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I have a coworker travelling there in July. Unwillingly, I've been more or less been kept in the loop what preparing the trip implies and I'm pretty horrified.

Up until now, these are some of demands made (and accepted):

  • full disclosure and acess to social networks
  • criminal record
  • recent photo, perfectly groomed and in the attire to be used to travel there. No deviations will be tolerated from the supplied photo.
  • complete list of possible identifying marks on the body, with pictures (tattoos, moles, melanistic spots, scars, etc)
  • name and social networks of parents, siblings and other close relatives, including children.

The person is separated with two children; this is causing a lot of friction.

  • has already been warned an interview of up to two hours will be held upon arrival.

The person speaks broken english at best.

  • disclosure of place of employment and other connections to public organizations

They are connected to a local soccer club and a youth sports association.

To add to all of this, this isn't a standard caucasian human but someone who has looks that can be taken for someone from the middle east, slightly darker shade of skin included.

Flying from southern europe straight to Florida.

I'm concerned. I would not go, full stop. They have people waiting there for them but nonetheless. Considering the heated state of affairs, it is something I consider of not easily to overlook risk.

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 27 points 2 days ago

If I was him, I would not go. Simple as that. The US is no safe place for travel.

[–] ksh@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I landed home from US yesterday. It was my first time travelling there, had no issues and it was safe as long as you are taking basic precautions in some areas. I stayed in good areas, people were very nice and friendly too. It is quite unlike the constant bombardment of negative news I read before going there, that got me worried as well, however being from first world English speaking country passport and ethnic immigrant appearance I did not have to provide social network of parents and siblings and process was easier. It is stricter for some countries than others at the immigration but that is at my home as well.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 days ago

Clearly I'm ignorant due to not traveling out of the country in decades, but those demands are shocking to me. We really have devolved into a fascist shithole, huh? They'll probably be fine, but I certainly wouldn't risk it.

[–] CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.world 97 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Don't go. At all, for any reason. If what has already transpired during Trump's second term hasn't been enough reason to avoid travel, its on him if anything bad happens.

Can't say you weren't warned.

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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 48 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Even Americans, who aren't Caucasian, are being put into ICE detention (or deported). The US is a dangerous place for anyone with darker skin. Even worse for visitors. Not even safe for Canadians.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 12 points 2 days ago (4 children)

They start with the dark skins and then they turn on the rest.

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[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

I'm a white Texan and now try to avoid flying anywhere, even in the United States, due to ICE's presence at airports. I'm glad your coworker is such an optimist and sees this as an opportunity, but that's completely illogical. If someone were to tell me that they paid for me to have a one-on-one experience with a caged lion, I'd only see that as an opportunity to practice saying "no." Even if the lion told me it has countless job opportunities for me.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 10 points 2 days ago

In that interview, they will ONLY be looking for reasons to deny her entry, not to let her in, and they will find something. Then all her expense and trouble will be wasted. I wouldn't bother.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 37 points 2 days ago (5 children)

After reading all these comments, the impression I'm getting is: shithole country

[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago

At this current time, I wouldn't recommend it. Generally speaking the people are welcoming and the things to see are plentiful.

But the issues visitors will run into aren't with the people or landmarks. I don't want to deal with law enforcement here and I'm a white male middle class citizen.

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[–] i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca 66 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Realistically, most people entering as tourists need to be concerned with CBP asking for unlocked access to your phone, which will disappear into a back room for a few minutes while they presumably steal all your credentials. The broader scare stories about detention, interrogation, and deportation are really very rare.

I have some (stupid) non-white-passing family that have been travelling to the US (including Florida) regularly and they have had zero issues.

I would absolutely not go. Full stop. But when you look at the real numbers, tourist entry into the US isn’t down all that much and most people who desire to go don’t have any issues with immigration.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 74 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

You used to hear about needing a burner phone when visiting China, that it is now also required to visit the US is insane.

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[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 23 points 2 days ago (11 children)

2/10 if you're white. 5/10 if you're not.

[–] lando55@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 42 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Forget it. Even before this shit happened, a middle eastern looking friend of mine had to stop going to US conferences because he would always get turned away at the border.

The person speaks broken english at best.

This makes everything that came before even more dangerous. One misunderstanding and they will put you in a holding cell for weeks.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

don't, just don't.

if you have to, refuse.

stay out of the US right now. not because it's particularly unsafe to be inside the country, but because it's incredibly difficult to safely get inside.

not only that, but going to Florida is like starting foreplay with licking a dirty asshole. some might be into that, but everyone will end up with shit mouth by the end of the night.

