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How the fuck do people don't get radical or depressed?

Leaning into the former and channeling it into real world action with a community helps with the latter.

I left the US before the current idiot's first term and have only set foot back there twice to see family. It still bothers and depresses me.

I still vote and being a US citizen still makes my financial life pain, but it otherwise doesn't impact me directly. I suspect most of my family is generally happy with the direction of things (though not all). That makes it worse.

Hobbies, such as photography. Which brings me to my question...

Anyone know what camera, lens and film-stock (or if digital, what settings) were used to capture that look in the screenshot posted? I love it. It's a still from "The Mastermind" and I haven't been able to find any technical specs on the production.

By royally fucking up an art heist because you're bored?

By actively opposing those three things. Get involved. It is fun. Get the next mamdani elected

Well I’m about to go into an inpatient treatment center because I can’t figure it out and the voice in my head telling me to run away is starting to panic and consider other options for leaving so I’ll let you know if I figure it out while I’m there

A few months ago, I was out in the front lines fighting against ICE kidnapping my neighbors and family.

A few weeks ago, I'm watching more and more socialist Democrats rise up to sit in positions of powers.

So I do get radical. I protest and make sure my voice is heard. I make sure everyone knows this is a big fucking problem. And I don't have time to get depressed because if I'm not out there, ICE wins and kidnaps another neighbor.

Cannabis. Lots and lots of cannabis.

Also spending time in communities with other people targeted by the regime and organizing resistance. Those are probably more important lol

By remembering how bad the past sucked. How much better off I am as a woman now, than at almost any time in the past - even if we are going in the wrong direction, still better off than even my mom was. My mom was alive for the integration of schools, alive when women could not open bank accounts in her state, we have made plenty of progress. Violence is less than 1/10th of what it was here when I was a kid.

Yes inequality sucks, because there are now enough resources for everyone. But it doesn't suck like the middle ages, or the 1930s, or any time before that.

By not living in the US, stopping reading American news, and focusing on improving the small slice of the world that I can.

Find a supportive and fulfilling community that is trying to make things better locally. I've found this at my Unitarian Universalist (UU) church. UU's don't believe in a shared religious text, instead they have a core set of shared values. During World War 2, UUs helped Jewish people and other oppressed peoples escape the Nazis to other countries with a system of safe houses and creating travel documents. They identified safe houses with a flaming oil chalice in the window, which is now the main symbol of UUism.

My church has people who identify as atheist, Christian, several types of pagan, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, etc. We celebrate religious holidays from all of them as well as secular holidays like Trans Day of Visibility and Earth day. The focus is on being together and trying to make the world a better place. There's active volunteer groups for hunger relief, housing support, the environment, and LGBTQ support. I also really like the music program. There's a handy website to find a congregation near you, many stream services on Zoom so you can test them out before going in person. They can vary a lot based on the members of each congregation.

1. I avoid following the news and bully every right wing fascist that crosses my path.
2. I avoid following the news and bully every misogynist that crosses my path.
3. I avoid following the news and shower any marginalized person that crosses my path with love.

Bonus: I slap a "free all Palestinian prisoners" sticker onto street lamps every now and then.

How the fuck do people don't get radical or depressed?

That's the fun part, we do

I don't think there is any single answer to this that works for everyone?

If you feel public protests or political activism are a good release for your frustrations, go for it. If you feel you need some escapism, try to avoid addiction/substance abuse but don't beat yourself up if you wind up there. Find help.

For me, community engagement has helped. It doesn't come naturally as I'm an introverted sort, but I find community-building activities therapeutic. And yes, I do encounter the occasional maga type or whatever. I try not to slam the door on them though. It's usually some common interest that brought us together, and I try to work from there.

Resist. Join a protest, help out with a campaign or org, pushback when you see it online. Everything, no matter how big or how small counts. It increases the net good in the world and it also helps your own mental health.

I watch soccer, mostly. Some hockey and basketball too.

Spite, malice, alcohol and the willpower to outlive those fascist bastards. 🤷‍♀️

I'm also doing shitloads of music...

By watching less news (expect on a specific time) & social media.

Training, preparing.

I just try to keep in mind that even though shits rough right now its still better than just about any time in the history of humanity for the largest number of people. The fact we want better is good and is the only way we will get it. That said, trying to keep the historical context of quality of life is helpful. Less time in doom areas of the internet. I also do a good bit for my local community (volunteering and donating some things I produce on my farm)

Right wing fascists are losing steam in the US, so there's that.

Drugs & Anime.

By not living in the US basically.

There will be uprisings and there will be civil war. I mentally preparing myself to make extremely difficult choices.

Humans are sheep, and the best way to defeat fascists is to destroy everything that gives them that kind of power, but that will only make things worse for everyone, because it's factories, supermarkets with cheap food, and so on, and without them, we'd have to go back to the pre-industrial era without the internet.

So I'm just waiting for their empire to fall apart like rome, they're crazy though not idiots, so they'll probably destroy themselves.

Be white male. World never chsnges.