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Informal Site Survey: Pride Edition! Are you a cisgender heterosexual? Yes, no, or unsure? (hexbear.net)

submitted 6 months ago by kristina@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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Hey, we still haven't been able to find a secure way to poll everyone yet. I've really been wanting to ask (in the negative, to be more inclusive) what proportion of Hexbear is queer. This isn't going to be super scientific or anything as a result, but just a quick guess.

Please respond to this post with the following emojis :

For yes, you ARE a cisgender heterosexual (cishet):

dean-smile

For no, you are NOT a cisgender heterosexual (cishet):

dean-frown

For unsure, as in you are UNSURE or QUESTIONING if you are queer, transgender, a cisgender heterosexual (cishet), etc:

dean-neutral

If you have anything to add, please use a spoiler tag below your answer like so:

spoiler

hi!

Remember to respond even if you are cisgender, queer, or otherwise. Everyone should try to respond, if you feel comfortable!

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[-] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

what is that flag what is that flag who made that flag tell me now

dean-smile and yeah im trans as fuck im gay as fuck its the best why should i frown

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[-] charly4994@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

dean-frown

[-] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago

dean-frown tfw cishets smh

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[-] Commiejones@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

[-] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago

confusion

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

[-] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] pacifist@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

[-] GunslingerSky@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] Zrc@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] silent_water@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

dean-frown

spoiler

[-] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

[-] hopelessbyanxiety@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

dean-frown :

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After going to art high school, its so weird seing so many cishets. Like, are normal people seriously disgusted if i say im not cis or het?? Whats their problem??? cat-confused

[-] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown sicko-queer

[-] Thordros@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] bunnygirl@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] take_five_seconds@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

dean-smile

spoiler

[-] companero@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

[-] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown flag-bi-pride

And I kinda don't get 'gender' as to how I'm supposed to interpret how I feel occupying one but I was amab and it's fine I guess. It hasn't really been an issue aside from being called gay in jr high kinda stuff.

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 6 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] Philosophosphorous@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

i'm bi and probably somewhat more attracted to girls but every relationship and intimate encounter i've had so far has been with boys boykisser

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[-] blakeus12@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

dean-frown

oops i forgor

I'm bisexual and questioning my gender

[-] Skeleton_Erisma@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] Ericthescruffy@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

spoiler

I don't question my gender...but Chris Evans does sometimes make me question my sexuality. Only one who ever has.

[-] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

dean-frown hexbear-asexual hexbear-trans

[-] whatnots@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] somename@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] MohammedTheCommunistPalestinian@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

I’m Cis and heterosexual

[-] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-neutral

spoiler

Forgive this rambling explanation, I haven't deeply explored my feelings on this.

I always feel a little weird giving my honest response to this question because I feel like I'm taking something away from trans people.

I don't identify with my birth assigned gender, but I do generally conform to it in dress and appearance and don't care to change that. I don't feel like I'm any gender at all(is that agender?). I don't ever feel gender dysphoria and don't really think about my gender identity often. I do sometimes feel pressure to conform to my birth gender in behavior, and that really bothers me because that's the aspect of gender I don't identify with. When I was younger I always felt like I was performing my assigned gender, and as an older person I'm glad I'm mostly free of that.

I think that makes me trans, but I'm not sure.

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[-] NoamParenti@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-malice

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[-] Babs@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] orshelack@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] WhyEssEff@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] axont@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

:dean-frown:

I'm a nonbinary funky gender who mostly presents masculine but I also have flannel lesbian vibes. I'm just a weird little squirt. hexbear-non-binary

[-] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 6 months ago

[-] milistanaccount09@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] Chronicon@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] Nomisslehere@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-smile

[-] Anxious_Anarchist@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

[-] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

Cis but hexbear-bi-2

[-] chicken@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

dean-frown

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