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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

HELLO THIS IS THE MEGA SIGN UP POST/LIST POST

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[–] CARCOSA@hexbear.net 22 points 1 month ago (3 children)

This last spring was my 13th year hormonersary. Such an unreal thing to write, even more unreal to be a part of such a vibrant community here. Love you all doggirl-kiss

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 21 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (9 children)

Well chat, forget what I said the other day about people not being able to see, my fav coworker (knows I'm on hrt tbf) pointed them out and said I'm "blossoming". Talked about me needing to wear a bra. "You've got tits!". Was swimming (also tbf, with a shirt on ofc). She also said I'm glowing so I guess my better mood is visible too :) That I am very visibly doing better. Had a really good talk with her tonight. And I'll see her again on Saturday!

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (3 children)

My parents love my gf and they haven't even spoken to her (language barrier). They know she's trans and love her still my dad's gonna pray for her same with his church buddies but so she'd can pass her exam she's studying for. Having great parents and an amazing gf really is a blessing, things may not always work out in my career but at least I got love in abundance cat-trans

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

my dad's gonna pray for her same with his church buddies but so she can pass

need this energy

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Since a bunch of other people were saying it, I'm 8 months hrt, a little over two years since I accepted I am trans.

I can't really complain about what hrt has done so far but I definitely need my tits to keep growing for a while longer... really glad at the body hair reduction though I got super lucky, shaved like 5 days ago and its still basically nothing. Wish E did more but for what it does I've been doing okay I think. Need more tits.

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[–] Wisconcom@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I have concluded that I am in fact non-binary. I feel happy the way I am (e.g. long hair but wearing formal male clothing) and don't feel the need to transition into being a female. With that being said, I do not feel like a man and do not want to have to live up to toxic masculinity.

Anyways, happy pride month! cat-trans

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[–] Valarie@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I hit one year on hrt the 12th

Estrodiol is amazing

Already gone from an a to a b and feel so much happier with myself in general

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Really weird that I'm trans

I don't have anything to post about my little transgender life though. Started my summer job today and it's very chill. There's also a guy here who might be gay? Has gay vibes.

But it definitely is weird that I'm trans

[–] Lowleekun@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Congrats on 2 years, celebrating my first month.

Today I got my name and gender entry legally changed. Feels amazing.

Happy Pride to yall

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

Today is the 2nd anniversary of deciding to transition!! In 2 weeks will be my 2nd HRT anniversary. Thanks to all the DIY suppliers for making it quick and painless to get started.

[–] Better_with_Gender@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

MedicalI had to go to a sexual health clinic for some matter, and ended up having to mention I was trans. And it was perfectly fine!? It was a clinic oriented towards LGBT+ people but Medical places generally make me uncomfortable (recent news doesn't help). They gave me some info for injections and also mentioned that if I ever have lumps developing around my breasts that don't feel normal I should get them checked there. Anyone heard of this/know more about this?

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[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago

I'm getting pretty good at makeup! Hrt has been doing work on my body, my wardrobe is getting pretty good too.

I'm so hot trans-heart

2 years on HRT

I love that for you, congratulations trans-heart

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

made it out to the trans gathering I had been putting off forever. It was scary but mostly in a good way. I’m a little overwhelmed though.

comparison is the thief of joyI wasn’t comparing myself to that many other women because I hadn’t seen anyone since I began transition (hermit life), but fuck me there were so many gorgeous girls and I feel so hopelessly inadequate. I know everything in its time and everyone’s transition is different but Jesus Christ I really thought I was doing fine in my own lane at my own pace and this shattered that. It was really nice to be there and meet all these people, see some friends I hadn’t seen in the months since coming out, but I can’t get over how great everyone looked (fine) and how I feel in comparison (bad)

I also used my sorta deadname in introductions and it just confirmed I never want to do that again. I was too scared to use the new one but turns out that was stupid and made me feel worse.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (8 children)

spoilerReal. I was just thinking last night as I was falling asleep how that I look like a slightly weird, gross man and then this morning I see someone barely on hrt longer then me who looks and sounds great. Probably passes to most cis people. I don't even get called my name by my queer friends.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

ハッピー・プラむド!!

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's pretty fucked up that they make trans people pay taxes.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Like not even a joke. No healthcare, no protections, etc. should get to be exempt.

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I hear so many trans girls complain about their experiences with providers but I've had mostly good luck with that. My previous provider retired recently so I saw a new one for the first time today. I braced myself a little since it's always hard going in without knowing what to expect, but he turned out to be really good. Some highlights:

  • Approved of me stopping spiro on my own when I switched to injections, said that I didn't need it and spiro is a terrible drug
  • Said to just let him know if I break a vial or whatever and he'd order another, no questions
  • Told me he likes to keep track of overall health because it's sometimes neglected with other trans providers
  • Just seemed to give a shit about trans patients as a whole
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[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago
[–] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

Happy pride and death to america and england

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I put the demon in pride month

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Hi my lovely trans comrades, I love all of you, haven't posted here for too long. I am doing well on the girl front I think, I get a lot of compliments for my thrift store outfits, and seem to be quite good at girl. Else, electro is a lot harder to organize when working even just a bit. Oh well, at least I am really good at shaving now(the tricks are oil, cleaning the razorblade after each use and regular skin care.)

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Happy pride month! Laws no longer apply to us this month meow-fiesta

During Pride Month - Leroy

[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

congratulations on your tranniversary, tucker carlson. i hope you got a good stat boost.

