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Self-Portrait with Thorn Necklace and Hummingbird

Self-Portrait with Thorn Necklace and Hummingbird, was painted by Frida Kahlo in 1940. Although this painting has a small size (about 16x24), it draws lots of interest, since it contains so many aspects which are symbolic to Frida Kahlo. In this portrait, Frida Kahlo faces the viewer with a background of large green leaves and a yellow leaf right behind her. The thorns are around her neck like a necklace which is held by a black monkey. Her neck is bleeding from the piercing thorns. On the right side behind her shoulder is a black cat. A hummingbird is hanging on the thorn which knots around her throat. Her expression is calm and solemn. It also seems she is patiently enduring the pain.

Frida Kahlo put so many symbolic creatures in this painting. She was not painting a realistic scene but using these symbolic elements to express her feelings. A bird often symbolizes freedom and life. Especially a hummingbird which is colorful and always hovering above flowers. But in this painting, the hummingbird is black and lifeless. This might be a symbol of Frida herself. Frida spent most of her life in physical pain after the bus accident happened when she was eighteen. After that, she endured about thirty-five operations to fix her body. She spent so many years bedridden and cannot bear any children. This is a painting about her suffering.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/self-portrait-with-thorn-necklace-and-hummingbird.jsp

Biography of Frida Kahlo

Considered one of Mexico's greatest artists, Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907 in Coyocoan, Mexico City, Mexico. She grew up in the family's home where was later referred to as the Blue House or Casa Azul. Her father is a German descendant and photographer. He immigrated to Mexico where he met and married her mother Matilde. Her mother is half Amerindian and half Spanish. Frida Kahlo has two older sisters and one younger sister.

Frida Kahlo has poor health in her childhood. She contracted polio at the age of 6 and had to be bedridden for nine months. This disease caused her right leg and foot to grow much thinner than her left one. She limped after she recovered from polio. She has been wearing long skirts to cover that for the rest of her life. Her father encouraged her to do lots of sports to help her recover. She played soccer, went swimming, and even did wrestle, which is very unusual at that time for a girl. She has kept a very close relationship with her father for her whole life.

Frida Kahlo attended the renowned National Preparatory School in Mexico City in the year of 1922. There are only thirty-five female students enrolled in that school and she soon became famous for her outspokenness and bravery. At this school she first met the famous Mexican muralist Diego Rivera for the first time. Rivera at that time was working on a mural called The Creation on the school campus. Frida often watched it and she told a friend she will marry him someday.

In the same year, Kahlo joined a gang of students who shared similar political and intellectual views. She fell in love with the leader Alejandro Gomez Arias. On a September afternoon when she traveled with Gomez Arias on a bus the tragic accident happened. The bus collided with a streetcar and Frida Kahlo was seriously injured. A steel handrail impaled her through the hip. Her spine and pelvis are fractured and this accident left her in a great deal of pain, both physically and physiologically.

She was injured so badly and had to stay in the Red Cross Hospital in Mexico City for several weeks. After that, she returned home for further recovery. She had to wear full-body cast for three months. To kill the time and alleviate the pain, she started painting and finished her first self-portrait the following year. Frida Kahlo once said,

I paint myself because I am often alone and I am the subject I know best".

Her parents encouraged her to paint and made a special easel made for her so she could paint in bed. They also gave her brushes and boxes of paints.

Frida Kahlo reconnected with Rivera in 1928. She asked him to evaluate her work and he encouraged her. The two soon started the romantic relationship. Despite her mother's objection, Frida and Diego Rivera got married in the next year. During their earlier years as a married couple, Frida had to move a lot based on Diego's work. In 1930, they lived in San Francisco, California. Then they moved to New York City for Rivera's artwork show at Museum of Modern Art. They later moved to Detroit while Diego Rivera worked for Detroit Institute of Arts.

In 1932, Kahlo added more realistic and surrealistic components in her painting style. In the painting titled Henry Ford Hospital(1932), Frida Kahlo lied on a hospital bed naked and was surrounded with a few things floating around, which includes a fetus, a flower, a pelvis, a snail, all connected by veins. This painting was an expression of her feelings about her second miscarriage. It is as personal as her other self-portraits.

