Stuff that I've seen from people addressing this:
- using -@, -e or -x instead of either.
- picking either randomly, and acknowledging "language limits". (laypeople way to say "grammatical gender does not necessarily coincide with social gender")
- picking both and using them randomly
- triggering gender agreement with some additional word, e.g. "la persona no binaria" will always use -a since it agrees with "persona" (person)
- "the dance" aka rephrasing
The -@ and -x things don't work well when spoken.