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[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 25 points 3 days ago (8 children)

I disagree with the belief that all police officers are automatically bad people

It’s not the premise that they are all inherently bad. It’s that there are plenty of bad ones and the good ones do nothing about them or actively protect them.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 14 points 3 days ago

A friend of mine is a cop & a nice guy. I asked him why the hell he became a cop of all things & he said "this way, I know there's at least one cop in existence who's not a racist asshole."

I countered with "Oh, so you're just a regular asshole, then?" An he said "No sir; I am an ass hat. An asshole is an ass the whole time. If people are cool, I'm cool with them, but if someone wants to be an ass, I can put my ass hat on to match their energy."

I can respect that.

[–] Wahots@pawb.social 11 points 3 days ago

One of my friends was a rural police officer, which I didn't know. Dude is super friendly and queer. Unfortunately he had a lot of terribly sad stories of AD&D and DUIs. He finally called it quits when one woman rode up an industrial garage door to impress her friend and got lethally caught in it. Found her friend holding her legs to try and save her. Too many terrible things happened to nice but terribly misguided (or drunk) people.

I think that job hurt his heart.

[–] essell@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

i agree with you.

My best friend is ex-police. My brother is police.

They're not saints but they're good people, certainly not exploring or abusing anyone.

Then again, we're not in the USA so I can't comment on what it's like there.

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[–] solomonschuler@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago

That AI (as in "generative AI") helps in learning if you give it the right prompt. There is evidence to support that when a user asks AI to implement code, that they (the user) won't touch it because they are unfamiliar of the code it generated. The AI effectively made a psychological black box that no programmer wants to touch even for a (relatively speaking) small snippet of code to a larger program, that was programmed by another programmer or him.

To further generalize, I fully believe AI doesn't improve the learning process, it makes it more accessible and easier for less literate people in a field to understand. I can explain Taylor expansions and power series simplistically to my brother who is less literate and familiar with math. I would be shocked that after a brief general overview he can now approximate any function or differential equation.

Same applies with chatGPT: You can ask it to explain simplistically taylor and power series solutions, or better yet, approximate a differential equation, it doesn't change the fact that you still can't replicate it. I know I'm talking about an extreme case where the person trying to learn Taylor expansions has no prior experience with math, but it still won't even work for someone who does...

I want to pose a simple thought experiment of my experience using AI on say (for example) taylor expansions. Lets assume i wants to learn Taylor expansion, ive already done differential calculus (the main requirement for taylor expansions) and I asks chatGPT "how to do Taylor expansions" as in what is the proof to the general series expansion, and show an example of applying Taylor expansions to a function. What happens when I try and do a problem is when I experience a level of uncertainty in my ability to actually perform it, and this is when I ask chatGPT if i did it correct or not. But you sort of see what I'm saying it's a downward spiral of loosing your certainty, sanity, and time commitment over time when you do use it.

That is what the programmers are experiencing, it's not that they don't want to touch it because they are unfamiliar with the code that the AI generated, it's that they are uncertain in their own ability to fix an issue as they may fuck it up even more. People are terrified of the concept of failure and fucking shit up, and by using AI they "solve" that issue of theirs even though the probability of it hallucinating is higher then if someone spent time figuring out any conflicts themselves.

[–] tfowinder@sh.itjust.works 87 points 4 days ago (3 children)

It's common to advise young people that Working hard and grinding when you are young, then having relatively calm and relaxation life for the rest of the life.

I think the relaxation never comes, if you work to death right now then still there is a pretty good chance you would be doing same 10 years from now. I believe ther should be balance between work and life no matter what age.

[–] WhatGodIsMadeOf@feddit.org 31 points 4 days ago

Also working hard doesn't get you anywhere. You have to also be an asshole that claws your way out of the bottom of the bucket of crabs.

There's so many really good hard workers at dead end jobs that get treated like shit.

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[–] Skanky@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That a hot dog is not a taco

[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 46 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago

I like to point out to those people that arsenic is natural. Malaria is natural too.

[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 36 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Cynicism isn't inherently more mature than believing that things can be made better. For a lot of people "everything is fucked, nothing matters" is a way of absolving themselves from the responsibility and personal risk involved in actively trying to make the world a better place.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago

I agree with this. People think being pessimistic is more realistic than being optimistic. They think spinning things as negative is automatically more realistic than the positive spin. In reality, realism sees both sides and adjusts one's behaviour to make the best out of everything

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[–] TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world 42 points 4 days ago (10 children)

That "growth" is inherently a good thing to do and if you aren't trying to grow as a person everyday then you're not living 'correctly'

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[–] MightyThistle@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

That the cereal should be poured before the milk.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Thought it was illegal the other way around. You probably think the toilet paper should fold over the back too. Don't you?

[–] presoak@lazysoci.al 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

But cereral first is only sane and moral. We can't have a floating mound. And that's to say nothing of volumetric concerns.

[–] Sludgeyy@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

You sprinkle some more cereal on the milk whenever you run out of cereal.

The whole point is to not have soggy cereal

Really depends on preference and cereal type

It's less of an argument between milk first vs second, but people that like soggy vs crunchy cereal.

The important thing is to not add too much cereal before you can eat it all. Adding in cereal last just helps make sure you don't.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 5 points 3 days ago

My uncle's ex-wife would pour a bowl of frosted flakes, pour milk on it, put the bowl in the refrigerator, then eat it the next day.