In 1933, Kahlo was living in New York City with her husband Diego Rivera. Rivera was commissioned by Nelson Rockefeller to create a mural named as Man at the Crossroads at Rockefeller Center. Rivera tried to include Vladimir Lenin in the painting, who is a communist leader. Rockefeller stopped his work and that part was painted over. The couple had to move back to Mexico after this incident. They returned and live in San Angel, Mexico.

Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera's marriage is not a usual one. They had been keeping separate homes and studios for all those years. Diego had so many affairs and one of that was with Kahlo's sister Cristina. Frida Kahlo was so sad and she cut off her long hair to show her desperation to the betrayal. She has longed for children but she cannot bear one due to the bus accident. She was heartbroken when she experienced a second miscarriage in 1934. Kahlo and Rivera have been separated a few times but they always went back together. In 1937 they helped Leon Trotsky and his wife Natalia. Leon Trotsky is an exiled communist and rival of Soviet leader Joseph Stalin. Kahlo and Rivera welcomed the couple together and let them stay at her Blue House. Kahlo also had a brief affair with Leon Trotsky when the couple stayed at her house.

In 1938, Frida Kahlo became a friend of André Breton, who is one of the primary figures of the Surrealism movement. Frida said she never considered herself as a Surrealist "until André Breton came to Mexico and told me I was one." She also wrote, "Really I do not know whether my paintings are surrealist or not, but I do know that they are the frankest expression of myself". "Since my subjects have always been my sensations, my states of mind and the profound reactions that life has been producing in me, I have frequently objectified all this in figures of myself, which were the most sincere and real thing that I could do in order to express what I felt inside and outside of myself."

In the same year, she had an exhibition at New York City gallery. She sold some of her paintings and got two commissions. One of that is from Clare Boothe Luce to paint her friend Dorothy Hale who committed suicide. She painted The Suicide of Dorothy Hale (1939), which tells the story of Dorothy's tragic leap. The patron Luce was horrified and almost destroyed this painting.

The next year, 1939, Kahlo was invited by André Breton and went to Paris. Her works are exhibited there and she is befriended with artists such as Marc Chagall, Piet Mondrian, and Pablo Picasso. She and Rivera got divorced that year and she painted one of her most famous paintings, The Two Fridas(1939).

But soon Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera remarried in 1940. The second marriage is about the same as the first one. They still keep separate lives and houses. Both of them had infidelities with other people during the marriage. Kahlo received a commission from the Mexican government for five portraits of important Mexican women in 1941, but she was unable to finish the project. She lost her beloved father that year and continued to suffer from chronic health problems. Despite her personal challenges, her work continued to grow in popularity and was included in numerous group shows around this time.

In the year of 1944, Frida Kahlo painted one of her most famous portraits, The Broken Column. In this painting, she depicted herself naked and split down the middle. Her spine is shattered like a column. She wears a surgical brace and there are nails all through her body, which is the indication of the consistent pain she went through. In this painting, Frida expressed her physical challenges through her art. During that time, she had a few surgeries and had to wear special corsets to protect her back spine. She seeks lots of medical treatment for her chronic pain but nothing really worked.

Her health condition has been worsening in 1950. That year she was diagnosed with gangrene in her right foot. She became bedridden for the next nine month and had to stay in hospital and had several surgeries. But with great persistence, Frida Kahlo continued to work and paint. In the year of 1953, she had a solo exhibition in Mexican. Although she had limited mobility at that time, she showed up on the exhibition's opening ceremony. She arrived by ambulance, and welcomed the attendees, celebrated the ceremony in a bed the gallery set up for her. A few months later, she had to accept another surgery. Part of her right leg got amputated.

With the poor physical condition, she is also deeply depressed. She even had an inclination for suicide. Frida Kahlo has been out and in hospital during that year. But despite her health issues, she has been active with the political movement. She showed up at the demonstration against US-backed overthrow of President Jacobo Arbenz of Guatemala on July 2. This is her last public appearance. About one week after her 47th birthday, Frida Kahlo passed away at her beloved Bule House.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/frida-kahlo-biography.jsp


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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

It has come to my attention that there is a major league baseball pitcher named "Dicky Lovelady"

That is all

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

Took my nail polish off for the job fair I'm going to tomorrow, I honestly don't expect to find anything but the training I'm doing is requiring us to do it. At most I'll get some interview experience so I'll do my best, plus I already got some polish ready for afterwards I wanna try.

