Fuck AI

That's "zero tolerance" for you. I remember getting in trouble for fighting back against a bully while they didn't get in trouble (or in as much trouble).

Misleading but not inaccurate. The girl was the victim of sexual harassment boarding on sexual assault and the school chose to do nothing. It was only AFTER she escalated the situation that anyone in a position of authority took notice.

In Switzerland, where I'm from, possession of such material is both criminalised and you're also taught in school that you need to immediately call the police and delete the photos if you receive them and don't want major trouble. It seems to me like it's working pretty well, as I only ever see news of underage people being sexualised in the USA, even though I try to avoid negative news from there as much as possible.

Let's take a moment to realize that 95% of you hadn't heard of cafe mom as an outlet

Cafemom linked to the AP article they shortened.

you can't resort to violence and expect not to be punished for it.

No one is saying that. But you should stop looking for a perfect victim and look at how many adults failed her. The actual issue is she already gone to guidance counselor, principals and school sheriff looking for help but nothing happened. Even at her young age, she is learning that women are not believed while being sexually harassed. She already attempted to deal with the problem "the right way".

The girls begged for help, first from a school guidance counselor and then from a sheriff’s deputy assigned to their school. But the images were shared on Snapchat, an app that deletes messages seconds after they’re viewed, and the adults couldn’t find them. The principal had doubts they even existed.

With the mocking unrelenting, the girl texted her sister, “It’s not getting handled.” As the school day wound down, the principal was skeptical. At the disciplinary hearing, the girl’s attorney asked why the sheriff’s deputy didn’t check the phone of the boy the girls were accusing and why he was allowed on the same bus as the girl. “Kids lie a lot,” responded Coriell, the principal. “They lie about all kinds of things. They blow lots of things out of proportion on a daily basis. In 17 years, they do it all the time. So to my knowledge, at 2 o’clock when I checked again, there were no pictures.”

It's easy to armchair moralize that this child acted inappropriately. But I think the best quote of the article is...

“When we ignore the digital harm, the only moment that becomes visible is when the victim finally breaks,”

Sorry, if a child goes to the school and makes the allegations she did and the school's response is "I don't believe you" and then after a second time of reporting it to the school the response is "I can't find the images on Facebook, I don't believe you" and "no you can't contact your parents" it's frankly inevitable that this would escalate.

I read the actual article when it was posted on social media weeks ago right after it happened.

I want you to understand something. Revenge porn is a crime and a horribly traumatizing experience. She didn't beat the kid up. She hit him. He didn't end up in hospital.

The school literally is at fault because they didn't actually do their due diligence to find out what happened and make even the most miniscule attempt to prevent the circulation of such photos. They expected a child or group of children to admit to circulating pornographic materials. If the school bus has video/photo evidence that this student had or circulated those materials he should be facing expulsion.

What we have to look at is whether or not this was self defense. I'd argue that the victim was trying to defend her right to privacy and to not have pornography materials of her spread around the school. This was defense of her mental health when the system failed.

I'd argue that while I don't condone fighting this is exactly the situation that leads to it and the school administration let it happen. Why did they allow these kids to get on the same bus? Why was she refused permission to call home? Why didn't they have her parent or guardian come pick her up?

There were multiple points where the school could have done something to mitigate the circumstances around this assault. They didn't. They failed. And then they punished her and did nothing to fix the situation where a real and serious criminal act involving CP circulation was happening.

That's bullshit.

Edit: You know what I think is even more bullshit? The situation probably wouldn't have gotten a resolution at all if she hadn't "snapped" . There's thousands of kids getting bullied everyday who don't snap and the only time their situation changes is when they are perceived to have done something wrong due to continued abuse being heaped upon them that the adults do nothing about. That's not okay.

And still, you can't resort to violence and expect not to be punished for it. We are not talking about self defense here.

We actually are talking about self defence here. The thirteen year old girl is the victim of a sex crime. A sex crime, I should note, that the authorities she duly reported it to treated lackadaisically doing minimal "investigation" and then nothing.

When you ~~feel~~are abandoned by your supposed protectors, and when you see the attacks happening again right in front of you, as well as attacks on your friends, you're going to take your defence in your own hands. Anybody who thinks this is wrong, but handwaves away everything that happened beforehand, is an idiot.