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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by Prof_mu3allim@hexbear.net to c/memes@hexbear.net

Tell the monolinguals about your experience phoenix-smug

A lot more of you should be learning Arabic smdh badeline-disgust

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[-] MF_COOM@hexbear.net 15 points 7 months ago

IDK about everyone else, but in my experience if you live in a place that only speaks one language, learning languages is mostly a decadence for rich people who can afford to travel to places to practice speaking. I've put a ton of energy over the years to learn languages but without ever getting to speak any of them with any regularity it all just becomes tears in the rain and those hours could have been put into learning something else.

[-] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 16 points 7 months ago

As someone who also lives in a monolingual culture, I'm not sure I totally agree. I would wager that any small or medium-sized city is going to have an enclave of immigrants who have a different native language. In amerikkka you can definitely find Spanish- and Chinese-speaking people working pretty much anywhere. If you ask nicely and make a real effort I think they most likely won't mind interacting with you in their native language, if you can more or less get through it.

I have a guy who works at a convenience store near me who I speak to in his native language, and the other day he was in the back and I was talking with his coworker in English, and when the guy I know came out from the back he yelled at him in their native language, "Why are you speaking English to them? They speak ___!" which made me feel pretty cool and accepted.

Now, if you're trying to learn Swedish or something, yeah that would be pretty much impossible.

Just my experience, not trying to invalidate yours but rather give encouragement!

[-] Flyberius@hexbear.net 9 points 7 months ago

That's sad, but I get you. There are apps and communities out there that can expose you to native speakers though. Not the same, but it does help

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

What languages? There are a lot of companies struggling to find multi lingual people that speak languages they want.

[-] charly4994@hexbear.net 14 points 7 months ago

Self taught myself Japanese and not the “self taught watching anime” but with actual textbooks. Living in Japan for a while really helped solidify a lot of it for me, now I can understand most stuff I’m interested in but technical stuff will still absolutely ruin me. I’ve also given up learning to write, if I can read I can type it out anyway.

One of the things I learned while in high school in Japan was that old Japanese is absolutely cursed and as a foreign kid with like conversational Japanese at best it was impossible to understand. And then I also was left in the dust in math when only years later did I realize I was in a calculus course for first years and I only like 3 years away from calculus in the US as a senior.

Then there was the fun when I’d respond with hm? To clarify a question and the people around me would take it as me agreeing since un counts as a yes.

So many things you take for granted with culture and language that you learn about when learning a new language. Honestly was probably my first step towards who I am today and leaving behind my reactionary teenage self. My world expanded, though not good, trans existence was more acknowledged in Japan to a degree even back when I was there though people would still misgender and be shitty, it helped just seeing people exist. Then one night the family I was staying with started talking about how pretty I’d be if I was a girl and yeah…

[-] dumpster_dove@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

I don't think I'll ever learn to write by hand in Japanese either, it takes so much more practice than reading or typing on a computer that I can't bring myself to spend the time that would require.

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[-] joaomarrom@hexbear.net 10 points 7 months ago

I want to go back to learning languages but I can't seem to find the time between all the other shit I'm trying to learn... did German lessons a while ago, and got to what's probably a B2 at the time, but I'm sure I've dropped to A2-B1 after all these years. I still keep some of my devices and apps in German, just so that I don't forget everything.

Also, I really want to go back to studying Mandarin more casually (at least initially), but I don't have anything that's good and free. I'm thinking Duolingo and HelloChinese just to get the wheels turning

[-] casskaydee@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

I'm using Duo to get a start on Mandarin and it's pretty good.

[-] dumpster_dove@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

I kinda dislike duolingo and wish I knew some good textbook for Mandarin

[-] Flyberius@hexbear.net 10 points 7 months ago

Mandarin. For a year now. Aaaaaaaaaaahhhh!

I do enjoy it though.

[-] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 10 points 7 months ago

Spanish- Primary language

English- Also Primary and taught it from a young age

Portuguese- 8 years. I speak it somewhat fluently. It was a little easier to pick up with it being a Latin language. Occasionally I'll find myself slipping into Spanish in order to fill the holes.

Mandarin- 10 years of learning and speak it fluently with very good pronunciation. My writing is the complete opposite and is pretty pitiful to look at.

[-] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

How is Portugues, from a phonology standpoint, hard to pronounce or just a bit challenging...?

[-] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

Not too bad coming off of Spanish. It might be harder for someone who doesn't have their native languages being of Latin origin. I hear Anglos struggle with European Portuguese more.

[-] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 4 points 7 months ago

Does your dialect come from Peninsular Spain or from Latin America and so forth?

The reason why I say this, is because Euro-Portuges apparently sounds slavic... perhaps like Polska

[-] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 2 points 7 months ago

Latin America, Guatemala in particular. I'm from a part of the country that's more "rednecky" so we sometimes shorten things like saying "si seño"

[-] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 10 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I've been working on Spanish for 4 months or so now and can speak about simple concepts and can get the gist of most everyday conversations.

