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Me sitting in a restaurant right now at 3 pm eating dinner: Can't think of anything

I the last few times I have bought clothes from a thrift store, I was ecstatic because on 2 occasions I was able to find a Kirkland brand polo shirt and Kirkland pants. I was especially excited because the pants had a 50% off tag.

I have a high regard to that brand because I associate it with quality.

Telling my son we need to go out since its such a nice day that we can't spend in front of a screen...

While on a road trip if it's raining hard or the weather is otherwise bad, I have to turn my music down or off so I can see better.

I cackled the first time I read about something like that but now I'm that person 🫠

Also had an 8:30 bedtime for at least 10 years. I'll be 40 next year.

How excited I am about buying a new frying pan.

I like rough/scratchy materials now. I used to hate the feel of rough wool or clothes/towels that were dried in the sun. Now it just feels good against the skin. Soft materials feel wrong and flimsy.

Happily eat salads. Hated them as kid. I just lettuce out of bag sometimes

Using one of those "days of the week" plastic pill containers. Also, getting impatient for my urine stream to complete.

I became a "morning person". Or let me rephrase that, I honestly stopped believing in the idea of morning or evening people. Whatever schedule you hold you body to, it tends to be okay with it as long as you're consistent. And bonus points if it generally aligns with normal daytime. I still tend to drift a bit later during long holidays, but I can live with earlier mornings and tend to have my alarm in the same time no matter the day if the week. Unless I had a party or something.

Also, I also became very nostalgic. The music I listened to when I was a teen remains my favourite, and I've become very sceptical of newer trends. Back in "my day" everything was better lol.

And lastly, I finally get why my parents have barely any hobbies and instead just sit around or meet up with people. When I was young I always wondered why adults didn't seem to care about learning new things. How their knowledge of subjects like math, biology, geography ,and physics had degraded after highschool. You come home after work and are tired. You need the weekend to recharge. I've already started working less (36 hours per week) and also have 36 days off in a year, which is extremely luxurious, yet I still managed to work myself into a burn-out. Unlike my parents' generation, I feel like we grew up with an expectation to be more than your work. People my age (me definitely included) seem to care so much about the hobbies. Your side projects, programming, photography, art, music, sports, etc. It defines who I am, yet I have way to little time and energy for it next to being a cog in the machine.

Didn't think I'd be telling my kids the TV is rotting their brains. Yeah, Looney Tunes wasn't educational in the least but at least the shorts had plotlines. Stuff my kids watch (mostly on YouTube) will transition between scenes within seconds and there's no point or resolution to any of it!

Didn't really like how my Dad would come home, kind of glower at us, gobble up his dinner and fuck off to bed. Now here I am doing the same thing.

I became a "morning person". Or let me rephrase that, I honestly stopped believing in the idea of morning or evening people. Whatever schedule you hold you body to, it tends to be okay with it as long as you're consistent. And bonus points if it generally aligns with normal daytime. I still tend to drift a bit later during long holidays, but I can live with earlier mornings and tend to have my alarm in the same time no matter the day if the week. Unless I had a party or something.

Also, I also became very nostalgic. The music I listened to when I was a teen remains my favourite, and I've become very sceptical of newer trends. Back in "my day" everything was better lol.

And lastly, I finally get why my parents have barely any hobbies and instead just sit around or meet up with people. When I was young I always wondered why adults didn't seem to care about learning new things. How their knowledge of subjects like math, biology, geography ,and physics had degraded after highschool. You come home after work and are tired. You need the weekend to recharge. I've already started working less (36 hours per week) and also have 36 days off in a year, which is extremely luxurious, yet I still managed to work myself into a burn-out. Unlike my parents' generation, I feel like we grew up with an expectation to be more than your work. People my age (me definitely included) seem to care so much about the hobbies. Your side projects, programming, photography, art, music, sports, etc. It defines who I am, yet I have way to little time and energy for it next to being a cog in the machine.

A coffee and a crossword puzzle is really all it takes to make a great morning these days.

Waking up at 7am on weekends?

I've never had much of a taste for classical music. A year ago I started playing it in the background while doing other things. Some of it is truly amazing and I wish I had started listening to it years ago.

I don't give a single shit what people think about me anymore.

And it stems from the constantly-reinforced experience that people almost always have no idea what they're talking about.

For now, I've at least retained a basic level of decorum, but the line is blurring in a way that has me a bit frightened to be honest. Throw in some neurological degeneration and I totally understand why old people act like lunatics in public

Thinking a lot of new technologies are stupid and unnecessary. Of course, at least in big tech, lot of them objectively are.

Pill box... I have take enough pills that it helps to have a pill box to organize them. Not just any pill box, mine has separate compartments for morning and night pills.

I'm 55. Sigh...

flat out rejecting modern anything. I have zero desire to buy new phones, computers, new clothes, appliances etc... it's ALL junk designed to fail so I buy again.

I just don't now. I buy nothing and I don't care. subscriptions? get fuked. replacing anything that breaks? hell no.. I'll fix it instead.

I used to like companies, but I've learned they are all criminal scum, liars and thieves and deserve very special treatment. they pushed me over the edge and I will never return and never stop voicing my distrust and dislike for all of them. even in the stores themselves when I have to go buy food... I'm very vocal about how overly priced and absurd everything is to the point where people look at me... I want that, I want others to actively think about it especially when they are in the stores too.

I'm essentially done with 'society' whatever the hell that means

I'm in my 30s and still feel pretty close to when I was 16-18 just more tempered.

Still a night person, still like games, still like technology. Idk I guess I'm not old enough yet lmao

Try to identify birds and trees. How did I go through life not being able to identify my natural surroundings?

I fall asleep at every holiday party. My grandpa used to do that shit. Now... I'm tired and I don't want to deal with anyone's bullshit. Wake me when it's time to say goodbye.

Random noises when getting up from sitting.

Wear reading glasses glasses. I never had to wear anything until the last month. Noticed I was struggling to read an old textbook. Someone handed me their readers. Wow... I've been missing out

When seeing a kid/now-adult I haven’t seen in 20 years, “Omg, I remember when you were this big!” When I was a kid this always made me feel weird. Like, I don’t know you, stranger. Idk why I can’t seem to stop myself!

Biggest thing is probably the switchover from night owl to morning person. I mean, I'm using morning person loosely as I still hate getting up. It's just that by 9:30 at night I'm drowsy and by 6:30 a.m. I've already been laying in bed for 45 minutes trying to fall back to sleep and now I'm so bored I get up just for the sake of getting up.

Also, weirdly vacuuming. It's a daily thing these days. Used to hate it.