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After more than three years of staying in America, Frida started wanting to go back to Mexico desperately. But her husband, Diego Rivera, was enjoying the fame and popularity he got from this country and didn't want to go back. This painting is the result of this conflict. Frida Kahlo was trying to depict the superficiality of American capitalism. This painting is filled with the icons of the modern industrial society of the United States but implied that society is decaying and the fundamental human values are destructed. In contrast to this painting, her husband Diego Rivera was working on a mural in the Rockefeller Center to prove his approval of the industrial progress in America.

Not like her other paintings with her face always shows up, this painting is missing the focal point of Frida Kahlo. She only draws her dresses hanging there empty and alone with the chaos in the background. It seems she was saying "I may be in America but only my dress hangs there my life is in Mexico."

Frida began this painting while still in New York and completed it after she and Diego came back to Mexico. She marked this painting on the back in chalk and included the engraving: "I painted this in New York when Diego was painting the mural in Rockefeller Center".

The painting was given to Frida's trusted medicinal consultant Dr. Leo Eloesser of San Francisco. At the point when Dr. Eloesser passed on in 1976, he willed the painting to his long time friend Joyce Campbell. In 1993, Campbell sold the painting only before there was a booming market for Kahlo's works.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/my-dress-hangs-there.jsp

Biography of Frida Kahlo

Considered one of Mexico's greatest artists, Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907 in Coyocoan, Mexico City, Mexico. She grew up in the family's home where was later referred to as the Blue House or Casa Azul. Her father is a German descendant and photographer. He immigrated to Mexico where he met and married her mother Matilde. Her mother is half Amerindian and half Spanish. Frida Kahlo has two older sisters and one younger sister.

Frida Kahlo has poor health in her childhood. She contracted polio at the age of 6 and had to be bedridden for nine months. This disease caused her right leg and foot to grow much thinner than her left one. She limped after she recovered from polio. She has been wearing long skirts to cover that for the rest of her life. Her father encouraged her to do lots of sports to help her recover. She played soccer, went swimming, and even did wrestle, which is very unusual at that time for a girl. She has kept a very close relationship with her father for her whole life.

Frida Kahlo attended the renowned National Preparatory School in Mexico City in the year of 1922. There are only thirty-five female students enrolled in that school and she soon became famous for her outspokenness and bravery. At this school she first met the famous Mexican muralist Diego Rivera for the first time. Rivera at that time was working on a mural called The Creation on the school campus. Frida often watched it and she told a friend she will marry him someday.

In the same year, Kahlo joined a gang of students who shared similar political and intellectual views. She fell in love with the leader Alejandro Gomez Arias. On a September afternoon when she traveled with Gomez Arias on a bus the tragic accident happened. The bus collided with a streetcar and Frida Kahlo was seriously injured. A steel handrail impaled her through the hip. Her spine and pelvis are fractured and this accident left her in a great deal of pain, both physically and physiologically.

She was injured so badly and had to stay in the Red Cross Hospital in Mexico City for several weeks. After that, she returned home for further recovery. She had to wear full-body cast for three months. To kill the time and alleviate the pain, she started painting and finished her first self-portrait the following year. Frida Kahlo once said,

I paint myself because I am often alone and I am the subject I know best".

Her parents encouraged her to paint and made a special easel made for her so she could paint in bed. They also gave her brushes and boxes of paints.

Frida Kahlo reconnected with Rivera in 1928. She asked him to evaluate her work and he encouraged her. The two soon started the romantic relationship. Despite her mother's objection, Frida and Diego Rivera got married in the next year. During their earlier years as a married couple, Frida had to move a lot based on Diego's work. In 1930, they lived in San Francisco, California. Then they moved to New York City for Rivera's artwork show at Museum of Modern Art. They later moved to Detroit while Diego Rivera worked for Detroit Institute of Arts.

In 1932, Kahlo added more realistic and surrealistic components in her painting style. In the painting titled Henry Ford Hospital(1932), Frida Kahlo lied on a hospital bed naked and was surrounded with a few things floating around, which includes a fetus, a flower, a pelvis, a snail, all connected by veins. This painting was an expression of her feelings about her second miscarriage. It is as personal as her other self-portraits.

In 1933, Kahlo was living in New York City with her husband Diego Rivera. Rivera was commissioned by Nelson Rockefeller to create a mural named as Man at the Crossroads at Rockefeller Center. Rivera tried to include Vladimir Lenin in the painting, who is a communist leader. Rockefeller stopped his work and that part was painted over. The couple had to move back to Mexico after this incident. They returned and live in San Angel, Mexico.

Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera's marriage is not a usual one. They had been keeping separate homes and studios for all those years. Diego had so many affairs and one of that was with Kahlo's sister Cristina. Frida Kahlo was so sad and she cut off her long hair to show her desperation to the betrayal. She has longed for children but she cannot bear one due to the bus accident. She was heartbroken when she experienced a second miscarriage in 1934. Kahlo and Rivera have been separated a few times but they always went back together. In 1937 they helped Leon Trotsky and his wife Natalia. Leon Trotsky is an exiled communist and rival of Soviet leader Joseph Stalin. Kahlo and Rivera welcomed the couple together and let them stay at her Blue House. Kahlo also had a brief affair with Leon Trotsky when the couple stayed at her house.

In 1938, Frida Kahlo became a friend of André Breton, who is one of the primary figures of the Surrealism movement. Frida said she never considered herself as a Surrealist "until André Breton came to Mexico and told me I was one." She also wrote, "Really I do not know whether my paintings are surrealist or not, but I do know that they are the frankest expression of myself". "Since my subjects have always been my sensations, my states of mind and the profound reactions that life has been producing in me, I have frequently objectified all this in figures of myself, which were the most sincere and real thing that I could do in order to express what I felt inside and outside of myself."

In the same year, she had an exhibition at New York City gallery. She sold some of her paintings and got two commissions. One of that is from Clare Boothe Luce to paint her friend Dorothy Hale who committed suicide. She painted The Suicide of Dorothy Hale (1939), which tells the story of Dorothy's tragic leap. The patron Luce was horrified and almost destroyed this painting.

The next year, 1939, Kahlo was invited by André Breton and went to Paris. Her works are exhibited there and she is befriended with artists such as Marc Chagall, Piet Mondrian, and Pablo Picasso. She and Rivera got divorced that year and she painted one of her most famous paintings, The Two Fridas(1939).

But soon Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera remarried in 1940. The second marriage is about the same as the first one. They still keep separate lives and houses. Both of them had infidelities with other people during the marriage. Kahlo received a commission from the Mexican government for five portraits of important Mexican women in 1941, but she was unable to finish the project. She lost her beloved father that year and continued to suffer from chronic health problems. Despite her personal challenges, her work continued to grow in popularity and was included in numerous group shows around this time.

In the year of 1944, Frida Kahlo painted one of her most famous portraits, The Broken Column. In this painting, she depicted herself naked and split down the middle. Her spine is shattered like a column. She wears a surgical brace and there are nails all through her body, which is the indication of the consistent pain she went through. In this painting, Frida expressed her physical challenges through her art. During that time, she had a few surgeries and had to wear special corsets to protect her back spine. She seeks lots of medical treatment for her chronic pain but nothing really worked.

Her health condition has been worsening in 1950. That year she was diagnosed with gangrene in her right foot. She became bedridden for the next nine month and had to stay in hospital and had several surgeries. But with great persistence, Frida Kahlo continued to work and paint. In the year of 1953, she had a solo exhibition in Mexican. Although she had limited mobility at that time, she showed up on the exhibition's opening ceremony. She arrived by ambulance, and welcomed the attendees, celebrated the ceremony in a bed the gallery set up for her. A few months later, she had to accept another surgery. Part of her right leg got amputated.

With the poor physical condition, she is also deeply depressed. She even had an inclination for suicide. Frida Kahlo has been out and in hospital during that year. But despite her health issues, she has been active with the political movement. She showed up at the demonstration against US-backed overthrow of President Jacobo Arbenz of Guatemala on July 2. This is her last public appearance. About one week after her 47th birthday, Frida Kahlo passed away at her beloved Bule House.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/frida-kahlo-biography.jsp


Self Portrait, Dedicated to Dr Eloesser, 1940 by Frida Kahlo

CW Blood

Christian imagery, especially the theatrically bloody martyrdoms that hang in Mexican churches, pervades Frida's iconography. Her house in Coyoacan displays a particularly gruesome Road to Calvary, in which the overemphasis on Christ's wounds seizes the spectator on the most primitive physical level. This bloodiness and self-mortification hark back to preconquest times, when the Aztecs tore out human hearts and punctured their own skins to ensure life's continuance. But it was Spanish Catholicism that brought to Mexico the depiction of pain in veristic and human terms, creating images so real and so frightening that the Indians could not help but be awestruck and, of course, converted. Borrowing the rhetoric of Catholicism, Frida used the same combination of pain and realism to attract devotees to her cause.

