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[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 79 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Furries. No hate, just not even remotely interested.

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] triptrapper@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (7 children)

This would have been my top line comment. I wish anime wasn't such a glaring blind spot for me, because it's something so many people connect on. But I see it like reality TV. There's 1000 shows with 1000 episodes each, and some shows are probably great, but I've never been interested.

[–] Thaurin@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (4 children)

There are plenty with just one or two seasons and that’s it.

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[–] forestbeasts@pawb.social 12 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I'm a furry and even I don't get most furries, haha!

Like, I'm here to be an animal. I heard "people who like to be animals" and went "whoa, sign me up!" and it turns out a lot of furries DON'T like to be animals, they just... pretend to be animals but "oh that's a character not really me" and they still consider themselves human...?... also they're only half-human-half-animals, not actual animal shape either?... I don't get it

turns out most of the actual "I'm just an animal" animals are the therians instead (once I found them I decided I'd be both). I'm still a non-character, non-anthropomorphic (the furry jargon for normal animal shape is "feral") furry though, and the anthro furries can just deal. :3

-- Frost

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 49 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Owenfromcanada: I dont want to know anything about furrys

Forestbeast: super detailed descriptions of furry culture

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[–] Wytch@lemmy.zip 73 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sports culture. Betting, fantasy leagues, statistics. I immediately flatline if the conversation turns to it

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Some folks get deep into D&D and build encyclopedic knowledge on estoric spell combos, some delve deep into trains, and some memorize how many lifetime touchdowns Joe Namath has. Dumb, but I understand it.

[–] Bahnd@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Its that reason why I say everyone is a nerd about something.

Yah, you may be talking to the former school jock/football star who was barely handed their diploma, but ask them about their sport/the industries around it. You will likely get a better lesson on statistics and managment that you can get out of most text books. (Assuming you can keep the conversation focused)

People usually like talking about their interests.

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[–] notwhoyouthink@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 week ago

Same here. And it used to cripple me during meetings, and basic conversations with coworkers. I’ve worked in sales, construction, and inventory management and the sports convos were inescapable and apparently a huge key to relating to customers and colleagues.

Just could never get into it, and not the type to fake it either. Unless I’m playing the sport, I could give a fuck less about others who I do not and will not ever know playing a sport.

[–] okcomputer@piefed.world 64 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Streamer culture and Vtuber culture.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Some aspects of streamer culture I get, I do not understand vtuber culture. Youtube started recommending one to me because apparently played a video game I like and watch videos about, and...as far as I can tell her job is to be professionally sexually harassed. Like, men used to whistle at showgirls in saloons, now they throw virtual acorns at anime girls to "nut on" them.

Fun part is her mom apparently found out, and participates.

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[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 42 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Why people are infatuated with celebrities.

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[–] lasta@piefed.world 38 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Lifestyle channels and blogs. This type of content is often very consumeristic. Unless it’s in an educational/informative context, I don’t have an interest in watching strangers have experiences that I could be having myself.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thats why I dont watch porn.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I only watch educational/informative porn

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 week ago
[–] sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz 28 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Religion. Even when I've taken the time to look up the difference is between a Catholic and a Christian, or a Shia and a Sunni, it seems like within minutes at most, that knowledge just sublimates.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 20 points 1 week ago (7 children)

difference is between a Catholic and a Christian

Not sure if the error was intentional to make the point that you don't care, but Catholics are the largest denomination of Christianity, rather than an alternative to it.

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[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 10 points 1 week ago

Zeus is the most important but he sucks. Poseidon is in charge of the sea and he really likes sinking ships. Hades is in charge of you when you're dead. Artemis and Athena are both aroace, but Artemis like platonic bathing with her besties while Athena prefers maps. Everyone hates Ares but not as much as Hephaestus, Hera will kill you if you cheat on your wife, and Hestia and Dionysus can't agree which one is more important. Some people say Persephone is a victim, but the truth is she's ruled the underworld a lot longer than her husband has. Demeter is not supportive.

