eyeing at me weirdly

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Had a couple stare/talk/point at me for the first time yesterday it was a very weird and uncomfortable feeling. Not even on E yet people just leave me alone...

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

Like, I just have long hair and painted nails, plus gender neutral clothing, stop acting like I'm weird

[–] buh@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

a lot of deeply buried childhood religious trauma resurfacing tonight 🫠

meow-hug It was a lot for me to unpack, I'm sorry.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

mental health, alcoholI think drinking too much lately threw off my brain chemistry or something and now my baseline anxiety feels a lot higher and it's overwhelming and exhausting

Just having a constant ambient dread of "something bad's about to happen" that doesn't need to make sense to still make me all tense and like my heart rate is too high

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

Just asked my crush out and she felt the same way! I am nervous because it complicated, as I have not done polyamory before, but think that it will be a lot of fun. trans-heart

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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Last night the only dream I can remember was one of my scripts firing and seeing the command line output. I read and and thought to myself it exceeded the rate limits and probably silently failed. When I woke up I checked and yes its working fine as far as I can tell.

Late night yearning hits different catgirl-flop

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (7 children)

What fictional character made you go "oh hmm hang on I'm not cis maybe"? For me it was Kris Deltarune. I saw them eating moss and being nonbinary and I was like. Hmm. Yes. I can get behind that

[–] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 days ago

Loran and Tieria, both from gundam

extremely gender

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

Sheik, Ocarina of Time

You saw them eating moss so you picked moss as a username

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

I don’t know how to say this without it sounding like a meme, but I kind of hate my philtrum.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 3 days ago (4 children)

You've met with a terrible fate, haven't you?

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)
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