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My local Pride was fun!! I walked around collecting goodies. I'm a sucker for things with rainbows on them, and all the pan/enby colored collectibles. It was like 100° but I was vibing

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Im so glad you has fun! The enby pride flag is so dope, love the colours. That and the gender fluid pride one are pretty bold

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hey I'm so sorry I'm late with my post. Turns out I had the OP in my blocked list, no clue why and I hadn't seen the mega til I checked. And I was wondering why no one had decided to make one.

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Be sure to check back daily or so, we are being blessed with periodic art and commentary updates!

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

Trans mega, they could never make me post in general mega. I appreciate the vibes here.

[–] DornerStan@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 days ago

I am a concept trapped in a world of symbols

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

depressionI remember a time when I mostly liked being alive, but somehow I keep waking up in a different time, and I think that’s rude.

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

depressing rant about personhood

Doppelgänger fiction is depressing because the angst characters have that others only like the mask and not the self is just true, and the trope where another character realizes there's an impersonator is just cope. No one expects a doppelgänger, so a convincing impersonation is not even necessary. While humans are biosocial beings, under any organization of society where embodiment is critical to its functions, "person" becomes nearly synonymous with "body". So it is not even necessarily the "role" a doppelgänger must take on convincingly. The most important "role" a person plays is just their physical presence. Actual behavior can be quite inconsistent!

Written a couple days after watching Episode 14 of Ergo Proxy via proxy, ha.

So anyway this is why we must all aspire to be more like Fai Rodis from the hit untranslated novel Bull's Hour.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

Not sure why you consider the doppelganger stuff to be depressing. As a doppelganger myself, I find your take to be reassuring and inspirational.

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[–] Carl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

my sleep schedule is so fucking cooked. supposed to be snoring for the next three or four hours but I woke up because I thought I had a zoom meeting (it's next week not today) and now I can't get back to sleep.

human bodies were not meant to work the graveyard shift. or at the very least mine wasn't.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

I also had a dream last night that they made a voiced, graphics and AI updated, VR version of Morrowind and it was really unpleasant because it was basically just Dunmer racially harassing you non stop.

[–] Mari@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

My little sis is learning how to open draws scared

(she is only 3 months old and is also a dog)

[–] buh@hexbear.net 18 points 2 days ago

I'm not "too old to transition", I'm doing twink necromancy

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

REPORT: area enby with lifting logbook at gym not fucking around

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

But how will you find out?

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] buh@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

how it feels to change your DNS server so you can go to leafly.com on the library wifi

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Dysphonia DysphoriaI tested positive to Influenza B, my voice has gotten so deep and scratchy, it's odd talking makes me really dysphoric, but also it's kind of affirming, because I kind of thought this was how I sounded anyway? So now I'm like "No my normal voice isn't this bad"

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

spoilerThere was a time from smoke and a different time from getting sick that I lost all my chest and lower register, that was pretty nice. Enforced voice training. Of course, I strained and ended up just losing my voice entirely lol

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Went hiking today and came across a former monastery with a cool crypt that had a 1000 year-old sarcophagus inside it. But what really made my day was the statue in front of it.

It had a pride flag around it's shoulders and there was a sign right next to it condemning bigotry (including that of the Catholic Church) and calling for solidarity. Good to know that some Catholic institutions do actually take Christian love to heart. flag-gay-pride

[–] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

I wish I lived in a place where you can find cool shit while hiking. Where I'm at all you can see is... rocks and dirt lol

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

the way my hair, earrings, and facemask go today is honestly super cool and removedy and it's honestly kind of a shame that the only reason I'm presentable today is incase apartment maintenance decides to actually show up and fix my sink.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago

Be sure to check out the post body, which also gets updated with a new painting

[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

job stuffI hope I get laid off this year with severance so I can take some real time off. I know the market sucks and it would suck to find a new job and they need me at this job and I have bills and such, but Im just dreaming about having time and energy to be creative and make music and silly little games I never finish again.

I miss learning and making things. But realistically I'm probably stuck in this job until I quit and instead other people will get the axe instead of me due to this stupid merger.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

it's tuesday taco tuesday

if you're not eating tuesday tacos on tuesday taco tuesday what are you even doing with your life

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Eating chili, which is kind of like like taco stew.