In another 1940 Self Portrait, Dedicated to Dr Eloesser Frida's necklace of thorns is just a single strand, but it draws even more blood. In the background, leafless broken-off twigs profiled against an opalescent sky look like the dead twigs woven into Frida's necklace in the self-portrait with the hummingbird. No doubt the dry white buds that mingle with the twigs (and that droop from Frida's headdress as well) likewise refer to her desolation. Although Frida has flowers in her hair and wears the earrings in the shape of hands that Picasso gave her when she was in Paris, she looks like someone dressed for a ball for which she has no escort.

Frida's work from the year in which she and Diego Rivera were separated demonstrates a heightened awareness of color's capacity to drive home emotional truths. As a self-taught artist, she began with a highly personal and unorthodox feeling for color. Her palette came out of her love for the startling combinations of bougainvillea pinks, purples, and yellows seen in the decorative arts of Mexico. She chose colors the way she chose her clothes - with exquisite aesthetic calculation. In such early works as Henry Ford Hospital, pastels create an ironic disjunction with the painful subject matter. In later paintings the choice of colors is just as odd and often even more dissonant and complex. The soft, pearly sky and the bright flowers in the Eloesser Self-Portrait, for example, only accentuate the chill of Frida's predicament. Their richness recalls the way statues of the scourged Christ in Mexican churches are often surrounded by flowers, lace, velvet, and gold.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/self-portrait-dedicated-to-dr-eloesser.jsp


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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

tfw cis people

kiryu-slam disgost angery rage-cry peppino-shotgun

[–] wombat@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago

it is june 25 and stalin saved the world from fascism

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

appearance issues, transphobia, maybe eating disorder?


[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

Venting about transphobiaI've become radicalised to the point of thinking anyone that uses the terms theyfab or theymab to invalidate nonbinary people should have rocks thrown at them until they stop.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Art should be challenging. I like Frida. She's so expressive, so unafraid to explore herself, and not afraid to depict herself earnestly. She's very free

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

Also monkeys are cool

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

cw compulsive behavior, dysphoriai legitimately cannot give myself another bald spot again i dont think i can take it emotionally. every time my head itches and i scratch it absentmindedly i remember i have a [medical issue], i cant stop thinking about my hair falling out and end up fucking with my scalp which causes my hair to fall out. making my fears reality.

spoiler depression thinking myself to death; endlessly rehearsing events of future failure in my head and then enacting them unwillingly; the snake eating its own tail; always conscious of target fixation but i cant ever look away :::

i do not need a diagnostic label for this but call a spade a spade

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well, I would've had a different word for it but its definitely comorbid. The diagnosis doesnt matter that much - except as a billing code lol.

mental health stuff, no labels thoughYou can and probably should seek out help to deal with this - you dont strictly have to live life with this much pain and concern. Therapy would be great, psychiatry might help with meds, but even the simple stuff like good sleep hygiene and eating a healthy diet will help. Look up gut-brain axis.

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 3 points 21 hours ago

mental healthi just put depression bc i think those thoughts are depressing - it's not the word i'm thinking of

i have but only one of my care providers really picked up on it (and I didnt get to really work with them cause I got laid off hence the lack of a label). which is partly because my neuroses make talking about my neuroses to doctors difficult - but "I am a flesh puppet animated by neurotransmitters with no will of my own and i manifest my nightmares because i cant stop thinking about them" has definitely come up before with several of them and ig it's a bit frustrating how that hasnt... most of my diagnoses are missing the forest for the trees I think. idk i'm very bitter about it sometimes

like I try to have good sleep hygiene and a healthy diet, but trying to do so has felt like pulling teeth historically when you cant break away from the screen bc it feels like a hidden force is compelling you to avoid sleeping due to an ill-defined sense of dread, and fast food advertisement feels like a psychic sense-memory intrusion that you have to act on or else you wont end up eating anything. i've come a long way, but every step along the way has been a struggle. i hate crapitalism!

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

Self Portrait with Monkeys, 1943

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

I hope things are going well

[–] Tuplinisandino@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

First time my wife talked to me in a week after Mamdani won. Feeling good about myself

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah I'm AFAB. Assigned female at bureaucracy because my paperwork came back cat-trans

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I've done notice of births, I've been there when the baby's come out, listened to the heart and lungs, counted fingers and toes, looked for congenital anomalies, kinda weird to look at a baby - realize I had to assign a gender even though I knew it only meant I was putting the baby in a category based on the literal exterior anatomy I saw, not anything in baby's head, not their genes, not even anything internal. Made me think back on when the nurse had initially assigned ME female when I was born but "corrected" herself on the paperwork later lol. I forgive her, it took me a while to figure it out too

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

Yeah it certainly is silly.

