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[–] Owl@hexbear.net 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

things penises should represent:

  1. hehe that person's genitals are dangly

HELICOPTER!!! WEEEEEEE!!

[–] BioWarfarePosadist@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

To be honest I think one of the many reasons I'm trans is I felt dirty when I thought about being with a woman, as a man. I daydreamed of being in a lesbian relationship constantly, but when I thought of myself pre-awakening being with a woman, I felt like a rat, pervert, and creep. I always felt like I was some diseased plague carrier and having a relationship with anyone, especially women,would just make it obvious that that is what I was. Maybe I was thinking of my dick in the same terms as mentioned in OPs post.

Since transitioning my relationships are getting much better, I have a few partners of varying genders.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

isn't harmful or violent

Betting OP got a looooooooad of pushback and anger for this one!

[–] princeofsin@hexbear.net 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

As a pakistani/indian, cishet guy who grew up in Pakistan and now resides in the USA (DACA recipient). I just want to say that if i can process and understand that i'm attracted to the person and not their genitals. If I can process that so can the losers in the west who claim to be civilized.

[–] Ideology@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Let's play the penis game, I'll start:

ₚₑₙᵢₛ

[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 38 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't know the rules of this game. I play a mountain, and tap it to cast Goblin Welder. Pass

[–] Ideology@hexbear.net 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Wheaties@hexbear.net 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] Cromalin@hexbear.net 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

god damn, nice hand

you sunk my battleship

[–] axont@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nice try. No one ever gets a chuuren poutou. A daisangen would be more believable.

[–] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

it was the first picture of just a winning hand i could find on google images, okay?

[–] Anne_Teefa@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

F.o.w. , I'm not letting you setup for a darreti mindslaver lock.

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The penis is all things considered the least interesting part of the seminiferous system. Like, can I get some love for the tunicæ vaginales? The epididymides? The accessory glands? The prostatic utricle? Hello???

[–] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I need some transmen to post "How I sleep knowing I have the best boy-vagina (I guess like girl cock?) and I'm always correct", or something appropriate I'm not a transman I don't get to decide.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have a friend refer to it as a clit dick

[–] D61@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

Cli-ck :kelly:

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

New Neil Cicierega album

[–] DinosaurThussy@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago

Personally, I hate when I’m eating a succulent Chinese meal and police officers won’t stop touching my penis

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Still want it gone. A want a streamlined crotch area with no pinching.

[–] allthetimesivedied@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This was a problem with the friend I was in love with. They always used my pronouns and stuck up for me, but when it became known that I had “feelings for them” it seems like I stopped being one of their “girl friends.” They didn’t believe me when I said I wasn’t trying to get in their pants.

Since then I’ve just fucking given up on being a “trans girl.” I no longer cringe inside when someone calls me a “he” or calls me “sir.”

It doesn’t help that I am basically a guy in every facet. Hell I don’t even feel all that gross about having not shaved in like a week. And I act like a straight cis dude in a lot of ways; it feels wrong for me to expect to be “one of the girls.”

[–] allthetimesivedied@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And tbh I feel like the people who assured me that of course I’m a real girl (including the friend) contributed somewhat to this shit, because when my friends called me out for being kinda fucking weird I got to deflect it by saying to myself that they wouldn’t be saying this if not for my gender presentation.

And I’m not saying anything about trans women, just me. You’re all women. It’s just, I’m not and never was.

[–] Ideology@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What is a real girl anyway?

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

You! And me. And anyone who wants to be

[–] Anne_Teefa@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

Everyone is a little weird in their own way. Do you.

[–] Ideology@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago

Assuming social pressure wasn't a factor, what would you like to be? Where does the center of your soul gravitate?

when it became known that I had “feelings for them” it seems like I stopped being one of their “girl friends.”

It's difficult to maintain friendships where attraction is asymmetrical. Most people don't have the maturity to get it under wraps and it tends to seep into every interaction regardless of gender. I don't know enough to say that your friend's internal transphobia is shining through but in general romantic feelings just complicate otherwise simple transactions.

I mean we can't say she wouldn't have reacted similarly whether or not you were a "real" girl in her eyes.

[–] Anne_Teefa@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's like a gun, it's the intention of the user that becomes the issue. Hopefully my turn on the lathe doesn't cause the mandatory caging of all penises. Or hopefully it does. I'm a freak I do not care. Your move liberal. smuglord

[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Penises aren't used primarily for killing things though

[–] Anne_Teefa@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah. I kinda shitpost Willy nilly.

Was kinda predicated upon the threat of penises by society and applying gun control rhetoric to it. Idk not my best bit.

[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

One could argue that one of the primary purposes of a penis is to do the opposite of killing (creating life)

[–] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

penis thots

Is there a penis in the room with us right now?

penis monster in the corner