I'm using Dreaming Spanish which uses comprehensible input- just listening no studying grammar or vocab. It was a bit of a slog in the beginning because I could only understand things so simple that they were uninteresting. But after two months at three hours a day I started watching dubbed shows (usually kids shows) like Avatar and Pokémon and could mostly keep up with it. I think a few more months and I'll be able to have a decent conversation without tripping up. If I keep my responses somewhat simple I can already do a lot. I have a lot of Spanish speakers at work and they have said my pronunciation is very good, and sometimes don't believe I've only been at it 4 months.

The method is really great IMO. I've tried Duo and other traditional methods in the past and never got even close to this far. It definitely helps my listening comprehension miles better. With the other methods speaking and reading seem like math problems where you're trying to conjugate and put things in order... to me some things just sound "right" and I'm not sure why/couldn't quite explain it.

But now I'm hitting that intermediate plateau where it seems the more I learn, the more I know that I don't know. If that makes sense. A lot of work ahead.

[-] azanra4@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 7 months ago

i’ve heard great things about dreaming spanish as a mandarin learner. the comprehensible input approach seems like the way to go. the hard part is sourcing the right materials, but for spanish it’s awesome because that shouldn’t be a huge obstacle

[-] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 3 points 7 months ago

Indeed. We're spoiled with Spanish. They have thousands of videos. I've seen people starting to do the same with other languages but nothing close to DS.

If ever I learn a third language, it would be Mandarin. Hopefully someone can build up a similar library for Mandarin! (Or larger, ideally. Since it's so different than English it takes like double the time)

[-] azanra4@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 7 months ago

been learning mando for over a year now. i’m solidly at HSK 4/A2. i’ve got like 3700 pleco flashcards, 1550 of which i’ve actually learned. going at 15/day for pleco flashcards and 5/day characters on skritter. aiming for 11k words and 3.5k characters in short-term. long-term should be about double.

i’d be further abead but i downshifted to transition from apps to a more serious learning strategy. current trying to devour the entire DuChinese corpus and all other 中文 graded readers. still using hello chinese for the immersive lessons and graded stories. been doing pimsleur too with “meh” results, might give up on that front. i’m still loosely following HSK curriculum via the Chinese Zero to Hero course.

[-] emizeko@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago
[-] azanra4@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 7 months ago

哪里哪里☺️

[-] Babs@hexbear.net 8 points 7 months ago

Slowly learning Mandarin, not as fast as I'd like, I should really put more effort in. I should be around a HSK3 level, but haven't tested. I live somewhere with a significant Chinese-American population so at the very least I get lots of reading practice whenever I walk around the neighborhood or go shopping (using Pleco to figure out characters I don't know yet).

Mostly using HelloChinese, and trying to get better with using HelloTalk. And lots of music, which isn't terribly helpful I don't think, but very easy to get into. I need to get back to working on it daily - I've slipped a lot.

[-] muddi@hexbear.net 7 points 7 months ago

I'm second panel unfortunately. I'm trying to research the evolution of Indo-Aryan and Dravidian languages. But any resources outside of Romance and maybe Germanic is so hard to find, especially if you're not a linguistics student at a university...

[-] casskaydee@hexbear.net 7 points 7 months ago

French - still my best language. Can hold a conversation and confuse native speakers on why my accent is so good but my vocabulary is so lacking

Spanish - listening/reading 70% speaking 20% writing 40%

Japanese - I can watch native stuff with Japanese subtitles and get about 80% of it. I think my kanji level is about N3 ish

Mandarin - Duolingo unit 3

[-] TankieTanuki@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago
[-] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 7 months ago

Japanese since a few years and I want to start Russian and Mandarin Chinese.

I have a whole list of languages I'm interested to potentialy learn:

Spanish

Vietnamese

German

Korean

maybe others I can't think of right now

[-] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago

Are you good at Japanese now or still at a basic "Nihongo jouzu"...?

[-] ExotiqueMatter@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 7 months ago

I can understand and form simple and "medium" I think.

Haven't been practicing a lot lately.

But I can sort of have an everyday conversation I think?

[-] axont@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago

I can read Arabic script mostly correct now, but I still can't speak it well.

I'm ok at Japanese, but largely illiterate. There's too many kanji. I've gotten back into Mandarin too. I learned a lot of Old English (anglo-saxon) in college that I still retain for some reason. Possibly the least useful dead language that's still taught.

[-] emizeko@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

I'd like to learn some Arabic but I'm so intimated by Arabic script. I find it so hard to recognize the pieces and the ligatures wreck me

[-] Prof_mu3allim@hexbear.net 7 points 7 months ago

Arabic only has 28 letters, they just change their shape a bit so that they can connect with other letters, and by change their shape they simply lose what we call a "tail" and keep the "core", see the spoiler and tell me if you're still intimidated

lessonhttps://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/lmxfaZujkW.png?format=webp

There are 28 letters in the Arabic alphabet. It’s written from right to left in a cursive style. There are no capital letters in Arabic.