I remember a story she's ago about a cis woman who was accidentally assigned male at birth and her parents were functionally illiterate and didn't notice so as an adult her birth certificate said male and her red state wouldn't let her change it because they kept assuming she was trans.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

sex dreamI dreamt I had sex with Carrie-Anne Moss. It was fucking awesome. And her at her current age, not like a nostalgic version. No idea what could've triggered it, I haven't thought of her since Matrix 4 lol. She was more the top which is unusual for me but whatever

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

volcel police plzWow I want to dream about Carrie Anne moss topping me where do I sign up

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

Oh that's a better dream than any of mine

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

It has come to my attention that there is a major league baseball pitcher named "Dicky Lovelady"

That is all

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

Took my nail polish off for the job fair I'm going to tomorrow, I honestly don't expect to find anything but the training I'm doing is requiring us to do it. At most I'll get some interview experience so I'll do my best, plus I already got some polish ready for afterwards I wanna try.

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

depressing rant about personhood

Doppelgänger fiction is depressing because the angst characters have that others only like the mask and not the self is just true, and the trope where another character realizes there's an impersonator is just cope. No one expects a doppelgänger, so a convincing impersonation is not even necessary. While humans are biosocial beings, under any organization of society where embodiment is critical to its functions, "person" becomes nearly synonymous with "body". So it is not even necessarily the "role" a doppelgänger must take on convincingly. The most important "role" a person plays is just their physical presence. Actual behavior can be quite inconsistent!

Written a couple days after watching Episode 14 of Ergo Proxy via proxy, ha.

So anyway this is why we must all aspire to be more like Fai Rodis from the hit untranslated novel Bull's Hour.

I think people find it angsty to discover someone else could take over their life. They dont even have to do it particularly well - think like Nimic (2019) lol

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

Not sure why you consider the doppelganger stuff to be depressing. As a doppelganger myself, I find your take to be reassuring and inspirational.

[–] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My local Pride was fun!! I walked around collecting goodies. I'm a sucker for things with rainbows on them, and all the pan/enby colored collectibles. It was like 100° but I was vibing

Im so glad you has fun! The enby pride flag is so dope, love the colours. That and the gender fluid pride one are pretty bold

[–] DornerStan@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 day ago

I am a concept trapped in a world of symbols

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

depressionI remember a time when I mostly liked being alive, but somehow I keep waking up in a different time, and I think that’s rude.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hey I'm so sorry I'm late with my post. Turns out I had the OP in my blocked list, no clue why and I hadn't seen the mega til I checked. And I was wondering why no one had decided to make one.

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

Be sure to check back daily or so, we are being blessed with periodic art and commentary updates!

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

I also had a dream last night that they made a voiced, graphics and AI updated, VR version of Morrowind and it was really unpleasant because it was basically just Dunmer racially harassing you non stop.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

Trans mega, they could never make me post in general mega. I appreciate the vibes here.

[–] Carl@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

my sleep schedule is so fucking cooked. supposed to be snoring for the next three or four hours but I woke up because I thought I had a zoom meeting (it's next week not today) and now I can't get back to sleep.

human bodies were not meant to work the graveyard shift. or at the very least mine wasn't.

[–] Mari@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

My little sis is learning how to open draws scared

(she is only 3 months old and is also a dog)

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

REPORT: area enby with lifting logbook at gym not fucking around

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

how it feels to change your DNS server so you can go to leafly.com on the library wifi

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Dysphonia DysphoriaI tested positive to Influenza B, my voice has gotten so deep and scratchy, it's odd talking makes me really dysphoric, but also it's kind of affirming, because I kind of thought this was how I sounded anyway? So now I'm like "No my normal voice isn't this bad"

spoilerThere was a time from smoke and a different time from getting sick that I lost all my chest and lower register, that was pretty nice. Enforced voice training. Of course, I strained and ended up just losing my voice entirely lol

[–] buh@hexbear.net 18 points 2 days ago

I'm not "too old to transition", I'm doing twink necromancy

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

the way my hair, earrings, and facemask go today is honestly super cool and removedy and it's honestly kind of a shame that the only reason I'm presentable today is incase apartment maintenance decides to actually show up and fix my sink.

[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

Honestly?? I bet you look drop-dead gorgeous ...even if it’s “just” for the sink guy Maintenance doesn’t deserve that level of slay, but I’m glad the mirror got to see it!

Hope they actually show up .. but either way, your vibe sounds undeniably cool today .

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Went hiking today and came across a former monastery with a cool crypt that had a 1000 year-old sarcophagus inside it. But what really made my day was the statue in front of it.

It had a pride flag around it's shoulders and there was a sign right next to it condemning bigotry (including that of the Catholic Church) and calling for solidarity. Good to know that some Catholic institutions do actually take Christian love to heart. flag-gay-pride

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