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I'm not judging, I'm genuinely curious. The reason why I'm asking is because in this sort of games I like to make the character resemble me as much as possible in every aspect, so I'm just curious to know what is the motivation behind men that decide to play as a female character.

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[-] iflyspaceships@lemmy.world 80 points 2 months ago

If its a 3rd person game and im gonna be looking at someones ass for 40 or so hours, im gonna make it an ass I enjoy seeing.

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[-] RadicalEagle@lemmy.world 72 points 2 months ago

I think women are cool.

[-] Lenny@lemmy.zip 60 points 2 months ago

Making the exact same character in every game gets old after a while. Also boobs.

[-] ARk@lemm.ee 40 points 2 months ago
[-] NarrativeBear@lemmy.world 54 points 2 months ago

I play in 3rd person and I'm a ass man

[-] tenchiken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 months ago

This exactly. If I'm going to spend hours staring at or hearing a voice, if rather it be attractive to me.

Man-ass or male grunting are not my particular flavor of candy.

[-] RogueGallifreyan@lemmy.world 48 points 2 months ago

For me, it’s the voice. For a voiced character like V, it requires a very special talent to take you on a journey with them, to listen to their fear, pain, anger and despair. Cherami Leigh just does such a fantastic job of bringing V to life for me, of really bringing that raw emotion out and making it feel real!

[-] TastyWheat@lemmy.world 23 points 2 months ago

Mass Effect was the same. Femshep Gang \m/

[-] Bealte@lemmy.world 41 points 2 months ago

Character customization is one of my favorite parts of the game. And to be honest dressing up a "hot" woman is more fun than a guy to me.

Also I like looking at a woman more than a man. So there's that too.

[-] DrDominate@lemmy.world 40 points 2 months ago

Why be me when I can be a pretty girl

[-] Kuvwert@lemm.ee 40 points 2 months ago

Cause I prefer looking at a woman instead of a man.

[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 29 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

You get to build your own big titty goth girls.

[-] Dendr0@fedia.io 28 points 2 months ago

As probably a generic "dude" as one can be, I like playing female characters because it gives me a chance to be someone I'm not. I play games to remove myself from the real world for a bit, and playing a male character feels too much like self-insertion.

It's weird, but being forced into playing from a "self" perspective I find to be less enjoyable. I like being told a story, and getting to participate in it, but I dont like when the story feels like it's supposed to be about myself, rather than a character.

[-] Ultragigagigantic@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago

Cause being a dwarf isn't an option.

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[-] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 26 points 2 months ago

I make my V an attractive and slim woman with a massive dong so it’s absolutely nothing like me.

[-] WeebLife@lemmy.world 25 points 2 months ago

I spend every waking second as myself, why would I want to play as myself in a game that allows me to be someone else?

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[-] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 23 points 2 months ago

I mean, I generally prefer to look at female asses. But I often think the female voice actor is better, although Male V is about equal.

[-] solarbabies@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

this! don't get me wrong, I like a nice man butt as much as the next pansexual guy, but if I'm gonna look at someone's backside for a 40 hour campaign, I'd rather it be a woman's.

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[-] essell@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

I'm curious too, what's the motivation to make the character look like yourself?

[-] LucidNightmare@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

Well, when I play a role-playing game, I want to immerse myself into the game as much as possible. I play as myself, and make choices that I would if I were actually there in the moment. To me, it gives my decisions more weight, because they actively affect "me".

[-] essell@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Fair enough. Self insert is interesting in it's way.

When I play a roleplaying game the whole point is to be someone else in another place, so I become them. A different personality, a different gender maybe, a different attitude.

It's still me really, since it's coming out of my imagination. It's an aspect of me, a chance for that side of me I wouldn't otherwise engage with to come out and be seen.

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[-] mantra@lemmy.zip 20 points 2 months ago

I think for a lot of people part of the fantasy is getting to be someone else.

[-] stoy@lemmy.zip 19 points 2 months ago

There are a few reasons, but please note that this list is by no means exclusive to Cyberpunk 2077....