أ ب ت ث ج ح خ د ذ ر ز س ش ص ض ط ظ ع غ ف ق ك ل م ن هـ و ي

Arabic letters have slightly different shapes depending on where they are in a word i.e. whether they stand alone or are connected to a following or preceding letter or both. We write in cursive so we need to connect the letters.

Let’s take the letter "meem" م (Arabic m) for example. In its independent (isolated) form it is made of a small circle, a small stroke to the left then a long downward stroke. Now, when we wanna connect it to a letter after it, it would be inconvenient to do the long downward stroke then go all the way up to where the next letter starts :think-about-it: . That’s why we just drop the long downward stroke, leaving just the small circle and the short stroke to the left مـ

م + ب = مب

So م 's small circle is what we call a core, that part of the letter that distinguishes it.

:meow-coffee:

This is the letter baa' ب (Arabic b). The core (main parts) of the letter are the initial tooth and the dot beneath the letter. The second tooth is considered the "tail" and we remove it when the ب is followed by another letter.

In the initial position (first letter in a word i.e. only connects to a following letter) it turns into بــ :

ب + م = بم

ب + ج = بج

In the medial position (the letter is connected to two other letters) the ب looks like this ـبــ and in the final position (connected only to the preceding letter) it looks like this ـب :

م + ب + م = مبم

م + ب = مب

:meow-coffee:

Look at these letters س ش ص ض :wtf-am-i-reading: they all have that curved part at the end so it doesn't help us tell them apart i.e. it is not part of the core, it's the tail. The core is سـ شـ صـ ضـ

You can still tell them apart, can't you?

س + ب + ص = سبص

م + س + ب + ض = مسبض

The ص is the final letter which means it gets to keep its tail. We only remove the tail so we can easily connect a letter to the one after it.

:ortega-clap:

[-] emizeko@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

thank you very much for this. I'm less intimidated... and I'm saving that helpful chart!

[-] kristina@hexbear.net 6 points 7 months ago
[-] bendan@hexbear.net 5 points 7 months ago

Everyone's learning Mandarin lol. I've been on and off for a few years but should get back into it, 亡羊补牢!

I've tried to learn the Arabic alphabet a few times but I just can't keep track of the dots. Are there other ways to group the letters that help learning?

[-] Prof_mu3allim@hexbear.net 2 points 7 months ago

I'll send you something that should help a lot, the dots make a lot of sense actually.

[-] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 4 points 7 months ago

I'd say Chinese (Putonghua) but I don't think that's really fair to say anymore. doomjak

[-] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Lemme guess, that's your mother tongue...

That being said, how do I pronounce the 4 tones?

[-] bendan@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

1st tone ā - a high flat tone, like singing

2nd tone á - rising, from the middle to the top, like a question

3rd tone ǎ - low tone, as low as you can, it often becomes vocal fry. (also rises a bit at the end of sentences or in isolation)

4th tone à - falling, from the top to the bottom, sounds angry

there's also a secret "neutral tone" that happens to the second syllable of many two-syllable words, or for grammatical particles. it changes tone height based on where the previous tone ended, so basically if the previous tone ends low, the neutral tone is high and vice versa. these syllables are also shorter in duration and some diphthongs are flattened.

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[-] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

Currently just started learning Hebrew, I speak 4 languages and not a single language that I learned I learned willingly, I just kind of passively learn it for a purpose or another. I have a few '48 Palestinian friends who have to speak Hebrew so thankfully I'll be able to communicate with a speaker without having to talk with a pissraeli

[-] material_delinquent@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

I am learning arabic, but I really need patient people to speak with me. As a "visibly trans" person, that is not easy sometimes - mostly bc I don't know where I could safely look for people that accept me.

Also learning Hebrew, that one can wait a bit

[-] homhom9000@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

Im learning Japanese. Just like when I learned Spanish, my reading is better than speaking/writing. My teacher is great though and points out the patterns for grammar which is so much easier. Don't ask me about kanji.

4月、日本語はべんきょうしました。

[-] blakeus12@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

trying to learn mandarin but struggling, i need like a daily study routine or something

[-] Evilsandwichman@hexbear.net 3 points 7 months ago

Yo, I'm learning Arabic; just don't talk to me in that aa'meeya way (contemporary?); I'm learning classical/fus-ha.

Me here learning 'kayfa haluka' and some random guy being like 'shlonak'.

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[-] commiespammer@hexbear.net 2 points 7 months ago

I'm learning German at school, Russian on duolingo(I want to be able to sing all the Kino songs!), and I already know english and chinese.

[-] TrashGoblin@hexbear.net 2 points 7 months ago

warf-wtf tlhIngan Hol.

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