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I've been posting a lot lately But I seem like I'm controversial no matter what I post. I came from Reddit with over 2 million karma during the API controversy. Should I keep posting or give up on Lemmy?

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[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago

Lemmy is VERY hateful. In some cases more than Reddit because we have less people but more radical. the amount of hate one can get just because it mentioned specific words is insane. There is no debate here, if you mention a couple of specific topics and trigger words you are sent to hell.

And I'm not even talking about .ml, that place is psychotic.

[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 5 points 3 hours ago

More content is good in a system like Lemmy which is designed around filtering. So continue posting!

[–] Paulemeister@feddit.org 6 points 4 hours ago

I think Lemmy (or the Fediverse in a broader sense) really benefits from everyone in it to just output as much as possible. More interaction, more content, more people coming for that content. If somebody does not like what you have to say they can just block you (or if it's really hateful be banned)

[–] M137@lemmy.world 20 points 11 hours ago

What you should do is stop caring about "karma", it has no value (even more so here, it's not even a thing). Don't do things to get likes, do them because you like doing them and/or think they can help others.

[–] Arachnidbrilliant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 11 hours ago

Over 2 million karma. Ooh La La dork jk

[–] G00d4y0u@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago

All posting here is useful at this point

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I have you at +10, so you’re at least posting things I find meaningful. That being said, you post a lot of political things, so expect to bring many sides of the conversation to light. The fediverse has more types than Reddit.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

how do you score another person? I didn't know that was a feature

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

On the voyager app there is a feature that shows the upvotes you’ve given someone (as a green number next to their name). Unless they are a troll, in which case it would probably be a negative number and red.

[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It's nothing crazy. He just spends a couple of weeks following you around and going through your stuff when you aren't home.

[–] TomArrr@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Can ya tell 'em to stop moving my bloody remote then!

[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

You have to remember to keep your remote clean. Some people never clean their remotes and he ends up pushing them all over the house trying to lick the remotes clean.

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Ok, I'll start removing the batteries instead and place it where it was then.

[–] TomArrr@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Ghngrhnggrhn.

Always finding more diabolical ways. 😉

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 16 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

None of us are useful to Lemmy because Lemmy is not "useful." Lemmy is a shit-pile of all of our combined thoughts and efforts. So, while no social media site is "useful," Lemmy brings us a place to be entertained and informed/misinformed.

Most of your posts are shit. Most of my posts are shit. While we each usually shit in our own corners, we occasionally look at each other's shit and say, "hmmm... This shit stinks." Or, "this shit is a little nutty and I like that!" And even less frequently, we cross paths while shitting and our shit combines to create a new type of shit that other people can enjoy.

So, don't try to measure your Lemmy "usefulness" based on karma, and instead focus on the shit. I often appreciate your shit, and your username always gives me a chuckle. Whether anyone likes it or not, all of our shit makes Lemmy's shit the shit it is.

[–] jeffep@lemmy.world 5 points 16 hours ago

There is is, listen to uncle/auntie fartographer.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago

Well that was shitty. I like it. Thank you Sir or Madame Fartographer.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

I generally appreciate what you're doing

[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 12 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (3 children)

A screenshot from the Voyager app showing that I have upvoted return2ozma over 600 times.

I appreciate you, @return2ozma@lemmy.world and if you left us it would be a major loss.

I pay no attention to down-voters. The growing popularity of the fediverse brings as many bad people with it as good ones.

The Rick and Morty meme where Rick says “Your boos mean nothing, I’ve seen what makes you cheer!”

[–] aeharding@vger.social 3 points 15 hours ago

608? That’s my area code 😆

@return2ozma@lemmy.world you are appreciated!!

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

Thank you! I'll keep on keeping on

[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

Only you can answer that.

[–] toynbee@piefed.social 5 points 15 hours ago

Are you useful? How would I get to Ozma without you?

[–] FritzApollo@lemmy.today 3 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

I for one am deeply offended by this post. Deeply offended. It has ruined my day. I am now crying.

[–] Furbag@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

I see people complain about you a lot, but I've never felt like anything you've contributed to Lemmy has been negative or harmful.

Let the haters hate. Block exists for a reason. If those losers blocked you and every other superposter who provides content they'd complain that nobody posts anything.

As you said, you can't make everyone happy no matter what you do. Just do what you feel like you want to do right now.

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 10 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Let go of the thought that updoots matter and you will find harmony.

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[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 14 hours ago

Your post history seems positive though, maybe I'm sorting wrong

[–] kepix@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

sounds to me, you take social media too seriously

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Every person that logs in and interacts in good faith in some way is useful to Lemmy.

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[–] GreenShimada@lemmy.world 179 points 1 day ago

The question isn't if you're useful to Lemmy or not. We don't deserve to exert any weight on your heart with opinions and upvotes.

Are you doing something you think is worth your time, with or without external validation? Is this something you would do if you thought it was basically the internet version of putting messages in a bottle?

When you are old and on your death bed, what will the value of your reddit karma be? What is the value of it now?

Do things that matter to you. Do things that help you grow and be a better person.

[–] aGlassDarkly@piefed.zip 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I disagree with your takes sometimes (although not since I switched to PieFed), but you always have an argument and I’ve never seen you have one I couldn’t see any merit in. As good as it gets, imo.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

Appreciate it.

[–] MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Seems like a bit of a "pickme" post. You do you, don't worry about your 2 million updoots on reddit.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I might have posted after a night out drinking. Oops

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People are always going to have varying opinions, that doesn't mean they have to break up. We are going to butt heads sometimes, that doesn't mean we also cant tell each other how nice those jeans make each other's ass look. So I'm going to say you filling them out real nice. Haha, on a serious note, I hope your doing well. Inbox is always open if you need to rant to someone

[–] socsa@piefed.social 2 points 15 hours ago

Hm, give me a million karma and I think I can help you out

[–] king_comrade@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I appreciate you mate 🫂

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago
[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 72 points 1 day ago

Ask not if you are useful to Lemmy. Ask if Lemmy is useful to you.

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 99 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you enjoy posting? That's all that really matters in the end. Karma is pointless.

Controversy can actually be good, as long as you're not saying stuff simply to provoke it for its own sake. If I wanted to only speak to something that agreed with everything I said I could just go tell an AI to act that way and waste my time there. Should communities be insular bubbles where everyone believes the exact same things?

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

No. But here people are not worried about debating. A long time ago I posted something I thought it was cute but i didn't know it was a trigger for Lemmy. No joke I got 5 dms hating on me. One of them really heavy.

I like different opinions but lemmy does not

[–] firelight@startrek.website 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

As long as you're posting something, you're contributing.

I personally prefer controversy because that means people are saying what they want, not just what other people want to hear.

[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago

You're wrong, fuck you, and shut the fuck up!

;-)

[–] brendansimms@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago

Controversial posts that get engagement are probably thought-provoking and worthy of discussion. Discussion is much more important than karmafarming. Continue!

[–] gurty@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Don’t stress about it. I think reddit gives people an unhealthy mindset about how internet forums are.

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[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

When you know the crowd downvotes are more satisfying than upvotes.

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