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[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 123 points 1 month ago

Still means "bested" to me. I'm not hip to sexual slang.

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 61 points 1 month ago

Clearly you are if you know what type of slang "topped" is lol

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 108 points 1 month ago

At my age I just assume anything I don't know is sexual.

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 67 points 1 month ago

Don't you come "bussin' no cap" at me young man, I'm happily married.

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 31 points 1 month ago
[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 month ago

Are you... are you hitting on me?

[-] Syltti@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

Reading all this, I gotta ask; Did it work?

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 month ago

Yes, veroxii and I are married now.

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[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 month ago

Neil : "Ah, here's one. This means that someone has just done something which has never been done before. 'Richard Moore of Sugarland, Texas, hollowed out an eggplant and filled it with hot sauce and nickels.' And amazingly, it's not a weird sex thing. 99% of all new human behaviors are weird sex things. But not in this-- oh, no, it is a weird sex thing, yeah."

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 27 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's clearly sexual from the context of the meme. Pretty much any time this happens, it's sexual in nature. Otherwise it would just be confusing rather than presented as humorous.

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 1 month ago

"Topping" means taking an active role in sex, whereas "bottoming" is a passive role.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.de 19 points 1 month ago

Nyeah... partly.

If that were entirely true, a "power bottom" would make no sense.

The terms sexual usage originated in gay circles where it only delineates who penetrates and who gets penetrated. Traditional views on sex ascribe a submissive or passive role to the bottom and an active or dominating role to the top, but you can totally have a power bottom who takes control and an active role in the intercourse but is the one getting penetrated.

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[-] meleethecat@lemmy.world 90 points 1 month ago

At least she didn’t pull a boner.

[-] thesporkeffect@lemmy.world 38 points 1 month ago

I'll show them how many boners Betty can make!!

[-] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

She can pull three boners simultaneously

[-] AceQuorthon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 65 points 1 month ago

My favorite is the Nixon campaign buttons that says "They Can't Lick Our Dick"

[-] the_joeba@lemmy.world 85 points 1 month ago

That's not a language change, they knew.

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[-] merc@sh.itjust.works 62 points 1 month ago
[-] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 month ago
[-] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

You shall rue this day apparently.

[-] Johanno@feddit.de 16 points 1 month ago

What's the actual meaning of boner?

[-] gwen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 1 month ago
[-] x4740N@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago

I'm assuming boner here means mistake but actual boners can be mistakes sometimes and lead to unintended consequences

[-] OmnislashIsACloudApp@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I half remember being told this originally came from bonehead. so like a bonehead would make a mistake like that. which then got shortened to boner.

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[-] Maven@lemmy.zip 55 points 1 month ago
[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 54 points 1 month ago

Good for her.

[-] Silentiea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 1 month ago

I dunno, the looks on the bystanders faces implies it's got the same impact as it might today.

[-] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 month ago

Get topped idiot

[-] butter@midwest.social 30 points 1 month ago

What is this supposed to have meant?

[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 115 points 1 month ago

She got one upped, outdone, lost to her rival, and now needs to take it in ass again from her.

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 51 points 1 month ago

Mmmhmm, yup, yeah, wait...wut??

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I've seen the source, it's all true. That's why they eventually formed a poly triangle with Archie, and, occasionally, The Predator.

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[-] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

But as an old fucker, I don't know the current meaning.

[-] fushuan@lemm.ee 16 points 1 month ago

the same one, but it's used in a sexual context. Being the top is being the dominant one on a relationship, sexually speaking.

[-] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Oohhhhhhhh. Thanks

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[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago

Something like "one-upped", I believe.

[-] TeoTwawki@lemmy.world 28 points 1 month ago
[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 25 points 1 month ago

Bottom energy.

[-] germanatlas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 month ago

I wish that was me

[-] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 1 month ago

!yurimemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago

If you want some cultural whiplash, read the first Archie comic. You'll know why when you get there.

I read it, no clue what you were referring to

[-] Daxtron2@startrek.website 6 points 1 month ago

I read it just and there was definitely some very 1940s lingo but was there one in specific that you were referring to?

[-] TheRealLinga@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago
[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago
[-] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 26 points 1 month ago

lol I'm not reading 60 pages of ancient manga for a single joke

[-] x4740N@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago

*comic

It's not from Japan

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[-] mctoasterson@reddthat.com 9 points 1 month ago

This apparently changed around the same time people stopped using "Give 'em the high hard one".

[-] don@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago

As another example, the man isn’t queer at all.

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