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[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 112 points 2 months ago (8 children)

Loud cars. So fucking lame.

[–] cattywampas@lemm.ee 27 points 2 months ago (29 children)

I don't think these people necessarily think it's cool either. They want attention and to annoy people, which is what they get.

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[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Even worse with motorcycles. Seems like most people own motorcycles specifically for "fun" (waste fuel and make noise).

And just generally being loud. Even regular cars can be loud if you drive like an asshole.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Motorcycles I can kind of understand. Some people believe that making their cycle loud makes it more “visible” to other drivers, helping to prevent accidents. I don’t think there’s been any studies to prove this, but I can understand why people buy into it.

[–] ch00f@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Yet they always wear dark colors. Hmm…

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[–] victorz@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago

I'm about two months into owning a fully-electric vehicle (not a Tesla, thank goodness), and I have a hard time getting over how wonderfully quiet it is. And it's one of the qualities I couldn't wait to experience.

[–] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

And loud motorcycles.

And the ice cream truck playing jingles. I am not a fan of people driving trucks into neighbourhoods and playing loud music to advertise.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Another reason to look forward to electric vehicles! Imagine a world 20 years from now where the noise is vanishing, the gasoline/deisel smell is only for the diehards going to that one remaining service station that still sells it, no more visible emissions from cars or rolling coal!

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[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 65 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Calling yourself "Alpha". If you have to say it out loud, you are definitely not the Alpha.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like something a beta would say

[–] skye@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like something an alpha would say

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 53 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I’m gonna sound like a boomer but cigarettes and not using PPE, including with recreational activities such as motorcycling and hobby crafts.

Becoming a meat crayon isn’t worth “looking cool.”

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 15 points 2 months ago

Around here it's the boomers who are smoking cigarettes!

[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 11 points 2 months ago

I think you just sound like a rational human being that doesn't consistently use their emotions for decision making.

[–] GalacticTaterTot@lemmy.world 40 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Not wearing a seatbelt and not wearing a helmet.

[–] gazter@aussie.zone 7 points 2 months ago

My pet peeve is people cycling with a helmet but not doing it up. It's so blatantly stupid- you get none of the benefits, and all of the negatives.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 35 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)
[–] JustARegularNerd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I've got a close elderly family member who's recently gotten fixated on investing in crypto, watching all the YouTube videos on the subject.

I don't know enough about it to confidently say they're going to lose all their money, I've never looked into it because it just screams get rich quick scheme, but I don't have high hopes for them.

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[–] the_q@lemm.ee 33 points 2 months ago

Vaping/smoking.

[–] Squorlple@lemmy.world 30 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The outside of a space station in sunlight (~121° C or ~250° F)

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[–] stinky@redlemmy.com 29 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 7 points 2 months ago

Flashing money. Loud "notice me" logos on everything, although I don't know how many wealthy people do that.

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[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 26 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Contrarianism. Being anti-"Popular Thing" just for the sake of being anti-"Popular Thing" marks you out as having no thoughts worth hearing out.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

As somebody who was anti for a loooong time, 100% this. It's a bad mindset, and it affects your wellbeing.

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[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Being part of a marginalized or oppressed group.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Am a member of 3. Can confirm it's shit.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Damn, that's so cool.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago
[–] lgsp@feddit.it 14 points 2 months ago

Driving dangerously.

You are not in fast'n'fourious, you are just a piece of shit endangering every one around you

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Drinking. It's one of the more damaging drugs but it's completely normalized because it's legal. Even people who don't have drinking problems per se, Ares still harming their health way more than they realize.

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[–] bigkahuna1986@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Smoking weed in the park and dropping the N bomb constantly.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I always liked smoking weed in the park. Usually in my car or out on a secluded trail. Never felt the need to drop n bombs tho

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Obviously weren't cool enough

/s

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Now that cigarettes are finally going away, it was nice to breathe fresh air for a bit, but it’s getting worse again. There are so many cannabis options that don’t ruin other people’s enjoyment of the outdoors, can’t smoking just go away entirely?

There’s this one bench area on our town common that permanently reeks of pot smoking. It’s outside, no one around, yet it still stinks. And it stinks enough that walking g by on the sidewalk is unpleasant.

Or that riverwalk, where we can enjoy brief experiences of nature in between all the islands of pot smoke.

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[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Being able to identify adult videos/actresses on sight. Like, multiple. I can understand someone having a favorite or something, but some people are like walking porn IMDBs.

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[–] ProteanG6777@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 2 months ago

illicit drug culture.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 11 points 2 months ago

Clever insults rather than substantial discussion or "to cut off heads in order to appear taller," rather than doing the work to actually be a better version of self.

Moaning about issues without putting in effort or taking any risks to correct issues.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Certain kinds of rightwingers. Some of them are quiet about it, but the loud ones are often extremely obnoxious and clearly think they're hot shit.

[–] Delvin4519@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Having a car, working at some notable brand company.

Bragging.

[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 5 points 2 months ago

I hate having a car. I think it's stupid and unnecessarily expensive.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Branded clothes. Why are you a walking advertisement because rappers who get paid big money to tell you that looks cool tell you to wear it? It's all ugly anyway.

[–] AlexLost@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago (4 children)
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