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Seinfeld- Jerry and Elaine are exes and breify get back together at the end of season one

Friends- lots of romantic entaglements but mainly Chandler/Monica, Ross/Rachel, and Joey/Rachel

How I Met Your Mother - two of the main characters are a steady couple, the other three are a love triangle

Big Bang Theory- by the end, it's three couples and one single guy

Any shows like these where the main characters never date each other or hook up with each other?

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[–] toor@lemmy.world 7 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

3rd Rock from the Sun? Been a while since I rewatched that, though. Kinda not "friends" but "co-workers".

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Hadn't thought of that one. It's a bit hard to decide if they should be considered coworkers or a family. I guess it technically counts cause they're a gender mixed group not actually related by blood. One of them is a kid but is actually the oldest. Although I'm not sure the aliens really had gender in the way humans do

[–] Starchildjohn@leminal.space 69 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The IT Crowd i think, i don't remember in group romance in that show, maybe light flirty comedic moments but not more.

[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 4 points 19 hours ago

Douglas Reynholm tried to roofie Jen

[–] Vegiforous@piefed.ca 47 points 1 day ago

30 Rock. None of the core group ever get together. There's a little bit of sexual tension between jack and lemon but it's always clear that it will never go anywhere

[–] Vespair@lemmy.zip 10 points 20 hours ago

Humans are horny and attracted to proximity.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 5 points 18 hours ago

being human kinda. the werewolf ends up dating someone who moves in so that kinda messes it up but the original trio never has relations I think.

[–] mech@feddit.org 43 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Has there ever been a mixed-gender group of adult friends where there are no romantic entaglements within the group?

[–] village604@adultswim.fan 6 points 1 day ago

Maybe a group of aces?

[–] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago
[–] Fatal@piefed.social 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Only Murders in the Building

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[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago (5 children)

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

[–] GalacticSushi@piefed.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Dee and Charlie bang.

Mac bangs Dee and Dennis' mom.

Frank bangs Charlie's mom (a lot).

Frank, Charlie, and Dennis all bang the waitress.

Dennis tries to bang Mac's mom.

Frank and Mac both try to bang Dee and Dennis' Aunt Donna.

I think Frank bangs Dee and Dennis' cousin Gail the Snail

But all of these are one off bits rather than being part of a larger arc or plotline, so I think it still fits the spirit of the question.

[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

But all of these are one off bits

Well that and the question was about "between the group", i.e. intra-group entanglements. The only one that's intra-group here is the first (to which what you said about a one-off applies).

[–] SEND_BUTTPLUG_PICS@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago

Mac and the waitress do hand stuff.

[–] s@piefed.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Mac is gay for Dennis, and Charlie and Dee had a fling in The Gang Misses the Boat

[–] TheTechnician27@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Addressed the Charlie and Dee thing below; I just don't consider a one-off, single-episode B-plot like that 10 seasons into the show (with a later throwaway joke in one episode three seasons later) a "romantic entanglement" for what's an ongoing 17-season comedy show.

Mac's crush on Dennis is the closest we come, but that's still very distant from "romantic entanglement" to me; that implies an entanglement, where in reality Mac's one-sided crush is infrequently referenced and pretty much always for laughs, and Dennis clearly demonstrates at every turn that literally nothing will ever come of it. The audience is always deliberately shown that this will never turn into anything; there's no "will they, won't they" going on because the answer is always and in perpetuity "won't they".

TL;DR: There's no actual arc or plotline.

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 6 points 1 day ago

Tricky – because they’re entangled off set(?)

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[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Probably not, because romantic entanglements make for better TV.

[–] Noctambulist@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

Very subjective. In my opinion introducing romantic subplots is the laziest of writing.

[–] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Golden girls comes to mind. And maybe arrested development? but that's more family than a group of friends.

[–] JayTreeman@fedia.io 11 points 1 day ago

George Michael and maybe is a pretty big plot point 😂

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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

More like co-workers instead of friends but MAS*H.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Margaret and Frank were a couple and she hooked up with Hawkeye at one point

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[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I want to say Resident Alien. The core 3 adult friends don't have any romantic relations as far as I remember. Although there is one love triangle involving one of the main and side characters I guess. But the majority of the show is about real beautiful mixed-gender friendships IMO.

[–] klugerama@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Harry and D'Arcy dated for a few episodes (maybe only one or two, I don't recall clearly). There was a bit of teasing that Asta and Harry would be a thing at some point but thankfully that never materialized.

There were definitely romantic relationships with side characters - Sheriff Mike had a couple, obviously the mayor and his wife, Harry and the bird lady, Liz had a boyfriend (though he rarely appeared or was even mentioned), plus D'Arcy tried a few times to find love and Judy... had several flings?

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago

Yeah my main thinking was that at least those relationships (with the exception of d'arcy/the mayor) weren't central to the friend group/drama, but of course there's gonna be romantic relationships in anything because they are a part of life. As far as I remember, the harry/d'arcy thing was an awkward date in a very early episode but maybe I'm misremembering.

[–] mech@feddit.org 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

The original Power Rangers were teenagers. And I thought Jason and Kimberly were a couple but I don't know, the only season I really watched was RPM, which has a romance between Dillon and Summer

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[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ghosts? Does that count as a group of friends

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

The British one would qualify as one with no romantic entaglements (if you don't count the living couple) but the American one has several couples in the core group Thor/Flower, Trevor/Hetty, Pete/Alberta

[–] CanadaPlus 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Also, Thomas+Allison.

It was one-sided and played for laughs, but it's pretty much always there, so you might count it.

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[–] unknown@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was going to say Spaced till I remembered Twist and Brian have their weird thing and he maybe slept with Marsha. Tim and Daisy never hook up tho, but they do pretend to be a couple for a bit to get the flat.

Black Books - Bernard does mention he once possibly might have slept with Fran but she made him forget, and then it never comes up again.

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[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Scooby-Doo? No, they're supposed to be teens.

[–] iamericandre@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Fred and Daphne are a couple I’m pretty sure

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago
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Probably nothing that made it past one season, the writers eventually will turn to that. Good question, curious.

[–] CanadaPlus 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

Seems like that depends on a group of screenwriters with a masochistic enjoyment of denial. You have to think it would be a very tempting subplot to start.

As a result, most of the ideas people here have involve like three main characters. I'm not sure about 30 Rock.

[–] NeatNit@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 8 hours ago

They would have to think something awaits for them in the divine for resisting.

https://youtu.be/jXO5axomU7Q (perhaps my favorite and most relatable Hank Green video in recent memory)

[–] jarvis@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Feels like asking if there's a show where the main characters never eat together. Sex and food are sorta what we do. Like as a species. A show would have to be very limited in scope to leave one of those things out.

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