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[–] TheLunatickle@lemmy.zip 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago
[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

67

I think it's funnier if I just never attempt to "get it"

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] etherphon@piefed.world 24 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The need to have a giant house / car / other oversized, impractical status symbol. It just reeks of insecurity and it's all bullshit, no one needs houses that big it's just plain fucking stupid.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 week ago (4 children)

It has gotten almost impossible to find a practical pickup truck. they're all giant penis enhancent vehicles.

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[–] sploder@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The kardashian universe. I’ve never seen an ep, don’t know their names or whatever the fuck they do or say. As a 30 year old woman I feel like a unicorn not knowing shit about fuck when it comes to that whole thing.

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[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Much of the outrage culture online is rather foreign to me. It's not necessarily that I don't "get" it but I simply can't relate with the people who engage in it. Writing angry messages about certain people and events, having people pat me on the back for sharing views that they agree with and reading other people sharing these same same views just seems like some kind of fart smelling gathering which simply just doesn't appeal to me. It's all just meaningless noise. That kind of "conversation" could go on forever and it wouldn't ever achieve anything.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (4 children)

You've just described 95% of lemmy

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[–] DGen@piefed.zip 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Anything that goes against Common sense or sciene. 

Especially the latter. Most stuff is undrstandable by school knowledge. But they choose to Not believe that. I Just cannot get it.

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.

  • Albert Einstein
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[–] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Sports are fine when you do them. Watching strangers perform is quite uninteresting.

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[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (7 children)

Streaming gaming. I barely game (almost never), so the idea of watching others do it as entertainment is bizzare to me.

I'm cleary in a minority, my kids do it and I'm told it's akin to watching sports, but whatever - i'm just answering the question Goddamit!

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[–] BryyM@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Whatever the newest slang is, the only exception is if I want to embarrass some kids by using it wrong

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[–] eightpix@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Greed. Ignorance. Intolerance.

Your workout, food, or personal hygiene regimen.

Exploitation, expropriation, or extortion.

Your subjective experience of opening a box, playing a video game, or viewing media.

[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 12 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Celebrities, French language

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[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I just gonna TLDR my list:

  1. Brands
  2. New Music (Sabrina Carpenter, Alex Warren)
  3. Religious fanatics, my parents specifically
  4. Hookah
  5. Calculus
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[–] Lets_Disco@retrolemmy.com 12 points 1 week ago
[–] CommissarVulpin@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (29 children)

Linux. I don’t want “using the computer” to turn into a hobby that I need a computer science degree for.

[–] mr_anny@sopuli.xyz 31 points 1 week ago (3 children)

That's one of the reasons I switched from Windows to Linux.

Every single patch and every single version upgrade made using worse as all the settings changed weirder and weirder and hidden or missing.

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[–] LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (16 children)

There's so many options for Linux though. Mint is super beginner friendly and doesn't focus on the terminal. You don't have to set up Arch your first time around.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 31 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you for confirming that, yes, we are on lemmy.

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[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I can't ever tell what is critical to people. I got my wife her first MacBook last year. She's used it three times and hates it. I'm like.... red yellow green, and everything else is just like iPhone. Nope, she despises it.

I moved my daughter from windows to Linux Mint, and she barely noticed. She can't use her VR the same way, and that was the only difference that bothered her.

So I can't say you wouldn't hate Linux, but I can tell you I don't want my hobby to be fucking with OSes and Mint was perfect. You can just use it. Steam games, browsing the web, damn near everything works exactly the way you'd expect on Windows. I don't happen to need a second computer after my work MacBook, but if I did it would be Linux for sure.

Well, except no OneDrive. Which another point in Linux's favor.

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Cars. I drive them, but I leave the technology to the professionals.

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[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 week ago

Short form content that isn't a to the point tutorial.

Hell, on that note, tutorial videos where the person rambles on and on and on before finally showing you what to do. I came for a tutorial on how to do something and not a blog!

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

-American health insurance

-High level maths

-American taxes

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Golf

American paranoia that everyone cares what they wack off to.

Starbucks specialty coffees, just go to Dairy Queen already and get out of my line.

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