Games are about escaping reality, as a man I can tell you that in my experience, men are often locked down into a generic "man" mold that is never broken in real life. Gaming gives us a way to pretend to be someone else completely.

Female characters in games tend to be funnier to play as, they often has better dialog and more customization options.

Finally, one of the biggest reason men play as female characters in games is simply because it is better to have pretty female character to look at when gaming rather than a generic boring male character, this obviously includes boobs.

[-] kabi@lemm.ee 18 points 2 months ago

I would like to know why so many people do what you do: create themselves. That is so... boring..? I have never had such an urge. But then, I barely care about my own appearance at all (gamer moment), so I guess that makes sense.

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[-] sukhmel@programming.dev 18 points 2 months ago

I would join the "more pleasant to watch" gang, but I would also say that maybe getting an experience that I can't get IRL is an incentive to play as a female character for me. Also that's probably the same as with Ranma ½, and people feel differently about it.

And also maybe because exclusively male characters tend to fit in the heroic overcoming archetype that does feel a bit stale

[-] deft@lemmy.wtf 18 points 2 months ago

Sometimes playing as a guy feels like the normal boring experience. Often also ladies have cooler clothes. I feel like my character is cooler as a witch than a wizard

[-] mjhelto@lemm.ee 17 points 2 months ago

Just like I don't play humans in games with non-humans, I'm a dude in real life so I don't necessarily want to be a dude in-game. Also, the third-person ass thing is a give in, obviously!

[-] sukhmel@programming.dev 6 points 2 months ago

Especially a ~~reptile~~ elven ass

[-] M137@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

As I've aged I find myself choosing female characters more and more in games that give the option. For me, it's not about "heheh, hot" at all, they mostly have better voice acting and feel less cliché. I often try the different choices for a few hours to get a feel of which voice actor/actress I like most, and the vast majority of the time it's the female one. I also generally like heroines more, both in games and movies/series.

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[-] roguetrick@kbin.social 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Some of the best cyberpunk characters are women and the clothing is cooler.

For the former point: molly millions/Sally shears and YT were both by far the most interesting characters in the sprawl series and snow crash respectively.

Funny thing about cyberpunk as a genre is the women are often the badasses with complex characters and the male leads are usually bumbling selfish dummies that generally fail to resolve anything (Hiro protagonist in snow crash, Johnny mnemonic, case in neuromancer, and to a lesser degree bato in GIS who's just clueless half the time instead of bumbling).

For the latter: mox gear is better than worn browns and grays.

I also just think the voice actor is better and Judy is the most interesting love interest.

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Why is it important that your character matches your gender?

[-] Savaran@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

For Cyberpunk I’ve played both because I play to enjoy the performances, and they’re both different performances. Now when replaying I always do female V because her performance is bloody incredible (not in any way saying the performance of Gavin Drea was bad mind you! But Cherami Leigh knocked it so far out of the park that I consider that personally the “canon” performance)

The character in the game doesn’t have to have anything to do with me at all. Just like a main character in a movie or a book doesn’t have to look or be anything like me for me to enjoy it. I’m looking for interesting stories not my auto-biography

[-] MisshapenDeviate@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 2 months ago

I was actually just thinking about that the other day. As far as I can tell, people tend to fall in to one of two camps:

  1. Make the character look as much like (a potentially idealized version of) yourself as possible
  2. Make the character look nothing like yourself

I always make my characters completely different from me, so they often (maybe 60-70% of the time) end up being women. My friend always makes them look as close to himself as possible.

I think it comes down to different styles of roleplay. I'm myself every day. Why would I want to be myself but Cyberpunk? My friend, on the other hand, wants to imagine himself as being in that world.

And then you have the third camp of people who make their characters horny or humorous, which can be fun to do occasionally but I cannot imagine doing regularly.

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[-] Monster96@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

For me it's because of the style options. The hair and clothes style options are much more diverse than what you can do for the male V and, since I like women, look much better on the female V in my opinion.

[-] Delusional@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

Been playing male characters in games since the dawn of time (1990) so now I like to switch it up every now and then since we have the option to choose our own characters in a lot of games now.

