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Might have just been my parents but I remember ironing clothes being so integral to life during childhood but I think I've ironed maybe a dozen things as an adult. What happened?

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[–] ODGreen@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Dress has become more casual. The business suit was originally casual dress, for hunting, and that with a waistcoat too. Casual Fridays turned into business-casual in the 90s. Then the pandemic fully killed any context for dress and now for a lot of workplaces you can wear whatever.

I like to iron my button-up shirts after a wash or if they're wrinkled from being packed up for travel but I'm aware it's odd.

I've heard that steamers are a good alternative to ironing, because they're easier to use and quicker. You can't get a crisp crease with them but they will take out wrinkles.

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago

I just throw it in the dryer on high for 5 minutes, if it's really wrinkley I will spritz it with water first.

[–] JayGray91@piefed.social 2 points 4 hours ago

I only iron shirts and trousers if I want to look put together. But like I won't fuss too much for the small wrinkles, just the big ones when I don't hang washed clothes quick enough after a wash or the sun wasn't blazing.

idk I feel like I want to iron some things for some functions. I'm in my mid 30s and somewhere in south east asia

[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 12 hours ago

Probably ironed less than 5 items my whole life, last time was solo at a conference and just killing time

Mix colors and whites in the wash, just split between hot and cold wash

Haven't worn a suit in over a decade, don't intend to wear one again either

I do have shoe polish for some leather winter boots, and a sewing kit for mending socks and buttons

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 51 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

My dad wore a dress shirt and tie to work.

I wear pajama pants and a t shirt. And sometimes just the shirt.

So I iron a lot less.

[–] adespoton@lemmy.ca 35 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I wear a dress shirt to work every day. They’re all no-iron; they don’t wrinkle and are wearable out of the dryer.

Textiles have come a long way in the past 50 years.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 13 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I’m not old you’re old.

[–] adespoton@lemmy.ca 6 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Funny thing is: I switched from cheap T shirts to dress shirts after I bought one good quality one for a job interview.

They don’t get hot in the heat, wick away moisture, keep you warm when it’s cold, don’t shrink or wrinkle, last a good 10 years of heavy use and look professional no matter who you’re with.

I don’t know why my parents’ generation ever abandoned them.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 10 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

That’s great except I have been told by my boss and my boss’s boss that me looking like a shlub gives me more technical credibility.

[–] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 5 points 11 hours ago

I hate to say it but its kind of true.

I have zero care nor concern about what I wear on video, and that includes some pretty hefty level clientele. I was on with some c suite assholes the other day while wearing a TMNT hoodie to explain how they wasted a bunch of money on a bad design and now they need to spend more.

Not one comment and they signed the contract the following morning.

I think its because the people who truly do not give a shit are the ones most capable.

(Caveat: I'm only good and known at the stupid shit that I do, and consider myself 100% dumbass for those things that are not what I do.)

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 56 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

we invented wrinkle-free fabric blends

[–] itsathursday@lemmy.world 17 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

People used to care about appearances and wear their clothes for longer and so a level of maintenance and care was inherent that extended into clothes and their care. Fast fashion, a lack of social stigma on casual clothing, and ever increasing lack of time and increase in multitasking has lead to people ngaf.

[–] lauha@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Not sure if you meant it like that but I don't think ironing extends the life of your clothes.

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

It does, but not in the sense that it “repairs” them or whatever. There are plenty of natural fibers and styles of clothing that would be a wrinkled mess eventually if they were not ironed.

You may be use to synthetic fabrics or blends of synthetic and cotton that don’t wrinkle in the same way. And by synthetic, I mean petroleum based fabrics.

[–] espentan@lemmy.world 43 points 17 hours ago

I definitely think it's less common, and my first thought is that it's probably down to a general switch to less formal wear? My dad wore a heck of a lot more white shirts than I do.

[–] gingersaffronapricat@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

In my family, over my lifetime, more people started working more hours outside the home. So choices were made when buying clothes to get items that required less work. Less hand washing. Less dry clean only. Less wash separately. But the clothes still had to look professional. I still have a “permanent press” cycle on my washing machine. I think it’s a relic from that transitional era.

I have seen the shift to more casual work clothes over my lifetime. I remember some places had a day or two of “casual” days. Sometimes employees would have to pay a few dollars to wear casual items. I really don’t remember when places transitioned to such casual clothing. I think I worked a lot for a couple of years, blinked my eyes. And everyone was wearing sweat pants. Is there anyone who was paying attention who can fill me in? What happened?

[–] Shellbeach@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

Sometimes employees would have to pay a few dollars to wear casual items

I'm sorry, what?

[–] Zier@fedia.io 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Most clothes are made out of plastic or plastic blends. So they usually don't need to be ironed. And ironing plastic is a bad idea. If you purchase natural textiles, you will need to iron most of them.

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 4 points 7 hours ago

Me, who practically only buys cotton and does not own an iron:

[–] black_flag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 16 hours ago

I think it has to do with the materials clothes are made out of typically being more wrinkle resistant these days. No one ever liked ironing so as people were developing new textiles they had an eye towards that.

[–] CobblerScholar@lemmy.world 17 points 17 hours ago

Same reason no one shines their shoes anymore, a lot of shirts just don't need the same level of maintenance anymore

[–] 58008@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

Many newer fabrics don't require ironing, or not as much of it at least. Newer washing machines and driers, as well as newer fabric softeners and detergents, seem to play a role in the non-wrinkliness of clothing, too.

I rarely own anything that would require regular ironing these days. I tend to avoid buying clothing that looks like it would be a pain in the ass to keep wrinkle-free. I guess in our parents' era there ware no such choices available.

Plastic in clothing might have circumvented the need for ironing, but of course it has brought its own issues. Plastic might be an apocalyptic death substance, or it might actually be fine to have 5% of our bodyweight to be nylon. Not sure which yet.

[–] U7826391786239@lemmy.zip 10 points 17 hours ago

i'm well over 45 and have never once ironed anything. fuck that shit

[–] AyuTsukasa@lemmy.zip 9 points 17 hours ago

Maybe I just care less but none of the wrinkles in my clothes seem noticeable enough to need ironing.

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 6 points 17 hours ago

plastic clothes doesn't seem to get wrinkled as easily, and i guess they shouldn't be ironed.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 4 points 16 hours ago

Dryers and fabric conditioners mainly. Clothes were handwashed and dried in the sun when I was growing up, so they had to be ironed to remove wrinkles.

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 4 points 16 hours ago

When I worked in a real IRL office, I ironed stuff all the time. Now, rarely.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 12 hours ago

I always wonders wtf are those for. I never seen it being used. Gen Z, born post 2000.

[–] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 17 hours ago

Me mam irons daily but she's mental

I used to iron shirts when I worked in an office/hotel

Now I find myself hand washing items in Travelodges and drying them either on the shower rail or the tiny radiator

[–] CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

No suit, shirts, and tie for the office grunts anymore. Lululemon plastic also doesn’t really take to ironing.

[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 2 points 17 hours ago

My wife and I hate ironing so we use the dry cleaners.

Overall though people do wear a lot less formal clothing,