I don't think that's why they got divorced, but I've always believed it was a contributing factor...

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 39 points 4 days ago (17 children)
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[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

That there is nothing after death. That praying is pointless. I'm not a Christian as such, and I've no interest in debating the topic. I just find confident absolutists slightly annoying, be they religious fundamentalists or obnoxious atheists. Not that I'm saying all atheists are obnoxious, but there's a certain angsty teen attitude that will assert that there's nothing after death and I find it slightly arrogant.

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is not a popular belief. There are more religious people in the world than none religious people.

But to your point; there exists no evidence that there is something after death, certainly not in the wishful thinking way people do. Ergo, there is nothing after death.

[–] MufinMcFlufin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You had me right to until the last sentence. Without evidence of anything beyond death, all interpretations of what's beyond death are equally valid. Some require fewer assumption than others so you could say by Occam's razor they're more likely, but making fewer assumptions still means making assumptions.

[–] presoak@lazysoci.al 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

A shared experience constitutes good evidence. But the experience might involve a special technique for getting the experience. So if you don't do the technique then you don't get the evidence.

The technique might involve serious time and effort. So most of us will never do it.

So now we have 2 sets of people, those who did the technique and those who didn't, with different evidence in hand, arriving at different conclusions.

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

All interpretatioms of what's beyond are equally valid.

Why? Things in reality don't work that way.

Occam's Razor is not the only tool; Hitchen's Razor makes for a very good bullshit filter. And so far anything about the afterlife, or even the entire concept of the afterlife to begin with, is entirely asserted without evidence.

[–] MufinMcFlufin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And so far anything about the afterlife, or even the entire concept of the afterlife to begin with, is entirely asserted without evidence.

Correct, and so is the assertion that there is nothing following death.

For clarity, I do agree that I think there is nothing and that any concept of anything following death is a coping mechanism, but I'm not going to pretend that a lack of evidence for an afterlife is evidence towards nothingness.

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

But it is. The lack of evidence for unicorns is evidence there are no unicorns. That's how evidence works.

If someone makes the claim they are required to provide proof, they have the burdon of proof. If no proof is to be found it can be rejected. Hence, Hitchen's Razor.

[–] MufinMcFlufin@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago

And yet you claim that nothing exists beyond death without evidence. You provide no evidence and assume that a lack of evidence on other theories is evidence of your theory. This is the same methodology theologists used as "evidence" for the heavens. By assuming a default position exists, you're allowing a lack of evidence on any other position of the argument to support your own position.

My point is that nothingness as a state of being (or lack thereof) beyond death is its own theory that also has no evidence. This is the same for all theories of what's beyond death and therefore all theories are equally valid, or invalid if you prefer.

From my perspective in programming terms, you're seeing a variable without a value and assuming no value means 0 whereas I'm saying 0 is also a value which is different from "no value was defined".

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I have never, in my 48 years, had anyone I've known in real life try to assert their beliefs on me. Perhaps I'm just lucky. My own mother is a Christian, whereas my father is agnostic. Neither have tried to tell me what is or isn't. They tell me what they believe, which is fine. It's only a certain type of atheist, of which I've met several, who feels compelled to loudly and confidently tell me about the nature of existence with absolute certainty.

To believe that we die, that's it and there's nothing more to it is perfectly reasonable. But to assert it as a fact implies that they have knowledge beyond others, which I find difficult not to interpret as arrogance.

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

that racism is still pervasive even in blue/liberal areas, they just hide it better, plus transplants(people who move to blue areas) often come from more conservative or moderate areas, during one of my speech writing classes in college people were telling thier backstory and thier was one saying they became more conservative when they moved here to west coast, plus we have the ones that escaped from "communist" countries, pretty obvious when was pratically sucking off the military/war effort that america does, during the end of BUSH 2nd term. plus the AA on asian violence and racism never truely get addressed in these blue area, it just gets swept under the rug by the media, for the sake of offending AA people.

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Pick literally any religion.

Pick literally any belief.

That.

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[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 29 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (12 children)

That attention span exists as a relevant concept and that people are ruining it with technology.

If our attentiveness is struggling it is undoubtedly because life is harder and crueler these days.

Our attention, if we are being treated humanely and sustainability by the societal conditions around us, is fine (we aren't though, this being the issue).

edit Same thing with all the "kids these days" things about kids not being able to focus, being a kid these days has got to feel hopeless in a million ways that are too crushing to focus on not the least of which are the adults around you condescending your fears of the future even as they destroy it.

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[–] ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago (7 children)

People argue back and forth whether capitalism or socialism/communism is a superior system and they are all wrong. Those concepts are just tools. Saying one economic system applies to all situations is as silly as saying the only tool you need to build a house is a hammer.

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[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago (4 children)
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[–] logicbomb@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago (5 children)

I think lots of people believe that the ends can justify the means.

But to me, that expression means the same thing as, "Whatever causes a good outcome must not be bad." And I not only disagree with it, I don't even think it makes sense.

I heard a story about a guy who was stabbed in a mugging and during surgery for the stabbing, found out that he had cancer, which saved his life.

But nobody is going to go to the judge during the mugger's trial, and say that his decision to stab the guy was "justified," and so he should be released to stab again with his completely justified stabbing history.

No, the things that are justifiable are those which are good and informed actions. You can't justify bad or ignorant actions simply because of luck.

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