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

Super Special Ultra Rare Tuesday Taco Tuesday doggirl-shock

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

I might be partway on the path to being on the verge of possibly getting my shit together maybe

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

mistake making, feeling bad / anxiety, but overcoming it

A few weeks ago I made a mistake, have felt bad about it for a while. Ive been trying to push the anxiety aside. Well today, I basically fixed it! I really hate the thing in question lol but at least now I can fix them 😩

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

Writing out a whole ass creed being super negative about myself then deleting it catgirl-sorry.

Ain't nobody need to see that except Zuckerberg (who I assume is monitoring this site)

Also, I swear to God, my boobs itch so much. What the hell am I supposed to do about this? I'm in constant suffering 😫.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Another wild dream. For context I have a viral illness and I was rigouring in the middle of the night and then woke sweating... (CW transphobia and medical trauma)I was billionaire superhero like Batman. I was explicitly a trans woman again. I lived above a dense hospital I ran as a charity, in a penthouse apartment like a Howard Hughes style recluse. On top of the hospital was also a lighthouse tower with observation deck as the hospital was perched in a bay. There was also "warehouses" on top that were my Bat-Cave that stored modified vehicles and could launch onto the covered roof of elevated highway over the water that lead to the hospital.

I was up on the roof looking at putting in a landing pad with my sibling who was my man-in-the-chair, when I had a panic attack about the heights, apparently this was part of my tragic backstory and not something that regularly happened. I slid down angle glass windows and swung off polled struts until I reached ground in a courtyard of the hospital. Once I calmed down I realized I was wearing my hero gear so ditched it and snuck into the hospital grabbing some scrub pants and a hospital gown.

I had my sibling on an ear piece guiding me and a watch that could unlock any door or lift. The hospital was really busy, I bumped into some paramedics but one recognized me and I lied that I had taken a sleeping tablet, gotten confused and wandered into the wrong lift half naked. They seemed to believe me and helped me find the first lift I needed. I needed to get through a medical library and an outreach type wing. I encountered a young woman doctor in a hijab who was kind to me as I explained I was the billionaire owner of the hospital, I'd had a panic attack and gotten lost.

I thought I convinced her and made my way to a small 1-2 person lift that would take me to my Bat-cave. But it turns out staff had used it as storage (even thought they couldn't buzz it up/down they could open it). As I was working out what to do the doctor returned with some nurses, and this physically imposing older lady nurse tried to make me come with her, it was clear she thought I was mentally ill. I explained calmly I knew what it looked like and asked her to google [MY NAME] and "billionaire" and she replied "and who would he be?". I remember the doctor looking upset by the misgendering.

I told her "do not misgender me or I'll have you fired". She tried to stick me with a syringe of sedative but I caught her hand and followed up "and your family killed" (Kind of mean but I also knew in the dream I wouldn't do follow through I was acting like a shithead billionaire as a cover). At that moment the hospital security arrived with guns drawn, I knew they were operators disguised as rent a cops in the employ of my man-in-the-chair sibling. They said "unhand Ms [My name]" and the nurse sort of went slack in shock and I told them to detain her while I considered her fate. That's when I woke up.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If only I had a private security team just to deal with people that piss me off.

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[–] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

a 🌐?? in the 🔻 factory?? how queer!! ive never seen such a thing- i must inquire about this further with my supervisor post-haste!!

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Stood in the checkout line behind a guy who was like 6'3 just towering over me crush

~~I should get back on the apps~~

[–] WoodScientist@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

As a trans gal married to just such a 6'3" guy...I have to say, I highly recommend.

Standing next to each other, he can rest his chin on the top of my head... :3 <3

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago

The good thing about having a partner taller than you is you are always at forehead kisses height

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

I am taller than pretty much anyone I meet, except the properly tall almost Ripleys style tall people.

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[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

boss makes a dollar, i make a dime. that's why i yearn on company time

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[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

there's a lot i could say about my negative feelings towards my appearance, but i know this much to be true: i look fucking good in a tank top

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

Back to dooming about my hair

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Multi-art mega! Multi-art mega!!

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 29 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Can’t go too far into detail because of opsec but a lot of my coworkers including my supervisor stood up for me last night and threatened to quit. Enough people in my department to cripple the functionality of the entire place. I have severely underestimated how many people have my back and the the lengths they are willing to go for me.

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