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[–] Meat_Of_Nan@lemmy.world 46 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I live in America but I'm fairly disconnected from everything that's happening because I live in a very isolated area living a fairly isolated life. However from everything I'm hearing from the news, if I was in your position, I would not step foot here. The worst people imaginable are running the country and it's genuinely not safe for even the people already living here.

I definitely would not give them any of the information you listed, that's insane. These people cannot be trusted.

Unless it's of vital life and death importance that you come here, it's not worth the risk right now. Hopefully MAGA dies and sane people start running the country again, but right now I cannot in good consciousness recommend that you come here.

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[–] someguy7734206@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The Canadian travel advisories site claims that it is generally safe to travel to the US: https://travel.gc.ca/destinations/united-states

Frankly, I think they are bullshitting because of Canada's diplomatic position with the US.

[–] GarboDog@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

When was that last updated though? Cuz that a problem- a lot of countries are slow to updating that information especially when the country is still considered an ally legally through treaties

[–] someguy7734206@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

According to the site, it was last updated 2 days ago.

[–] GarboDog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well you can color us surprised lol, what’s it say now?

[–] someguy7734206@sh.itjust.works 2 points 9 hours ago

Still the same.

My observation is that the Canadian travel advisories site generally seems to be updated in a timely manner. Very soon after Trump's invasion of Iran, for example, multiple Middle Eastern countries, including the UAE, were marked as "Avoid all travel" or "Avoid non-essential travel".

The fact that they mark the US as lower-risk than multiple European countries that I would consider much safer definitely lowers my trust in them, though.

[–] TronBronson@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I wouldn’t do it lol. I’m from the USA and I don’t even wanna leave because I don’t wanna deal with our fucking customs guys.

[–] ContriteErudite@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Pre-COVID (Trump's first time) I took a trip to Europe. All of the European customs officials were polite and professional, did what they needed to do, and still made me feel welcome in their country. When I returned to America, the customs official checking me back into the country was mean-mugging the entire time, rude, and acted like I wasn't welcome back to my own home.

[–] akwd169@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Wow thats really fucked up considering I could jump in my car and drive across the border into the US right now and the border guards most likely wouldnt look at me twice

We went across last year twice and they just wanted to know why and where were staying, didnt even ask for proof

So its highly dependant on your origin country (im Canadian) and skin colour (im pasty white)

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

I usually have more trouble coming back into the US than crossing into Canada.

[–] 9488fcea02a9@sh.itjust.works 37 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I have a white coworker who goes to the states almost every weekend to visit family... probably low risk since they're white...

Here's where is gets wild:

My manager is a muslim, clearly visibly middle eastern. Goes to NYC for meeting twice a month.

My friend is pakistani, muslim, middle name is mohammed right there in his passport. Goes to lots of midwest states for meetings at least once a month

Neither on has had any problems at the border and they tell me that my apprehensions about travel to the US are blown out of proportion....

I still wont go down there, but i hope for their sakes that they are right.

so basically 3/3 people i know who travel regularly to the states have no problems... clearly ymmv.

Low probability of incident, but very serious consequences if it happens

[–] classic@fedia.io 36 points 2 days ago

Low probability of incident, but very serious consequences if it happens

That sums it up. OP's friend will probably be fine. It's just, if not they're not, it's really gonna suck

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[–] AndyMFK@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 2 days ago (3 children)

That list is an automatic no from me. America is FAR down on the list of countries I would like to see one day, but as long as those requirements exist, absolutely not.

The US literally has nothing that would be worth this

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[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago

If he's brown shut it down, if he's white... idk, shut it down too probably - just to be safe.

[–] TheOSINTguy@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Other people have amazing reasons not to come, so Im not going to add on to that regard. But if your coworker chooses to come, here are some points to take into account when traveling

  • Don't make it look like you going to be staying for a while.
  • Be the gray man: don't take it literally, but don't dress fancy or to rugged. Blend in. If someone takes a photo of you walking by someone else, you don't want them to say "yeah he went over there".
  • be situationally aware: don't be the bumbling idiot with a phone in there hand and earbuds in when walking in public. Keep your head up, wear sunglasses so people can't see where your looking. Stay alert.
  • avoid the bad areas: do extensive research on the area your going.
  • Cash is king: harder to track and create a profile about your purchases with cash. Don't carry to much otherwise that is a good questioning point
  • shit hits the fan: if you noticed your being followed, stay calm and keep moving, make it look like your stoping in a store and go out the back door. Keep a change of clothes, hat and sunglasses. I'm not an expert on evasion but there are plenty of guides out there
  • don't bring your personal electronics, use 2nd hand burners for your travels, just use them a bit before coming as to not raise suspicion.
[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

The best thing I've ever heard in advice for almost anything has always been "look like you're supposed to be there".