[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Was helping my sister move yesterday (went from 11am to 10:30pm, I'm a walking corpse today) and when my dad and I were at her new place to unload we met the neighbors, straight couple and their 2 kids. My dad introduced himself as my sister's dad of course, and then the mom looked and me and went "are you [sister]?" before thinking the better of it after a second and saying "no, you're not [sister]".

Wasn't wearing makeup or anything flattering so maybe we take that as a partial dub?

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm 15 months on the HRT.

I'd already been lastering my body and taking finasteride for a couple of years so my hair was long and phenomenal. I started with pretty wide hips weirdly and I'd lost a lot of weight rowing.

I've been eating so much. So I've got decent breast growth. My breasts would be big on a smaller girl. My butt is coming in nicely. I gained an inches in height from confidence.

Skins been great. I'm losing the puppy fat ageless look but I look way different to before. Clocky but different.

Mentally it really helped.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Good night gay people and happy pride

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Yes I want a perfect body, yes I want a perfect soul. However I DO care if it hurts. I want it to be easy thank you

[–] ozmathewitch@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Happy Tranniversary!! My 2 year mark is in two weeks!!

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I struggle with being able to be proud a lot, in like the community sense but also in just taking pride in myself... but I try to remember that it's good to take pride in small things, and when things are difficult there's even pride to be taken in just surviving and making it to the next day.

even if it's something I struggle in being kind to myself about, but

I'm proud of all of you, every time you make it to tomorrow

[–] rafflesia@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

heaven help this girl flirting with me, she's opening pandora's box by giving me attention doggirl-smug

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

Still having trouble accepting aging. I'm in the late stage era of being considered young, so I'm really trying to use the time I have to make peace with the future ._.

Between transition shifting life milestones around and not being interested in things like starting a f*mily, I feel pretty out of sync with life.

Best I can do now is keep a good skincare routine and brace for the future. Aging will happen whether I'm ready or not. Maybe I'll look back in a decade and think how silly my worries were.

absolutely-safe-capsule

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I guess we doin life updates now

Tomorrow is 500 days on HRT, about 6.5 months on injections and 2.5 months on prog. I should probably be happier about how things are going but I still find ways to fret. Mainly just wrapped up in feeling terminally undesirable and like the stench of maleness is never gonna go away. But probably like 20% a real problem 80% in my own head

I have decided to do a new name though. below is the list of interesting ones I'm working off of. Let me know if you find any of them particularly nice (or bad ig)

Riley

  • Con: "Primarily male" :/

Rory

  • Con: Means "red king", too Gilmore Girls

Rosalind/Rosa/Rose

  • Pro: repping Rosalinde Franklin, plus my old Fallen London character

  • Con: Too common?

Runeille? (Made up for a DnD character, pronounced Roo-NAIL)

  • Pro: Unique, good story behind it

  • Con: Completely made up

Ruby (Latin, gemstone)

  • Pro: Classic

  • Con: Ruby isn't my birthstone, Ruby Tuesday's

Riona? (Irish Gaelic, pronounced Ree-nah or Ree-oh-na)

  • Pro: Irish, funny story

  • Con: Kinda weird

Ria

Remy (Remy Hadley/Thirteen from House!)

Rhea (Rhea Seehorn my goat)

Runa (swedish, "secret moon")

Rowen/Rowan ("Scottish/Irish, "little redhead)

Red

  • Pro: Videogame name

  • Con: Videogame name

Robina (like Robina the Hood)

Aurora (can be shortened to Rora or Rory)

  • Pros: Nice origin

  • Neutral: Doesn't start with R

  • Cons: Fairly popular

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

It's weird that breast growth was one of the things I was super nervous about liking when I was first figuring out I'm trans and now I just can't wait for them. They're like, noticeable enough for me but like, no one else could enjoy lol.

Why am I like this 😭

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I warned yall. I said, oh soon enough you'll be begging for them to be bigger. Every time a pre HRT trans girl says "oh but it might not be hideable" I always say youre gonna wish they were bigger before your first year HRT anniversary.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Congrats on two years :cat-trans:

[–] meler@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

kink, nsfwDominant who commands their sub exclusively with Bop It voice lines

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[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Since my parents live in a super liberal city I'm sure they're being bombarded with pride month stuff and I wonder what it makes them feel like. I especially wonder about my dad who might even have to say some words about pride at work.

Oh I'm sure both my parents can lie through their teeth, but I do get some smug satisfaction that for a whole month they're going to have to taste the rainbow and I didn't even have to lift a finger catgirl-smug

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Got tacos for taco Tuesday and I'm so fat and happy

[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Dating is too hard I can't do it

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[–] soyaEnjoyer@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

crashed out hard in my trans group's discord at the weekend and i'm so ashamed. may the bourgeoisie perish in minecraft.

It’s one and a half years since I started hrt now. My tits continue to fill in, I have an actual cute butt thats way better than the Hank hill man ass I had, my face looks so much softer and more feminine. I’m so excited for the changes to keep coming. HRT is amazing.

[–] SickSemper@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (12 children)

reflection on comparisonOops it wasn’t hotness or β€œpassability” I was envious of, it was the self confidence to be out in public. And I know I’m working on the same thing (I was there wasn’t I!?), so even if I was a bit butch, it’s all part of the process and not worth being ashamed of. Just need to shake off the fear of being perceived/embrace it as a fact of trans

I am tired of the half closeted state I’m still in, need to rip the bandaid off

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