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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

if you have a preferred week please tell me

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Not me crying reading each of the mass extinctions because all life could have ended (spoiler it didn't)

I've gone soft :doggirl-cry:

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 3 hours ago

It's OK to be soft. You just need to learn how to shift between soft and hard. It is a key martial principle

[โ€“] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I've gone soft

Common experience for trans women!

In many different senses of "soft" bridget-smug

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

catgirl-cry I just realised there's still more work to do for today.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

Nothing worse

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

health

I don't know if this nausea is the symptom of exhaustion or what but I'm so fucking nauseous I can barely focus or think. I constantly feel like vomiting but there's nothing coming out.

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 48 minutes ago

spoilerIf I wake up too early or stay up to late, I get nauseous suddenly too~

You also said you were feeling unwell for about a week too right?

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 4 hours ago

I'm sure at this point y'all are sick (pun intended) of me not taking care of my health. Idk what's even the point of posting this anymore.

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 8 points 6 hours ago (4 children)

gross gastrointestinal stuff

I really gotta sort out this whole "regularly painful, bloody bowel movements thing" cause it's gotten quite old. Especially given my growing interest in recreational activities in that area...

I have a bunch of chia seeds I haven't broken into. Might try to make some chia fresca? Or start adding them in some overnight oats

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 1 points 49 minutes ago

spoilerRegular painful bloody stools are unusual and concerning and you should not be having them. And its not a "quick diet fix" thing potentially. It could be a lot of stuff, so you should see a real life professional about them.

GI bleeds can be serious, but crohns, anal fissure or hemorrhoids, an STI, all can be treated and you dont have to keep living with painful bloody stools. And I dont wanna shock ya, but colon cancer is on the rise in the under 40s age group and if you have a family history for it you should definitely be seeing a doctor. If it is that, you will be very thankful at 60 you saw someone so early about it. But theres plenty of other things it could be.

You said youve been engaging in sexual activity with that so maybe you just have some internal wound and itll just be some tests and maybe abx and rest and then get back to it later~

[โ€“] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

That sounds like a real problem. Do you have some kind of food allergy or intolerance?

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

No, I think it's just shitty diet leading to constipation which is difficult to pass. I've had spells where everything is more regular and there's no pain or blood or anything

Pretty sure some GI issues like Crones can have flare ups and quite spells.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

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This needs medical intervention and not necessarily chia seeds.

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago

We're on that food as medicine grind, trust

[โ€“] Busgirl@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Have you gotten a colonoscopy?

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

No, they don't usually do those until you're older right? And I feel like the first thing they'd tell me if I brought it up was "have you tried getting more fiber?"

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Bowel cancer is rising disproportionately in people under 50 for reasons that are unknown. They're scoping young people more often now, not to freak you out though.

I didn't have any issue getting one when I was under 30.

Granted, it didn't find anything.

They don't usually do them on young people - unless you have recurring gi problems such as bloody stools.

[โ€“] SickSemper@hexbear.net 6 points 8 hours ago

Swear to god I keep reading the mega titled as removedversary

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 5 points 11 hours ago

Me, working on literature review in da library without eating lunch

Random girl, goes around distributing home-made banana bread because why not

[โ€“] Arahnya@hexbear.net 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 10 hours ago

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 20 hours ago

Life is so much better when you have a piece of media to obsess over

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Think I'm going to try taping my tits, they're actually not that small and I'm getting paranoid again

[โ€“] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 5 points 14 hours ago

A far-too-small strapless sports bra works quite well I find. Probably not good if you do actually want breast growth though

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 9 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

cw: transphobia, depression, suicidal ideation probably more

so i'm apparently too depressed to get surgeries that i need according to the trans clinic. ive been suicidal already due to...well, many things, and this certainly wont help.

im very tired

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

cuddle

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What is the logic behind this even supposed to be? Do they think suicidal people are children who can't make their own decisions?

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 9 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

cuddle

spoilerbetter to prevent a thousand trans people from getting the proper treatment than allow one cis person to accidentally transition

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago

Cisiety is so fucking disgusting

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 12 hours ago

spoilerFundamentally how people pretty much everywhere think, they value other cis people that much more then us.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

meow-hug I'm sorry

spoilerIts so unfair how you are both expected to visibly need surgery, having it effect you in some way, but also not be too depressed

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 5 points 19 hours ago

meow-hug thanks

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you also need to not be depressed, suicidal or abusing drugs or alcohol to even get on hrt here. until a few years back you had to be provably sterile to change your official papers, but that changed atleast.

yet if you complain you're hit with: " but imagine if you lived in a horrifying brown people country"

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I keep opening reddit up like there's anything good there and I really need to log off, been sliding into TTTT shit and I don't need those brainworms in my life. I got jrpgs to obsess over, fanfics to write and shit to read but the damn muscle memory of opening up a reddit tab is powerful negative

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 22 hours ago

Internet just becoming a few sites and the sites you repost shit from those site has been a mistake fr

[โ€“] The_Dawn@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have never felt very connected to "pride" stuff but I'm also struggling w feeling disconnected from my community + I could go for kissing some strangers. Hmph what to do ๐Ÿฅฑ

[โ€“] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You'd feel more connected if you went and kissed some strangers, I bet.

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[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

The lesbianic event turned out pretty well! I even danced for the first time ever and it actually turns out nobody tried to best me to death with hammers okay-okay I was a little disappointed that I didn't get hit on, I thought my outfit was okay... although I was joined at the hip with my friend most of the time so maybe people just assumed

Was also taking with them about relationships while waiting for the bus and they asked if I had a type... And I was like isn't it obvious? I have the constitution of a prey animal dude

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Seeing old 3d sonic levels recreated in P-06 is nice but seeing the same enemies from 06 over and over again is getting tiring. Saw one recently recreating sky troops from shadow the hedgehog and it look ok but suddenly it goes off to do a bit of heroes before going back to shadow. Idk I'm missing older enemies more than just what 06 had to offer

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Stayed up way too late being a horny bitch and am now paying for it

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