I took a work trip to NYC, I've never been to NYC. I was asked directions 5 times.

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[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm confused about where this list is coming from? Is he applying for a visa? This sounds like something to do with a visa application.

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Tourist VISA. Everything I listed came through the travel agency.

[–] mirshafie@europe.pub 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Honestly I think this is a bit exaggerated. I think that this list describes pretty much the worst case scenario that still results in you entering the country in the end. There's no way they interview every tourist flying in from Europe for two hours.

As far as I know it is also not a requirement to list all of your birthmarks or use the same attire in the visa application photo as the one you're traveling in. These are just "good ideas" that the travel agency think will reduce your chances of being rejected at the border.

I haven't personally traveled to the US after 2025, but I know people who travel regularly (for work though, not tourism). They've complained about a ton of other things, but they haven't mentioned border checks or ICE being weird in any way.


Edit: As an aside, I traveled to the USA just before Trump was inaugurated. I'm from Iran, so naturally I was interviewed at the border. Dude asked me if I was an IRGC member. I said no. He was just so fucking happy and immediately told me to have a nice trip. As I was walking away, he had to call me back to the desk to answer a few more questions that protocol demanded (like, how much cash are you carrying and are you bringing in weird seeds).

[–] nerv@fedinsfw.app 2 points 1 day ago

According to what I've been told, an entire page of requirements was forwarded by the travel agency; not something they drafted but just passed on.

The application was also handled by the travel agency and it was the agency taking the photo to process the travel authorization, regardless of the passport info already been made available. As personal note: this entire demand on the looks and garments for the travellers make sense if we factor the heavy use of automated tools being used at border controls nowadays. And how poor they can be is also widely known.

[–] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 24 points 2 days ago (3 children)

At this point I wake up every day and wonder when being trans will be labeled a crime. They've come close to doing so, they've already set the precedent that they're allowed to detransition you as punishment for a crime.

[–] DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf 18 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

They've threatened to put AuDHD people on a list before too. The US is dangerously close to causing a second Holocaust with how they've acted thus far to any minorities.

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[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 29 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

You didn't say why they're coming. That matters. If they're coming for soccer-related stuff, they may take a while to interview but they should pass through. In general, the US has millions of people traveling in and out of it per day. Most people don't have any issue. It's just that now, instead of only suspect people having issues, any random person can have an issue because of immigration enforcement quotas. The officers generally don't care about you, the individual they arrest, at all. They arrest white American citizens without any legal authority. They're just boosting their arrest quota. So, if something happens, it'll be by random chance of the officer not caring about their job.

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[–] Sineljora@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yeah, the problem is even if you don’t encounter problems at the border, there are still random blacked out SUVs driving around abducting, raping, and deporting people, facial recognition with errors that could flag you (publicly accessible too), and at least a 1/3 of everyone you see is a MAGAt who are notoriously violent. The most important problem is that by going, they accept and support these realities with their money.

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[–] tragicinfo@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Extremely dangerous

[–] Soulg@ani.social 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's much more dangerous than it has been in the past for sure, but it's also massively overblown. They'll probably be perfectly fine. For every story you hear there's thousands upon thousands of people coming and going with no incident that just doesn't get talked about because it's boring.

Be safe and cautious at the air ports and at customs, but past that it's fine.

[–] nomy@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago

Money really helps. I just met a British-English speaking New Zealand-born Indian woman a few weeks ago who was here working for a large multinational. She's traveled all over the U.S. and will be here for about two more years, she said she's having a blast. Granted she spoke perfect English with a lovely British accent so YMMV but resources and calls you can make help a lot. Money is the great equalizer in the U.S.

[–] DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf 20 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Very. It's even dangerous to live here as a citizen now on multiple levels, let alone visit from another country. I'd flee in a heartbeat to a country that hasn't turned into a dictatorship yet if I could.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Not dystopian at all. Go enjoy America... /s

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