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[-] Bahnd@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

For 2077, as a nerd with multiple completions with the different prologs (and a hardest difficulty clear of "Dont fear the reaper", and I have yet to complete the DLC), Fem-V I feel has the best dialog and a few other noticable gameplay differences.

If you play as Male-V Your character is more agressive and with a few upgrades feels like they can solve most issues by punching someone through a wall, this works very well writing wise with the street kid background. You also fit more into the sterotype of action-movie star, I sorta view this is the default for dialog as the game expects you to fight your way out of most problems.

If you play as Fem-V Johnny is significantly less of a jack-ass to you early game. The corpo backstory has the games best lines, Fem-V is incredibly sassy and knows how to make people panic by bullshitting work jargon at them. On relationships, especially after the funeral, it makes me question why V and Jackie wernt an item, also River is a wet blanket... Sorry.

Overall both are fantastic VA preformances, I have played more games as Fem-V than Male-V, but thats mostly due to me prefering a netrunner/stealth build on the harder difficulties. One character comes off as a one-liner spouting cyborg with anger issues, and the other is a psycho-chick who will jump out of your cereal and stab you in the teeth.

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[-] Donebrach@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago

As many have said, generally I enjoy watching ladies being badass murderbabes in fiction (not sure I’d actually want to interact with an IRL murderbabe, unless she was on my side). As an aside, one of my favorite aspects of the Horizon series is being an unstoppable murder machine in a cute package.

In Cyberpunk specifically, I think a lot of the plot points are more poignant as Valerie—the whole intro scene with Johnny is a massively more problematic and narratively interesting interaction, for example. Another instance is getting turned down by Kerry, even though he’s bi and ruining River’s day because who doesn’t love ruining River’s day? Also in this game specifically I just really enjoy Cherami Leigh’s performance, but I will more often than not play as a lady in games when it’s an option. That’s just a long winded way of saying “‘cause I like to.”

[-] eee@lemm.ee 12 points 2 months ago

I used to make characters look like me, but I found that got boring. And in this age of hyper monetisation and paid costumes it was costing me money. I figured that it was more fun to make an interesting character out of free costumes. And it turns out I like staring at a female character more than a male one.

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[-] johannesvanderwhales@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

I find stuff like fashion more interesting on a female character. Also I don't really think of my game avatar as "me". But it really depends on the game.

[-] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 months ago

I was an egg so now I'm a woman playing a female character.

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[-] undeffeined@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago

In Cyberpunk i started first with a male character and on the second playthrough chose female to shake things up and really enjoyed the voice actor. My subsequent playthroughs have been with female V.

[-] Chef_Boyardee@lemm.ee 10 points 2 months ago

I started to use female protagonists for UT2K4. Smaller target. But, then it just morphed into just wanting to see a badass woman be my hero.

[-] Hiro8811@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

I don't but if I do it'll be with mods, wanna see them booba jiggle

[-] Maalus@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

Well, don't want to play myself. So I made "random" good looking characters. Which I realized years down the line, that I'm subconciously creating my current girlfriend, ex, crush, etc. It's funny now going back into old games and seeing a totally different, "random" character from those times

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[-] ObviouslyNotBanana@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Man I've no idea why I do it. In have a female VR avatar too. I've thought about it. It's just what I do. Like, there's no desire to be a woman in me, but in virtual space I just seem to be one.

[-] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 months ago

In cyberpunk I did both. I made a blades only femme fatale with sandevistan and mantis blades, and I made a male hacker V with smart weapons.

I suppose I base my choices more on what fantasy I have in mind for my character than the fact that I'm a man myself, but if that isnt as much of a factor I very pragmatically go with "girl ass on screen > dude ass on screen".

[-] anguo@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I think that having started playing this kind of game as a lean teenager, I subconsciously felt closer to the female form than the (more often than not) bulky bodybuilder.

Edit: you can probably attribute this to a reaction to toxic masculinity.

[-] Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago

¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ It just feels right man

[-] Zeppo@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The only game I’ve tried to make a character resemble myself was GTA5, just because it seemed funny. Otherwise, I make up a character in the same way one might for a work of fiction, and some are male, some are female.

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